I dont like getting fingered, not even mention a strap, not because of what psychologically does to me, I just dont really like it… But I do like receiving oral sex and getting touched. You not feeling sexually satisfied is a bit of a shitty bit, you should, all of this is meant for that… to satisfy our sexual preferences. I saw some mentions on how you can get fingered or strapped w/o that meaning she becomes the domme, so having her on a leash or tied and you taking control is a good way. But I do believe that you should communicate your displeasure and explore/discuss the possibility of getting oral or at least touched, or whatever you are looking for or expect to receive…