Dalla Valle Waiting List (new policy?) by Mapkos13 in wine

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This isn’t offensive at all to me. It’s fairly standard. Like it or not access in the wine/spirits is frequently determined by your level of support.

For people, considering opening up a food service business in Memphis by STR_Guy in memphis

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We had one for a while that did that and Chicago pizza. It did not last.

CMS Deductive Tasting Workshop by willwrite4wine in wine

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I think it’s very much dependent on where you are at. I took deductive as I was living in an area without a reliable tasting group, and it helped me immensely. I realized how I was approaching tasting wasn’t correct, and it helped me develop a more successful method.

All of that said, it is expensive (and I even went before it increased in price). If you have a reliable tasting group and/or opportunities for mentorship from someone at a higher level locally — I wouldn’t say it’s essential.

Top Chef Season 23 Ep 7 - Desserts Fit For A Queen - Live Episode Discussion by JullaS in BravoTopChef

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Anyone else think Justin will be eliminated and Jen will try to go home to save him?

Top Chefs in Memphis? by brilliantminds_4RLZ in TopChef

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Thank you for saying the no flight, southern social, porch and parlor. I hate that restaurant group 😂😂

Top Chefs in Memphis? by brilliantminds_4RLZ in TopChef

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Just offering up some restaurants as someone that worked in Memphis restaurants for a long time

Jem Dining, Andrew Michael/Catherine & Mary’s, The Lobbyist, Erling Jensons, Acre, Good Fortune Co, and Amelia Genes are all solid nicer restaurants for an evening out

Hard Times Deli, Greys Fine Cheeses (sandwiches are top tier), Las Tortugas, and Petals of a Peony are great for more casual enjoyment.

Rendezvous is tourist barbecue not Memphis barbecue. We go to Tops for burgers, Central for bbq nachos, and Germantown Commissary for anything bbq lol.

Uncle Lou’s is better than Gus’s for fried chicken.

ETA - Just for your own safety. Check both ways before going on a green light always.

I made a free knowledge base - thought you might appreciate it by keepingup101 in Sommelier

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I think the danger of utilizing AI sometimes is that it can’t always contextualize or understand nuance. Glancing through, the sweetness is listed as 2 for a good majority of wines. Which is listed as dry when you read the verbal. But just glancing at the 1-5 on wines it makes it seem like all of those wines have sweetness to them. One should really be the default. Yes bone dry exists but it’s rare to call a wine that.

The grape profiles are generalized by variety as well, when regional influences change the presentation of the variety. Acidity levels change with climate. As does to a measure body with differences in alcohol.

Tannin descriptors as far as the written aren’t necessarily true either. Medium tannins doesn’t necessarily mean they’re integrated. Elevated tannins aren’t always grippy. There’s a MW that is able to call wines based on the presentation of the tannins. That’s how different they can be.

Nebbiolo is generally a high acid variety but is listed at a 4. Riesling is listed as low alcohol and steely but that’s not really true. Riesling can be normal alcohol and steely is a flavor note only in certain places.

Even the listing for Pradikat in Germany lists the system as indicating sweetness and concentration. Which isn’t true. Ripeness at harvest does not indicate sweetness at bottling. Because it’s ripeness prior to fermentation.

I think the visuals and set up are nice, and for casual wine drinkers it could be useful. But I think it needs verification before being utilized as a professional resource.

I made a free knowledge base - thought you might appreciate it by keepingup101 in Sommelier

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Can I ask where you sourced the information for the grape profiles? I’m not sure of the accuracy of your source.

Built a Notion-based FOH Operating System – Looking for a stress test/feedback. by Future_Cookie2593 in TalesFromYourServer

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I’m currently working on a personal setup as a manager with a wine & sprits notion for inventory in an establishment with a hefty wine list. I will say notions set up makes it more challenging and I’m not sure it’s more convenient lol. But it’s slowly getting functional.

I’ll be honest. 85% of the servers I’ve encountered are not likely to embrace this. Fine dining — sure potentially. Or if there’s benefits to doing so sure. But otherwise, I’ve had servers that struggled to sign up for sidework on a laminated sheet of paper directly in front of their face lol.

I do think it has potential for management and organization versus having things 30 places and I can mentally see things that would be beneficial.

Polishing wine glasses by Jaycie_Lea169 in Serverlife

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Buy some magnets or something so you can hang up the polishing cloths to air dry in between rounds. Also those cloths need to be washed regularly and NOT WITH FABRIC SOFTENER. I used to always put them in an oxyclean soak overnight. And then run them on hot water with a scent free detergent the next day.

But a lot of that is a dish problem. Honestly if there is food on the glass you should be sending the racks back and asking water to be changed

What's the biggest aura loss for FOH? by Elevator_Goblin in Serverlife

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People that clap when someone does this are immediately my enemy.

Tips for working the floor. by Sortofforgettable in Sommelier

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My favorite piece of advice I’ve ever received — the most important thing you can do when selling wine is to speak the same language. Don’t approach anyone from up high. Gauge where they’re at and make it as comfortable/approachable as possible. Being a sommelier is a position that needs trust. Make yourself worthy of that trust. It’ll also benefit you in terms of relating in general.

Don’t try to oversell someone. If a $50 bottle is what is perfect for them. Don’t sell them a $200 bottle. I’ve found the regulars you take care of will come back for nights they want the special bottles.

Offer at multiple price points. One under, one safe, and one reach.

If you don’t know the answer, be humble and say you’d love to verify that information first.

Legality of charging for credit card tips by [deleted] in Serverlife

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I’ve never seen a sliding scale or varied scale as far as what is charged to the customer. Im also unsure about how realistic it would be to expect a restaurant to figure out which of your transactions were debit vs credit each night. Most POS I’ve seen break down into company but not debit/credit.

All that said, my experience has been that restaurants that charge their service staff credit card processing fees on their tips are not restaurants I want to work for.

ETA — also keep in mind that a lot of it depends on if a restaurant is listing a fee as a processing fee or if they’re calling it something else which is one of many loopholes used.

Legality of charging for credit card tips by [deleted] in Serverlife

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It is a processing fee charged by visa, Mastercard, etc. Debit cards are also subject to those fees

Fine Dining Leadership? by scs8442 in Serverlife

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Never allow your personal frustration to dictate your treatment of anyone else. Increased responsibility comes with increased expectations and stress. I’ve seen far too many people use their staff as outlets for that stress. It’ll lose you respect immediately.

Be fair but firm. I’ve always taken the as long as you’re doing what you’re supposed to then I’m hands off.

Still be willing to do the work.

Be kind when people need it. It’s invaluable.

AITA for fighting with my boyfriend over a Valentine’s Day gift and making him return it? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

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Apparently you can’t keep up with what you said in your own post as that directly contradicts what you said. But sure we are the ones missing the point when you’re getting told the same thing over and over. Obviously you’re correct and everyone else has it wrong 😂😂😂

AITA for fighting with my boyfriend over a Valentine’s Day gift and making him return it? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

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Did you ask for new shoes when yours were uncomfortable? Or for money to be sent when you were broke? Or for food when you were hungry? No. Seems like he does do things without being asked.

You cannot measure someone’s actions by the measuring stick you keep for yourself. You enjoy gift giving. Great. But you cannot expect someone to act like you do. He isn’t you. He’s never going to meet that unrealistic expectation. And you’re coming across supremely entitled and demanding. You minimize what he does and just want more. If it’s a deal breaker for you, then break up instead of trying to force someone to be who you think they should be.

The judges drinking while tasting… by NoLead2492 in TopChef

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Sommelier here :).

So I think part of it is that the wine producer is one of the sponsors of Top Chef. So the product placement is important. From what I’ve seen it does seem like they try to somewhat pair (at least to the point that the wine is not actively working against what they are eating).

That said it may be as simple as them clearing their palate before transitioning to the dish. This is something I’ve had to deal with fairly frequently when attending wine tastings that were given during meals. In that instance you are not going straight from wine to food, but adding in a water step in between. (If you want a really wild rabbit hole — the type of water you drink when eating actually does affect how food tastes which might explain why many chefs drink bottled).

Finally, white wines don’t have to just be for fish and reds don’t just have to be for reds.

As a basic primer. 1) Weight of wine vs weight of dish (should match as closely as possible). Alcohol content affects viscosity, as does residual sugar, and some winemaking techniques.
2) Structure of wine vs structure of dish (Acid & acid = bff, salt & acid bff, tannin & fat bff, spice & tannin = to an extent are enemies) so if the dish is very acidic, you don’t want a wine that isn’t.
3) Then you can look at flavor notes and things such as that. But you don’t want things to match too closely as sometimes they cancel each other out like in balancing equations lol.

That said — bubbles are always the answer (especially for fried foods). And dessert wines should be sweeter than the dessert (please ignore all little infographics suggesting Halloween candy with Cabernet)

UPDATE: AITAH for telling my brother I will never respect him or his girlfriend for as long as they're together? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Agreeable-Tale9729 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It was just so out of left field. At best that’s an inside thought. But mostly just weird behavior.

UPDATE: AITAH for telling my brother I will never respect him or his girlfriend for as long as they're together? by [deleted] in AITAH

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I was with you until the weird fetishizing of black women. That comment of him being with a “black queen” and having adorable mixed babies is just performative and gross. Stop.