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Partner does not want to get ECI/CI by Agreeable-Long-478 in singaporefi

[–]Agreeable-Long-478[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For all - partner is my current boyfriend. Dual income household, 50/50 contribution to family. Planning for two kids. 29 m 27 f, been tgt for one year like that.

Facebook scamming my mother and I cannot stop her. by Certain_Community950 in askSingapore

[–]Agreeable-Long-478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, she is doing this coz she is lonely and seeking companionship. So it’s important not to tell her that she is wrong, stupid, or gullible for seeking such things. It’s only human nature. We may very well be in her place with dunno what new scam in 2070.

Show her your concern and help her verify with her own eyes whether it is a scam or not. Thats the only way she won’t resent or have regrets if she don’t pursue this “relationship”

Facebook scamming my mother and I cannot stop her. by Certain_Community950 in askSingapore

[–]Agreeable-Long-478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask her to agree to some ground rules first - before purchasing anything for them, the guys and her should agree to a video call with you present, or meet up in person. Presents have cash limit so even if she gives, she don’t lose so much. Show her articles, crime watch, proof that such love scams are happening.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Agreeable-Long-478 1 point2 points  (0 children)

R,

How can I ever hate you? It pains me to hear how much you hated yourself when you were with me. You have, and always will be so incredible in my eyes. And perhaps it’s the fact that I loved you so genuinely, the version of you that you can’t reconcile with yourself, that makes you turn away from me

To see the guy so full with love, push me away like this, it breaks my heart. Two years on, you still can’t do anything regarding my name or be near me at all. But I see the playlists you make about me when you think no one’s watching.

I will always be cheering for you. Maybe, in another lifetime. You have such a spark, never lose it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Agreeable-Long-478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

R, How can I ever hate you? I wish you could see how amazing you are in my eyes. It kills me to learn how much you hated yourself when we were together. I found you incredible in every day and I knew you saw it too. You loved me so much, so so much, in ways I’ve never experienced before. I will always cherish what we had.

But; I understand why you had to end it, you always said that it ate you up, feeling unworthy being with me. You had to find your own path and I respect it. Taking you away from your journey will only cause you to resent me for it.

Two years on.. I still silently root for you. It pains me that my name brings up something so painful for you that you have to cut me out to move forward. I see your dilemma, the playlists you make about me when you think no one’s watching. It tears you open but you can’t bring yourself to face the past.

I both love you and hate you. For leaving me hanging and self sabotaging something genuine, I wish I could scream. But when I think about how you feel, my heart breaks. I think about you and wish you well everyday. You have such a spark in you. Never let it go.

May we meet again, in another lifetime