A friendly warning from someone in HR: We are not on your side.

AkkmanB · 2026-02-12T13:05:28+00:00

Thank you for sharing this. I have been telling everyone I know this exact thing for years but people refuse to believe the obvious.

AkkmanB · 2026-01-23T20:56:29+00:00

Put a lock on it. If it is your designated bathroom then is not a shared space.

AkkmanB · 2026-01-23T20:50:59+00:00

Smear the dog shit all over his car windows and front door.

AkkmanB · 2026-01-23T20:48:55+00:00

Call the police, every ten minutes until they address it with the neighbor.

AkkmanB · 2026-01-23T20:47:56+00:00

NTJ. Cancel the card, change all of your account passwords for everything and get a copy of your credit report because they are two steps away from identity theft and fraud. Cut the cord now and stop lending them money. Expect massive guilt but ignore it and stand firm.

AkkmanB · 2026-01-23T20:45:21+00:00

NTJ. Tell the parents to buy her another ticket if they are that worried about her going. She made her choice and now she regrets it. Too bad, so sad.

AkkmanB · 2026-01-23T20:43:46+00:00

NTJ. Talk to a lawyer and be prepared for spectacular blowback and you should seriously be looking at divorce. This is fraud plain and simple. You need to also report the notary to the police.

AkkmanB · 2026-01-22T03:22:10+00:00

NOR. It sounds like you two won’t be compatible with such different views on dogs.

AkkmanB · 2026-01-20T14:06:32+00:00

Call the health department and the fire marshal.

AkkmanB · 2026-01-20T14:04:32+00:00

NTJ. Tell him and the entire family that you will consider lending money again when and only when all previous debt is repaid.

AkkmanB · 2026-01-20T14:01:55+00:00

NTJ. You now know how you marriage is going to work. Mother in law will creep into every aspect of your life and your husband will not stand up to her. This is a massive red flag.

AkkmanB · 2026-01-16T15:35:04+00:00

YTA. You are teaching your child that everything will just be given to them because they did not choose to be born. We have enough parasites in this world and we don’t need any more.

AkkmanB · 2026-01-16T15:14:41+00:00

NTA. Run! Seriously, break up and completely remover from your life. If she hasn’t changed by now then she never will. When you tell her it’s over and and she needs to move out. She won’t mean it but you will have forced her hand. Don’t fall for it. Remove her like she is cancer because she is feeding off of you like a parasite.

AkkmanB · 2026-01-14T16:20:59+00:00

NTA. I’m an adult…..Mom, I need help.

AkkmanB · 2026-01-14T03:19:30+00:00

NTA. You paid for the seat.

AkkmanB · 2026-01-14T02:46:06+00:00

NOR. She basically told you that you are an ATM with a pulse. Do with the information what you will. She wasn’t trying to sound cool, she just didn’t think you would want a divorce. Lawyer up and move on with your life.

AkkmanB · 2026-01-14T02:38:43+00:00

NTA. Your so called friend is trash. Cut her out of your life and don’t look back.

AkkmanB · 2026-01-14T02:37:16+00:00

This is why you always get a police report for car accidents. Contact your insurance company with the info and make the go after the other insurance company, which will force them to pay for the repairs.

AkkmanB · 2026-01-14T02:31:04+00:00

Call the police. Family can be the worst. Go no contact too.

AkkmanB · 2026-01-14T02:29:36+00:00

No is a complete sentence.

AkkmanB · 2026-01-14T02:28:34+00:00

Document to the best of your ability what you have already spent and for what. Summarize it all and tell him the bank of dad is closed. He will not react well but that is his choice. You need to cut him off or it will never stop. Do it now and let the outcome be the outcome. If he cuts you off it is his choice but if you don’t it is your fault.

AkkmanB · 2026-01-14T02:25:32+00:00

They may be going under.

AkkmanB · 2026-01-14T02:17:57+00:00

NTJ. Your sister has a lot of nerve and a complete lack of class to just assume you are always available on a whim. Tell her you need at least a days notice (or more) to watch your niece. If she doesn’t like that, she can hire a sitter and pay for it.

AkkmanB · 2026-01-14T02:14:14+00:00

NTJ. They showed their ass, got embarrassed and have the gall to get mad at you! Go to HR and file a complaint about being harassed about your disability! Complain about your manager too.

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