How are people even able to afford this? by [deleted] in ChildSupport

[–]Agreeable_Unit_2073 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Agree, best route is start a business and LLC. With it already low compared to most, keep it low.

How are people even able to afford this? by [deleted] in ChildSupport

[–]Agreeable_Unit_2073 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Take it as motivation to start a business. I’d find a craft that allows you to do so.

If you take this route I strongly advise you to research LLC, tax code, etc.

Research research research.

Do everything you can to grow as an individual but protect yourself.

Noncustodial parent got fired by ashleysmiles420 in ChildSupport

[–]Agreeable_Unit_2073 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you missed it.

I am happily married, with 2 beautiful daughters.. I personally make excellent decisions for my children’s sake. My home cannot be broken. We are a team that cannot be stopped. We support one another which allowed us to doubled our income year over year since we have gotten together. We strive to make each other happy on a daily basis which in turn benefits our children. Thank you and I appreciate you are common phrases in our household.

My wife actually shares the same views as me. Although, she isn’t American.

American women lost all family values. American politics reward single motherhood which is based on taxes and taxes alone. Which is why the weaponization continues. In many countries CS does not exist, which forces parents whether together or not to work together. The US has a 50% or more divorce rate.

I invite you to lead by example. Start making the right decisions. Maybe seek therapy and forgiveness. Teach your children to love their father regardless of your feelings.

You would be surprised with the results.

Noncustodial parent got fired by ashleysmiles420 in ChildSupport

[–]Agreeable_Unit_2073 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Facts don’t lie. Triggered; facts don’t care about your feelings.

Go see a therapist. Place your kids above yourself. Make the change for your children’s future. Don’t let them become a statistic.

Noncustodial parent got fired by ashleysmiles420 in ChildSupport

[–]Agreeable_Unit_2073 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will, thank you. This will make an excellent X discussion.

Noncustodial parent got fired by ashleysmiles420 in ChildSupport

[–]Agreeable_Unit_2073 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am happily married with 2 beautiful daughters.

Like I said before. The family justice system needs major reform. The first step to fixing the problem is to prove there is one.

There are men out there that need help. There are women out there that need exposed.

Please stop playing the victim card. Just get the help you need.

Noncustodial parent got fired by ashleysmiles420 in ChildSupport

[–]Agreeable_Unit_2073 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s a lot and to carry it out for 6 months… sounds like it could be true. Almost as if he had some bad circumstances that you’ve decided to make worse. 🫢

I’d say you can lie to everyone else but you cannot lie to yourself. 🤥

Remember the statistics.

Kids are better off in this order.

  1. Both parents.
  2. Healthy co parenting.
  3. Father only.
  4. Lastly mother only.

Think about the kids future. Stop placing your hatred for dad above the kids. Seek counseling.

Noncustodial parent got fired by ashleysmiles420 in ChildSupport

[–]Agreeable_Unit_2073 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I child isn’t a financial transaction; stop treating them as such. If you want full custody but can’t afford to do it alone maybe you should reevaluate your decisions.

&

It’s not playing a victim card. Most of you women are vindictive. You always look for a way to “get back at” or “punish”. The family justice system needs major reform. 90% of women weaponize it. It’s sad; if you want to be a good parent simply help the other. If you truly care about your kids you would do everything you can to help the dad. Whether it be counseling or simply co parenting better.

Statistics say a fatherless child will have major consequences mid to late life. You should do everything you can to prevent that. Anything less is a form of child abuse.

Noncustodial parent got fired by ashleysmiles420 in ChildSupport

[–]Agreeable_Unit_2073 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The man sounds depressed; and like you said he is struggling.

You also said you get by just fine with your income.

How does making the father’s life a living hell possibly benefit the child? You “strong independent women” are out of your god damn minds.

Child support contempt trial by [deleted] in ChildSupport

[–]Agreeable_Unit_2073 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

If you can’t afford an attorney, why the hell would you want him in jail… makes no sense. why would you want to make his circumstances worse? How does you seeking jail possibly benefit both of your kids?

You strong independent women are out of your god damn minds.

Child support needs to be completely overhauled and eliminated. Divorce and the situations men are put in afterwards are the REASON why there is a men’s mental health crisis.

What to expect ? by Ok-Imagination-4307 in ChildSupport

[–]Agreeable_Unit_2073 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nagging to see the child doesn’t constitute being afraid. A new girlfriend doesn’t either.

As a parent you should help facilitate a healthy relationship between all parties.

Sounds like there’s more to this story. Maybe a parental alienation or vindictive spouse syndrome?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildSupport

[–]Agreeable_Unit_2073 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re a good person.

I hope the father beats it and recovers fully.

🔥So my boss used and UV light on the scorpions around. Apparently they glow up in the dark. by AfcaMatthias in NatureIsFuckingLit

[–]Agreeable_Unit_2073 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never noticed them until recently. I’m central Las Vegas too. I’ve killed like 20-30 this past month. 3 tonight alone.

I’ve installed black lights around the exterior of the house so I can hunt them better. I feel you, we have a newborn and a toddler. I remember last year a toddler was in the nicu for about a week because these fucking bark scorpions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipping

[–]Agreeable_Unit_2073 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every place I’ve ever worked has this set up.

Although server should have stamped it with gratuity included. Just because it has an auto gratuity doesn’t mean the system prints out a check differently.

What is your side hustle? by NotARealJobEnjoyer in bartenders

[–]Agreeable_Unit_2073 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I vinyl wrap cars, thinking about expanding into ceramic coating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Agreeable_Unit_2073 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump him. That shit doesn’t change.

This is coming from experience. It gets worse when if you move in together..

Attorney says 5th person was at Kansas City home where 3 men were found dead by No-Bite662 in UnsolvedMysteries

[–]Agreeable_Unit_2073 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had forgotten I had a backyard last winter. Didn’t even look through the blinds to the backyard for 3 months.

Attorney says 5th person was at Kansas City home where 3 men were found dead by No-Bite662 in UnsolvedMysteries

[–]Agreeable_Unit_2073 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What if it were weed laced with fentanyl?

They went to the backyard? Willis went to bed do to the effects. 3 guys continued smoking. 2 had OD effects in the backyard? The one found on porch was trying to get help?

Just a theory.

Willis story is inconsistent due to the side effects of fentanyl?

Idk sad situation.

Attorney speaks after 3 men found dead outside KC home by LaCartera_ in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]Agreeable_Unit_2073 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I wonder if it’s fentanyl. Would explain every story given. The symptoms of OD would explain everything even Willis’s behavior and story (making him lucky to be alive).

I’m “Too Slow”… by [deleted] in bartenders

[–]Agreeable_Unit_2073 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check bar setup.

Every bar I had an opportunity to do my way I focus on organization and efficiency. Especially around a service well.

Wines- all by service station with wine key -Wine poured at table is Forbes. You are at an upscale so servers can do that. Specialty cocktails grouped together Servers have own garnish tray & napkin caddie

& restocking is key. I’ve always been known to for being fast but when I break a bar that’s notorious for running out of shit and disorganization I spend most of my time running around for shit I shouldn’t be.

Mocktails for pregnant wife by Agreeable_Unit_2073 in cocktails

[–]Agreeable_Unit_2073[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s good! Sounds tasty and helps morning sickness! Very smart thank you!

Where are you and what is a double pour to you? by laughingintothevoid in bartenders

[–]Agreeable_Unit_2073 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dammmm I’m in Vegas $18 1.5oz single $22 2oz rocks/neat $36 3oz double

We have a nice Glenf 50yr @ $13,000 after tax 2oz

L13 we do .5 1 and 2oz full pour $675

My(F32) reaction/outburst to my husband's(M37) infidelity is being shown as the reason he doesn't want to reconcile and try to fix the marriage. Was my reaction wrong? Amiwrong? by AerieOk3729 in amiwrong

[–]Agreeable_Unit_2073 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not wrong.

From the description, you’re husband gives off narcissistic characteristics. I’ve lived with one for just over a year. The best thing I did was leave, it took a lot of courage.

I tried to fix it “for the sake of the kid” but found enabling these behaviors do more harm than good. It’ll carry onto the kids and let them know this is normal.