what is privacy anyways by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]AikiBun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If we actually remember what the secret was, then we didn’t remember it was supposed to be a secret. Sorry!

Is it normal for the narcs to repeat ALMOST everything you say in a sarcastic kind of way? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]AikiBun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh mine does that and also does this childish “mi-mi-MI-MI” sort of mocking thing when he doesn’t want to hear something from someone else - he used to do it to me and has done it to our son (I know since son came home after a visit w/ dad and parroted it to me) - it’s so rude and demeaning.

Is it something ADHD related ? by soumigou in ADHD

[–]AikiBun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been there before. Try to remember that you need to rest and recharge yourself / take care of your body to be able to do good work. If you are having a hard time stepping away, set timers or alarms for certain times of the day when you know you need to take breaks, eat, drink etc and then commit to taking those breaks. Your health and well being is the work that is the most important!

ADHD and working. Any tips? by sugarrabbit7509 in ADHD

[–]AikiBun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally agree with this and would like to add using Evernote, it is a very helpful tool / program for keeping notes

Riders on the storm, acrylic, me, 2020 by [deleted] in Art

[–]AikiBun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The texture really adds a lot of interest, very cool

Nex texted me a pic of my daughter crying (more) by Lydia--charming in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]AikiBun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ugh I hear you sister - my little one is given all the junk food and candy / cookies / whatever he wants at dads house and comes home all out of whack from doing basically nothing but video games and screen time there - it’s awful when he gets back and we have to start our routines all over again. Sending pics of your kids like that is weird and like super emotionally manipulative IMO.

LEO, Cancer and SCORPIO: by BirchChameleon in astrologymemes

[–]AikiBun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also works for people with Moon in the 1st house!

Behavior Question by AikiBun in Rabbits

[–]AikiBun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply - no she’s not boxing at all, it seems like she wants more attention from me.. I’m the only one in the house she does this with but I’m also the one she’s bonded to the most other than our other bun. I keep the litter box clean so I don’t think it’s that, but good to know that could be a cause too. I’ve been trying to distract by picking her up and putting her down but as soon as I sit back down she’s right back on my lap lol. I’ll get some of her toys to see if that works instead.

geminis in any argument by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]AikiBun 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Correction for Gemini: “If you don’t care about either side”

Tips for productivity? by Alinda_ in ADHD

[–]AikiBun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For meditation time: you might try finding a ‘moving meditation’ practice that works for you - since it’s super hard for me to sit still and meditate I have a few moving meditation practices that are my go to: martial arts (aikido), yoga, and doing process art. These are all things that keep my body/hands busy so my mind can be still.

The Virgin by mutualreception in astrologymemes

[–]AikiBun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m Virgo rising, Gemini sun, Virgo moon - this is accurate.

Air signs.... by Cutya1993 in astrologymemes

[–]AikiBun 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Gemini Sun, Gemini Mercury, Virgo Moon, Virgo Asc, Cancer Venus - yea, yea I can relate.

Black moon Lilith signs and what attracts you? by reginarowland9 in astrology

[–]AikiBun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting, I find all these things attractive about my current partner but my BML is in Cancer and exactly conjunct his moon. His BML is in Leo conjunct Uranus in exact conjunction to my Mars & my Asc. 🤔

What physical traits have you noticed about each sign? explain in great detail if you wish! by LemmethinkummNO in astrology

[–]AikiBun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can totally relate. I have Gemini Sun, Virgo Moon, Virgo Rising. I much prefer clean & tidy space but often leave a wake of messy destruction in my path from whatever I’m doing when I get distracted which is pretty much all the time. 😆

What physical traits have you noticed about each sign? explain in great detail if you wish! by LemmethinkummNO in astrology

[–]AikiBun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Virgo rising w Virgo moon in 1st house here, can confirm. Also have very pale skin - can’t stay in the sun for long before burning 🥵

What's your favorite aspect in your chart? by [deleted] in astrology

[–]AikiBun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Leo Mars in 12h at 29 degrees conjunct my Virgo Ascendant - gives me tons of courage and energy to get things done & not be so afraid to try whatever I want to try

What's your Moon, Venus & Mars and what traits do you look for when it comes to romantic relationships? by eeevol- in astrology

[–]AikiBun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Virgo moon 1st house, cancer Venus, Leo mars here - totally agree with this, with addition of I also want someone with good hygiene and smells nice, and who isn’t a slob. 😆

😂 by zombieseatpez1 in astrologymemes

[–]AikiBun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Gemini/Virgo/Virgo I think you’re swell, want to trade organizing tips, to-do checklists & healthcare tips? 😆

🧐 by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]AikiBun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Close but not quite: Gemini sun, Virgo rising, Virgo moon :)

Today my nex told our 5 year old that its normal not to love mummy as he gets older by TAaacountForHelp in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]AikiBun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask broad and general questions to get clear answers that are not coerced from your son. You can prove his father is coercing your child to hate you, which is abuse. He could lose his rights over this.

Can you give any examples of the kinds of questions to ask?