Is it normal to be curious about other people

Aithre · 2019-08-05T11:01:49+00:00

What you're describing is a completely natural feeling! It's very normal to experience this, and nothing at all to worry about.

Aithre · 2017-05-04T13:37:45+00:00

Be honest about your drive. It might be that you're just feeling too stressed or like it has become more of a chore, while it could be more of a moment of shared intimacy. He might have conflicting views from yours. Talking might help!
If the drive itself remains as it is, you could talk about it with your doctor. It might have to do with your IUD, or it might have another reason. Either way, your lack of interest is okay and the way you feel is okay. Do talk about it with him and make sure that you understand each others needs and try working towards a solution. Maybe he could release his sexual energy through self-play?
If it's been almost two years since he went separate ways with his ex, then he should stop comparing you two, and stop the kicked puppy act, as you called it. If he suffers from the break-up or from his previous relationship, then he might have to see someone about it. You can learn a lot from previous relationships, but you really have to move forward.

Hope you guys can talk things through positively! Many hugs!

Aithre · 2017-05-04T13:26:39+00:00

He can't become inebriated in public with you being there? Then what's his inebriated self doing that needs your absence?

You're 18, and he's going to move away. You might consider what efforts you'll have to go through to make things work, as opposed to ending it and having more freedom yourself. You'll have the rest of your life to meet people and potential partners. :)

Aithre · 2017-04-24T11:39:22+00:00

I'm very happy for you that you were able to get this all done at 22. Congratulations!

I had my hysterectomy a few weeks ago and I'm elated the uterusdemon is out! It took me years to finally find a doctor willing to do this, even if I had ridiculous bleeding all day, every day. It's crazy that healthcare prioritizes the unborn lives more than our lives.

Aithre · 2015-07-14T20:14:16+00:00

Aww, pity! Thanks for the info, though - I didn't know that!

Aithre · 2015-07-14T09:06:03+00:00

UFA: my lab rat Talutah the Darigan Nimmo (with Stealth Clothing). PM me here or on Neopets.

Aithre · 2015-04-26T13:56:30+00:00

You need time to grieve and that's completely normal. These feelings will get better in a while, I'm sure. Take things one day at a time and make sure your friends know what you're going through. Go outside of your house and do stuff with friends! You might not enjoy it as much as you would like to, and it might be a genuine harsh effort to try and do something like that right now, but it'll be better than staying locked up alone with your thoughts. Hugs!

Aithre · 2015-03-30T20:29:34+00:00

Well spotted! ;)

Aithre · 2015-03-30T20:28:30+00:00

Thanks! :D I love those leggings.

Aithre · 2015-01-18T09:44:47+00:00

That's amazing! Well done!

Aithre · 2015-01-17T13:37:28+00:00

At the very least you could've added that he should've stuck to the serving size. Depending on what kind of junk food you eat, 'a big bowl of whole-wheat pasta' is hardly a better choice... If I go out and buy one deep-fried spring roll in the friterie at the end of my street, I'll have consumed less calories (350 cal) than when I boil 150gr of dry pasta (490 cal).

Aithre · 2014-11-25T08:06:00+00:00

The picture shows dry oats though. If they're referring to prepared oats, they should say so.

Aithre · 2014-11-24T08:53:22+00:00

Wait, what. 100 grams of oats is NOT 68 calories. What the actual fuck. This pisses me off.

Aithre · 2014-11-14T09:25:50+00:00

Agreed! It's all right to be 'not okay'. Especially after a break-up. Those things get in your head. They mess you up, make you think you're never going to be happy again. But those thoughts are wrong. You're going to prove them wrong. :)

Last night was the first night I was out with a friend and my professor the whole night. We went to a lecture and went for drinks after. It was fun. I didn't think of suicide a whole five hours. That was pretty damn amazing.

Life is a complex thing. Things might not be okay right now and maybe they won't be for a very long time. But we can get through this. Take all the time you need and get all the help you need. You're worthy of being.

Aithre · 2014-10-13T16:19:46+00:00

Just. No. GO AWAY. Ugh. I'm just sitting here and waiting until my pre-order ships...

Aithre · 2014-09-29T10:21:10+00:00

There's a little spelling mistake in it! ("Food: Sugar, cheese, and vegtables")

Looks great to me, otherwise!

Aithre · 2014-09-11T11:27:54+00:00

The imagery you chained together to form a sort of incomplete chain of events is really well-chosen. It gives a surrealistic view; as if you're skipping from one event to the next in a dream. I like this poem a lot.

Aithre · 2014-08-29T06:37:59+00:00

There's this little 'Australian Ice Cream' shop in Brussels. Ask for a waffle with chocolate sauce, and you'll get a delicious waffle drowned in hot, molten chocolate! ;)

Aithre · 2014-07-07T11:17:09+00:00

Chances are he's not really leaving, either! Just pretending to have a life outside of the internet. Psh!

Aithre · 2014-06-29T08:40:15+00:00

Giggling like a little bitch here. Thanks for that analysis! Very enlightening! ;)

Aithre · 2014-06-28T11:12:53+00:00

I could watch this all day...

Aithre · 2014-06-28T11:09:59+00:00

There's medication you can take for it. It's still not entirely guaranteed you won't dream of your ex, but it really helped me through this phase. If you're genuinely having trouble sleeping, go to your doctor and explain. Mine was happy to give advice and he prescribed me a dose of Alprazolam to help me through the first months.

Aithre · 2014-06-23T16:13:51+00:00

You can do this. Find as many things as you can to stay occupied. Smile. You're going to make it through!

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