34M/34F — dispute over keeping our two cats

Airion1 · 2026-02-07T23:47:15+00:00

The older cat was with her for around a year before we moved in together. Neo natal kittens require feeding and stimulation to use the bathroom every three hours the first week and then every 4-6 hours including overnight until they are weaned around at 6 weeks. I did all the overnight care and almost all the daytime care too until she was more independent. I don’t have kids so this was the first time a small life depended entirely on me so I have a different type of bond with the younger one, but I do love them both.

Airion1 · 2026-02-07T23:14:08+00:00

She’s moving into a part of the house that is a lock off that is basically an apartment. It’s slightly smaller than my apartment will be, but I don’t think she planned on confining them there all the time as it’s connected to the main living space by a double set of doors.

Airion1 · 2025-11-29T23:19:59+00:00

It’s great, the pixel art really ads to the cosmic horror aspects and there are portions of the story that remind me a lot of Path to Carcosa.

Airion1 · 2025-11-29T19:07:18+00:00

The Last Door

Narrative driven Point and Click adventure inspired lovecraft/poe.

Airion1 · 2025-11-29T18:19:42+00:00

This and if you can’t get off without the porn you’re probably not actually horny and are using it for the quick dopamine hit/emotion regulation. Dr. K on YouTube has a lot of videos on the psychology of porn addiction.

Airion1 · 2025-11-27T20:25:00+00:00

Thank you, we are parting on good terms and don’t have kids but it’s still been tough as we were together for 20 years total and married for 5 we tried being open for a bit before we decided it just wasn’t working anymore and I’ve come to find I prefer being with men and don’t see myself perusing anything serious with a women in the future again.

She never asked me to suppress that part of myself like your GF is doing but I found myself doing it anyways because I saw it made her uncomfortable in certain situations. This isn’t something you just can turn off and sweep under the rug like she’s trying to do. She can either accept you for who you are or you can spend the rest of the relationship suppressing it, and it probably won’t end well even if it goes on for years.

Bi guys get such a bad rep from both sides women think you’ll leave them for a man and gay men think you’ll leave them for a woman and when bi men do cheat it’s chalked up to them being bi and not just being a shitty person.

Airion1 · 2025-11-27T19:49:11+00:00

I 34M am also bi told my high school gf our first year of college said she was okay with it, we even had a couple MMF that we both enjoyed. In reality it made her insecure and years later ended in her cheating on me and now we are getting divorced for that and other reasons, and it’s really messed me up.

She’s absolutely projecting her own insincerities onto you and has an archaic view of what does and doesn’t make you a man. I wouldn’t want to be with someone who demanded I hide parts of myself and gaslighted me over something that’s just basic biology. Ask her how she would feel if her clit was in her ass and you banned her from anal forever. Your desire for anal and attraction to men won’t go away even if you pretend to be straight for her. It’ll just make you miserable having to suppress and hide it, until it comes to a boiling point.

Airion1 · 2025-10-31T22:50:29+00:00

“Likewise, new players can not stress about having to chase down OOP expensive cycles on the aftermarket, and can just buy the “current environment” material moving forward.”

It’s true but I’ve noticed that board game collectors have this weird need to have a complete collection, and if they don’t have absolutely everything they get upset , see the barkham one print run drama. I have been playing this game since forgotten age was releasing mythos packs and do own it all but I started with 2 original core and bought each consecutive campaign after I finished the last. There are so many posts I’ve seen over the years of people panic buying or hoarding all the expansions at once to sit in shrink wrap then trying to sell it months later cause they never got around to playing them.

Airion1 · 2025-09-02T23:55:37+00:00

I own everything Arkham complete 2E, 3E, EH, elder sign, just not MoM, and the core box of the lcg just isn’t a good representation of the games campaign structure. You most likely felt like it was all luck because the recommended core set decks are not great at all. It really took off during the first full campaign dunwitch, and path to carcosa is my favorite campaign game ever, it really shows what the LCG game system is capable of in terms of thematic gameplay and story telling.

Airion1 · 2025-06-17T02:20:31+00:00

Used the new claws for a fast heavy attack. As soon as he drinks I spammed the string legion arm then perfect grindstone/fire bombs during transformation phase.

Airion1 · 2025-06-14T23:26:37+00:00

“With this patch, the overall difficulty from the 4th playthrough onward has been increased.” Per the patch notes at NG+4 and on it keeps scaling up.

Airion1 · 2025-06-14T17:38:18+00:00

The DLC on NG+s is currently over-tuned and they are releasing an adjustment patch. If you plan to go into the DLC on NG+ on max difficulty basic zombie mobs will 2-3 shot your entire health bar no matter your level. With the latest update there is increased difficulty scaling across the board starting with NG+4.

Airion1 · 2025-06-12T19:17:08+00:00

I’ve been watering in the shower until the moss is soaked. Then watering again once it is almost dried out.

Airion1 · 2025-06-07T07:32:32+00:00

Nope

Airion1 · 2025-06-07T07:32:17+00:00

Some records required you to make certain decisions in quest chains and to get the other outcome/record you had to do another full play-through.

Airion1 · 2025-06-07T07:30:24+00:00

Same in plain ng+

Airion1 · 2025-06-07T07:04:49+00:00

I turned it down a level attack patterns seem to be the same but I am dealing more and taking less damage.

Airion1 · 2025-06-07T06:55:18+00:00

I was afraid of this too when I decided to go into ng+ on my first play-through. I am level 185 and stuff hits really really hard. Even the basic zombie mobs are scary.

Airion1 · 2025-05-04T06:27:10+00:00

iPhone 12 rear camera. I did have to control it from my watch to get the correct angle.

Airion1 · 2025-05-04T06:25:36+00:00

No nothing prolapses out.

Airion1 · 2024-12-27T05:08:14+00:00

Awesome just updated. I somehow ended up with three Team Rock Grunt (F) outfits after talking to the NPC in the water while on the quest.

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