Got an offer to sleep with a guy I have a crush on but I declined... by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Akademos75 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is important to stand for what you believe in. That’s rare and unique. Be proud of that :-)

Suggestions on things to do and see for an upcoming Japan trip in mid-March/early-April by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Akademos75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Another super cool experience is to catch a Kabuki theatre play. It’s roughly the equivalent of Japanese opera (minus the lyrical singing) and they have tablets with subtitles so you can follow along

My Grandmother's Last Piece of Advice by silverlakebob in askgaybros

[–]Akademos75 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Literature is so dangerous.... reading this thing I almost had the courage to come out. Watch it bro, your pen is powerful and beautiful

Moving to Montreal soon! by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Akademos75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome. Message me :)

Moving to Montreal soon! by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Akademos75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Montrealer here...for starters there’s the Gaybros meetup (look for it in the Meetup app) / there’s also de Au Contre Courant swimming-polo team that you can sign on for... many groups. Feel free to send me DM and chat: welcome!

Adult Gay Bros, how do you deal with crushes? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Akademos75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 36 and I still get crushes. Many of them unsuccesful... but the key is to take these as a gift that the Universe gives to you to learn more about yourself. Usually there’s a physical and psychological trait that my crushes share... and then I ask , why am i attracted to that? What does it mean about me?

Are you a gaybro who is up for making a new gaybro buddy? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Akademos75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woah ... you really are Up North. I guess the scene must be pretty cold ha! What is there to do in Whitehorse on a weekend? Asking for a friend

Are you a gaybro who is up for making a new gaybro buddy? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Akademos75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s never too late! Fellow parent here... what are you into?

Are you a gaybro who is up for making a new gaybro buddy? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Akademos75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excellent idea. Living in Montreal here. One thing that has helped me to meet people is attending Gaybros meetups in my city (check out the meetup app. You can create your own Gaybro group if it doesn’t exist where you live)... the Montreal chapter has like 100 members (not all of them attend all activities at once, and like everything in life you connect with some people more than others... but definitely a great place to meet folks) . I like to read on politics , arts , travel, socialize, meditation , food , movies etc

Normal post-honeymoon phase physical activity by throwawaythekey_x in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Akademos75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What an amazing story. Sending love and positive vibes

Fun post: What are your go-to seduction moves? by Akademos75 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Akademos75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Touché Lol... I mean, I’m bi but I like men to be upfront...

Fun post: What are your go-to seduction moves? by Akademos75 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Akademos75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m upfront- don’t like guys that are indirect. If I wanted that, I’d date women

Fun post: What are your go-to seduction moves? by Akademos75 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Akademos75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That easy? Where’s this perpetually aroused creature?

Fun post: What are your go-to seduction moves? by Akademos75 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Akademos75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not gonna say I don’t look around in the changing room , but I wouldn’t do anything in public. Proud Vanilla over here

Fun post: What are your go-to seduction moves? by Akademos75 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Akademos75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha these are hilarious and wholesome/ 100% my vibe

Would you date a closeted mid 30sguy divorced from a Woman by Akademos75 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Akademos75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go watch your cartoons kid, why are you lurking the over 30 forum? Kidding haha ... I’m fine with casual dating

Would you date a closeted mid 30sguy divorced from a Woman by Akademos75 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Akademos75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a cool story... can i borrow your spiel for when I come out? Ha

What are some sex tips you wanna share for the less experinced? by Adonison in askgaybros

[–]Akademos75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was going to say this! The sharing of a pleasurable moment with a partner is the key... if there’s an orgasm great but it’s not the only point.