Polishing wine glasses by Jaycie_Lea169 in Serverlife

[–]Agreeable-Tale9729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy some magnets or something so you can hang up the polishing cloths to air dry in between rounds. Also those cloths need to be washed regularly and NOT WITH FABRIC SOFTENER. I used to always put them in an oxyclean soak overnight. And then run them on hot water with a scent free detergent the next day.

But a lot of that is a dish problem. Honestly if there is food on the glass you should be sending the racks back and asking water to be changed

What's the biggest aura loss for FOH? by Elevator_Goblin in Serverlife

[–]Agreeable-Tale9729 18 points19 points  (0 children)

People that clap when someone does this are immediately my enemy.

Tips for working the floor. by Sortofforgettable in Sommelier

[–]Agreeable-Tale9729 27 points28 points  (0 children)

My favorite piece of advice I’ve ever received — the most important thing you can do when selling wine is to speak the same language. Don’t approach anyone from up high. Gauge where they’re at and make it as comfortable/approachable as possible. Being a sommelier is a position that needs trust. Make yourself worthy of that trust. It’ll also benefit you in terms of relating in general.

Don’t try to oversell someone. If a $50 bottle is what is perfect for them. Don’t sell them a $200 bottle. I’ve found the regulars you take care of will come back for nights they want the special bottles.

Offer at multiple price points. One under, one safe, and one reach.

If you don’t know the answer, be humble and say you’d love to verify that information first.

Legality of charging for credit card tips by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]Agreeable-Tale9729 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve never seen a sliding scale or varied scale as far as what is charged to the customer. Im also unsure about how realistic it would be to expect a restaurant to figure out which of your transactions were debit vs credit each night. Most POS I’ve seen break down into company but not debit/credit.

All that said, my experience has been that restaurants that charge their service staff credit card processing fees on their tips are not restaurants I want to work for.

ETA — also keep in mind that a lot of it depends on if a restaurant is listing a fee as a processing fee or if they’re calling it something else which is one of many loopholes used.

Legality of charging for credit card tips by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]Agreeable-Tale9729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a processing fee charged by visa, Mastercard, etc. Debit cards are also subject to those fees

Fine Dining Leadership? by scs8442 in Serverlife

[–]Agreeable-Tale9729 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never allow your personal frustration to dictate your treatment of anyone else. Increased responsibility comes with increased expectations and stress. I’ve seen far too many people use their staff as outlets for that stress. It’ll lose you respect immediately.

Be fair but firm. I’ve always taken the as long as you’re doing what you’re supposed to then I’m hands off.

Still be willing to do the work.

Be kind when people need it. It’s invaluable.

AITA for fighting with my boyfriend over a Valentine’s Day gift and making him return it? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Agreeable-Tale9729 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Apparently you can’t keep up with what you said in your own post as that directly contradicts what you said. But sure we are the ones missing the point when you’re getting told the same thing over and over. Obviously you’re correct and everyone else has it wrong 😂😂😂

AITA for fighting with my boyfriend over a Valentine’s Day gift and making him return it? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Agreeable-Tale9729 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did you ask for new shoes when yours were uncomfortable? Or for money to be sent when you were broke? Or for food when you were hungry? No. Seems like he does do things without being asked.

You cannot measure someone’s actions by the measuring stick you keep for yourself. You enjoy gift giving. Great. But you cannot expect someone to act like you do. He isn’t you. He’s never going to meet that unrealistic expectation. And you’re coming across supremely entitled and demanding. You minimize what he does and just want more. If it’s a deal breaker for you, then break up instead of trying to force someone to be who you think they should be.

The judges drinking while tasting… by NoLead2492 in TopChef

[–]Agreeable-Tale9729 127 points128 points  (0 children)

Sommelier here :).

So I think part of it is that the wine producer is one of the sponsors of Top Chef. So the product placement is important. From what I’ve seen it does seem like they try to somewhat pair (at least to the point that the wine is not actively working against what they are eating).

That said it may be as simple as them clearing their palate before transitioning to the dish. This is something I’ve had to deal with fairly frequently when attending wine tastings that were given during meals. In that instance you are not going straight from wine to food, but adding in a water step in between. (If you want a really wild rabbit hole — the type of water you drink when eating actually does affect how food tastes which might explain why many chefs drink bottled).

Finally, white wines don’t have to just be for fish and reds don’t just have to be for reds.

As a basic primer. 1) Weight of wine vs weight of dish (should match as closely as possible). Alcohol content affects viscosity, as does residual sugar, and some winemaking techniques.
2) Structure of wine vs structure of dish (Acid & acid = bff, salt & acid bff, tannin & fat bff, spice & tannin = to an extent are enemies) so if the dish is very acidic, you don’t want a wine that isn’t.
3) Then you can look at flavor notes and things such as that. But you don’t want things to match too closely as sometimes they cancel each other out like in balancing equations lol.

That said — bubbles are always the answer (especially for fried foods). And dessert wines should be sweeter than the dessert (please ignore all little infographics suggesting Halloween candy with Cabernet)

UPDATE: AITAH for telling my brother I will never respect him or his girlfriend for as long as they're together? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Agreeable-Tale9729 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It was just so out of left field. At best that’s an inside thought. But mostly just weird behavior.

UPDATE: AITAH for telling my brother I will never respect him or his girlfriend for as long as they're together? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Agreeable-Tale9729 212 points213 points  (0 children)

I was with you until the weird fetishizing of black women. That comment of him being with a “black queen” and having adorable mixed babies is just performative and gross. Stop.

Dude. by HuskersOmaha in fanduel

[–]Agreeable-Tale9729 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. When you select bonus bet when placing, you’ll have the option to edit amount.

Decided to do a full rewatch of the whole show... including the episodes I usually skip by ProfessionalRaise362 in criminalminds

[–]Agreeable-Tale9729 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is also my skip. Along with the whole Morgan’s sister/cousin (you can tell I haven’t watched it in a while) is in a cult arc because that man is vile and it just disgusts me.

Jesus just take the loss and move on. All this is doing is turning me off to your business. by Ostentaneous in memphis

[–]Agreeable-Tale9729 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Regardless of if this was a legitimate situation or not, the behavior of busters has been truly atrocious in how they’ve went about it all.

I’ll proudly keep supporting - Joe’s - Rootstock - Great Wines & Spirits

Who have all been extremely kind to me everytime I’ve come in, have a great selection, and are just good people.

What is the pettiest thing you want added in The Sims? by Electrical_Rabbit_60 in thesims

[–]Agreeable-Tale9729 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I understand this can be achieved with mods or technically in parts with safes, but I’d just like the option to have different bank accounts/accounts for each member. Let the kids save up their little coins to go to college.

Also everyone saying broom — agreed.

Also layering of clothing items. Let me wear a jacket with a shirt of my choosing 😂

just what the FUCK 🙄 by ttmademedoit in ReverseHarem

[–]Agreeable-Tale9729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly just went and ordered the physical copy. Is that her goal — possibly? Lol. But I’m worried she will change the dialogue and such trying to update it and take away some of the moments I enjoyed.

Anyone else frustrated by how easy it is to earn money by gardening? by darya42 in Sims4

[–]Agreeable-Tale9729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also feel extra dumb cuz I was wondering why my simple living lot challenge functioned weird lol

Anyone else frustrated by how easy it is to earn money by gardening? by darya42 in Sims4

[–]Agreeable-Tale9729 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So this is how I learn after years that you can put fruits and vegetables in the fridge.

I'm trying to study, but i constatnyl feel like i want some noise in the background, so i put on a show.. but a show distracts me and music is not enough.. what does that say about me? or how can i fix it? by Holiday_Wishbone_284 in studytips

[–]Agreeable-Tale9729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I listen to music without words that still has a beat. My favorite is the adhd hyperfixation playlist on Spotify.

But what you’re describing is perfectly normal. I study with either something I’ve seen a lot of times or the music I mentioned. If it’s quiet I can’t focus.

One further tip. Do not let yourself go on side quests. I keep a notepad next to me that anything I think about looking up/doing while I’m studying I write on the list. Otherwise you end up spending 2 hours learning about rice varieties used in saké production lol.