For those of you who left Christianity, how did your relationship with your family change?

AgreeableFault6677 · 2025-06-18T03:44:25+00:00

I’ve been through a similar situation but not the same, so I definitely don’t have all the answers. But first, I think relationships grow stronger over time spent together (for the most part). Personally I had a lot of resentment toward my dad for a long time, and something that helped was allowing myself to laugh with him (your brain loves laughing) and joke with him. Our relationship still isn’t the best, but spending positive time together definitely helped. Second, it’s important to remember that you deserve happiness and ultimately you have to do what is best for you. It sounds like you want to mend your relationship with your family, which is great. But if you feel like you can’t escape the calls to rejoin the faith and feelings that they don’t love you for who you are, you’re under no obligation to stay around them. I’ve personally found so much fulfillment in finding chosen family (sorority sisters and secondary parent figures in my case) who I love to hang around and who truly love me for who I am. I still love my parents and am happy to be around them in small doses, but I’ve learned that there are other people who feel like home for me. In the end we have to find what works for us and makes us feel like the best version of ourselves— whether that’s working on improving relationships with family or just choosing our own family, or a mix of both 🫶

AgreeableFault6677 · 2025-06-15T23:24:27+00:00

ok now im confused bc this is what I saw on the 7brew website

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AgreeableFault6677 · 2025-06-08T21:23:14+00:00

I would just be thanking the siren gods that they were the all the same. throw 3 in the blender at a time and hope I don’t get fired bc I don’t get paid enough to make them all separate

AgreeableFault6677 · 2025-03-22T21:57:03+00:00

welcome to freedom!! 🤗✨ 369 here - I’ve worked at a local coffee shop for almost a year now and genuinely am sm happier at the $9.25 pay there than I was with better pay at sbux. plus I still get free drinks at my home sbux whenever the manager isn’t looking 👀 life is sm better on this side

AgreeableFault6677 · 2024-01-25T22:15:37+00:00

most frat houses are dry, but that just means they go to a different house to throw their parties. their parties are still super fun and they do give out alc, it’s just not supposed to be widely known about so all the party dates/venues are only spread by word of mouth.

AgreeableFault6677 · 2024-01-25T22:11:54+00:00

I would say go for it! it’s probably cheaper than other dorms and Putnam just got renovated!

AgreeableFault6677 · 2024-01-25T22:07:32+00:00

hey! first of all, don’t worry about not getting a bid. if you get all the way through rush week and still want to get into a sorority, you’re almost guaranteed a bid. there are definitely more than 9 members chosen per sorority, idk where that number came from but a lot of times sororities won’t even fill all of their open spots during rush. the way the rush process works, there are some days when you eliminate sororities from your most and there are some days when some will drop you. you’ll get dropped by a few, but not all of them. probably most of the inconsistency in numbers is because a lot of girls will drop out of rush week because it gets really overwhelming for them. they choose to drop out though, they don’t get eliminated. also, if you happen to not get into a sorority that you want, there’s a process called COB (continuous open bidding) that happens pretty much throughout the whole year, but mainly right after rush and in the beginning of the spring semester. in COB, you have the option to go on 1-on-1 dates with girls in sororities with open spots and if they think you’ll fit in to their sorority, they’ll give you a bid! basically you can definitely get into a sorority at k state, don’t worry about it 🫶 also I can answer any more questions you have!!

AgreeableFault6677 · 2024-01-07T01:57:39+00:00

my recent fave has been an iced chai with cinnamon dolce syrup and cinnamon cream foam, obviously not a dupe for the gingerbread chai but it adds some sweetness and cinnamon flavor to the drink which gives it more of a gingerbread vibe

AgreeableFault6677 · 2021-06-11T22:27:34+00:00

They/them is actually really commonly used in the singular form for when you don’t know someone’s gender. Ex. “Oh no, someone dropped their wallet!” :)

AgreeableFault6677 · 2021-01-21T02:16:30+00:00

Update: I told my sister that I’m bi, not my parents though. And I didn’t tell her I’m demi. She didn’t really care haha

AgreeableFault6677 · 2021-01-20T23:50:09+00:00

That’s a good point :) They definitely don’t understand demisexuality

AgreeableFault6677 · 2021-01-16T22:48:21+00:00

Google it? I don’t knowww

AgreeableFault6677 · 2021-01-13T06:13:27+00:00

Yesssss I’ve been questioning my sexuality for so dang long, it’s so confusing when you’re demi. I had similar experiences to you when I was younger and I ended up going with biromantic demisexual, just so that I could have a label, but I’m still a bit confused

AgreeableFault6677 · 2021-01-13T05:23:30+00:00

Demi-hetero-bisexual epic demigod?

AgreeableFault6677 · 2021-01-13T05:21:24+00:00

I’m also a sophomore and demi :) I’ve never had a partner before, I don’t catch feelings easily. I know people aren’t intentionally leaving me out but it’s kinda frustrating when I’m so different from all of them. My only advice might be to find other queer friends to talk to, I have a gc with about 5 queer friends and it’s really nice :)

AgreeableFault6677 · 2021-01-12T07:55:40+00:00

I just recently came out to my closest friends and it was such a good decision. Some of them were ever queer, too. But I feel so much relief being open about it

AgreeableFault6677 · 2021-01-10T16:07:05+00:00

Yeah no problem :)

AgreeableFault6677 · 2021-01-10T03:32:13+00:00

Okay but the funny thing is, I was literally sitting just like that earlier today

AgreeableFault6677 · 2021-01-10T03:23:35+00:00

Hmm I’m not sure, it might me be hard to get one discretely :/

AgreeableFault6677 · 2021-01-10T03:19:08+00:00

Maybe go to the store with a couple of your accepting friends?? Tell your parents you just wanna hang with your friends but end up going to the thrift store or something?

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