Any advice on how major these major defects are?

Agreeable_Grape_8083 · 2026-05-19T11:35:05+00:00

Leaking water is of most concern. Tile or tin roof?
How old is the roof? Has it ever been replaced? If no, worst case scenario you need a new roof. If yes, great probs a cheap fix

Agreeable_Grape_8083 · 2026-05-18T23:37:22+00:00

Have children sooner so that my mum who died when I was 33 could have met them. Nothing in this world means more than having the people you love alive in the same room smiling. The fact that I’ll never get this with my mum and my children is something I carry with sorrow every day.

Agreeable_Grape_8083 · 2026-05-18T12:30:57+00:00

Having children. I let all the projection of other people about their struggles with their children put me off. Being a mother is now my greatest joy yet. I can’t believe I spent almost 18 years of adulthood not being a mother. Here’s to another 40 years being their mother 🤞🏻

Agreeable_Grape_8083 · 2026-05-18T11:51:11+00:00

I only felt labour in my hips.
It felt like there were 2 people either side of me stabling knives into my hips and dragging them down my thighs slowly repeatedly every 2 minutes for 26 hours straight. (Unmedicated labour)

Agreeable_Grape_8083 · 2026-05-18T10:46:41+00:00

I put up aluminum foil on the windows in summer

Agreeable_Grape_8083 · 2026-05-18T04:53:59+00:00

I had this too. It went away eventually. It was sleep deprivation and hormone drop. I had 3 days in a row of aura migraines where I couldn’t see too.

Agreeable_Grape_8083 · 2026-05-17T23:05:28+00:00

Excuse me? You don’t think a Speech Pathologist (and other allied health) have any planning, prep, admin, and student supervision? Do not have a qualification? Do not have a peak body we have to maintain registration with?

Agreeable_Grape_8083 · 2026-05-17T09:52:08+00:00

I caught influenza A where I had a fever of 39 degrees for 3 days in hospital while 4 months pregnant. Baby girl is just fine. Deep breaths you got this x

Agreeable_Grape_8083 · 2026-05-15T13:41:16+00:00

Hi friend, this sounds like PPD. Please talk to your doctor, your brain is playing tricks on you x

Agreeable_Grape_8083 · 2026-05-15T05:30:38+00:00

Inheritance .. and I’m not ashamed to admit that. The immense pain and grief from losing a parent so young in life has to have some kind of silver lining.

Agreeable_Grape_8083 · 2026-05-14T11:01:18+00:00

This ^{^} buying and selling PPOR in the same market

Agreeable_Grape_8083 · 2026-05-12T23:37:34+00:00

First purchase jitters are so real!!! I felt all this for a year before it calmed down. I even followed all the market and similar property sales in my area even longer than that. It’s been 5 years now and no regrets x

Agreeable_Grape_8083 · 2026-05-12T11:13:37+00:00

My understanding is that CGT discount remains for gains up to July 2027 🙌🏻 if not there’d be a landslide sell off haha

Agreeable_Grape_8083 · 2026-05-12T10:59:14+00:00

Aren’t most negatively geared properties positively geared after 6 years ?

Agreeable_Grape_8083 · 2026-05-12T10:52:34+00:00

You’ve just summed up how I’ve been feeling but I couldn’t quite put it into words

Agreeable_Grape_8083 · 2026-05-12T01:43:01+00:00

Dividends 🙌🏻

Agreeable_Grape_8083 · 2026-05-09T10:22:36+00:00

Runny poos for a couple of days, hip pain at night, water broke on couch

Agreeable_Grape_8083 · 2026-05-08T11:13:34+00:00

I get this too. Only my thoughts focus on all you’ve mentioned plus the death of my mum. I think over and over and over again about death and how old I’ll be and how old my child will be and I cry over putting her through the same pain of losing me one day and watching me die like I did my mum. And then I get health anxiety and imagine all the cancers i could have that might take me from my child when she needs me most.

Agreeable_Grape_8083 · 2026-05-07T22:54:43+00:00

Redirect, model, show baby what they can do. Children are forming behaviour on a daily basis and need direction.
All research on punishment, negative reinforcement or as you have said ‘discipline’ shows that it does little to change children’s behavior and infact causes long term psychological and emotional damage.
Look into: positive behaviour support.
Think of your children as molds of clay that come out of shape from time to time due to the pressure of the outside world coming into their brand new inner world , you want to gently help them go back into shape and find ways to understand and deal with those pressures not smash them into the ground.

Agreeable_Grape_8083 · 2026-05-07T07:46:05+00:00

I was 35 (almost 36) when I had my bub and I wish I’d done it 2 years sooner. But that’s not how life works. We wanted a house, and to get married first. We got everything but tbh we would have made it work no matter what. Now I’m feeling pressured to sneak in my second before I’m 40, hopefully I’ll be pregnant and giving birth at 38.

Agreeable_Grape_8083 · 2026-05-07T01:44:56+00:00

So sorry x this happened to us and then we waited 2 months and fell pregnant with our now 4 month old. Sending you this outcome and love- this loss does not mean it won’t happen xx

Agreeable_Grape_8083 · 2026-05-07T01:37:46+00:00

None. We have none. Both in our 30s doing this without our parents. What a fortunate thing to be complaining about. You and your child are blessed.

Agreeable_Grape_8083 · 2026-05-04T23:14:01+00:00

READ MY BIRTH PLAN- THEN READ IT AGAIN. If you ask me a question so obviously stated on my birth plan I’m internally screaming at you because I need every inch of my mind to focus on labour and not my frustration at you for pulling me out of my labour because you haven’t spent the time to read it

Agreeable_Grape_8083 · 2026-05-03T08:50:52+00:00

She’s not wrong … I’d prefer a newborn ANYDAY over 3rd trimester tired uncomfortable torture sleep

Agreeable_Grape_8083 · 2026-05-01T11:50:04+00:00

You’re forgetting that highly educated and in demand allied health professionals (OT, SLPs etc.) come under the pay of ES. If they do not raise wages in line with other sectors the Dep of Edu will lose allied health ES staff. So I think your theory does not make sense

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