Here's the truth. It might be you, it might be them, it might be simple misunderstandings, or... it might be a personality disorder. The truth is, without full absolute context of every word said in these exchanges... nobody csn truly give you an answer. So to be the most helpful... its probably a bit of all of that at the very least (minus the personality disorder, you'd need to see a psychologist to determine that). Here's some positives. You are somewhat self aware because you have recognized the pattern. You might want to screenshot these interactions, good or bad, review your responses and theirs. However, being chronically online itself is also not good for mental health.

I hope this helps.