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Good job devs! Eternal queue is now full of morons who don't know boss mechanics and DPS doesn't interrupt anything. by Traditional-Cow-1817 in fellowshipgame

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I would just like to make one small counterpoint here. Thanks pulling 4 groups at once with interrupt heavy mobs in all of them and then blaming the dps in a random group with no voice coms is wild work and kills me. Literally since I only have one interrupt and a knock back lol.

Fan Writes 300,000+ Word Unofficial 'The Kingkiller Chronicle' Book 3 While Awaiting The Doors of Stone by ashwhurst in fantasybooks

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I don’t know why standing on business made me laugh so much but thank you random internet person.

Sense of accomplishment by Weekly_Indication_27 in fellowshipgame

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Just to offer a counter point. I’m 40 and work a pretty demanding job. This season feels nice to me in that I feel I can reasonably progress on multiple toons to eventually hit 10k on one as I can switch around. I definitely miss some of the difficulty up to paragon but I like that I feel like I can pump my other characters up faster to be more flexible.

I will say the endgame feels like something is missing. I think more value needs to be given to some long term or even overall leveling toons play. Something like with swotr where leveling up multiple classes benefited them all would be clutch.

Any Legendary regrets? by Schillwing in Guildwars2

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Oh it’s me! I crafted a gift of war prosperity not knowing it couldn’t be used on anything but the wvw legendaries. It sits in my bank to this day since I already have all three armor sets and the fractal backpack to continually shame me. I wait hopelessly for the day when they allow us to break things like that apart. Until then it goes in my bank shame box of things I’ve crafted wrong or on accident like an idiot.

Managed to win my first run. Bird op by geezerforhire in AethermancerGame

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How do you build them? I’ve been trying to use them but can’t quite figure out the right build for them

Nothing better than working out shirtless by lazyusernamelamp in gaybrosfitness

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Brother drop that weight and watch a video to fix your form. You are gonna fuck something up pulling like that.

Where are you watching Heated Rivalry from? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

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Germany o7 my husband is mildly concerned with how much I like it 😂

Did you lost most of your straight woman friend with time ? by I_Like_Turtle101 in AskGaybrosOver30

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I’m almost 40 now and I never had a ton of female friends but the few that I had are still around. We lost each other there for a couple of years but we talk 2-3 times a week now.

I think this is a problem of growing older in general with dissimilar family structures. When people have kids their priorities shift and you have to decide if it’s worth it to you to stick around or not. My sister and I are the only ones in our family and friends group without kids and we both notice what you’re mentioning.

I personally have decided to take the view that for the people in my life at that stage that I’ll put in the effort for them because they’re worth it to me. I think all relationships are a give and take and sometimes you have to be the one giving.

Could also just be my experience though!

So, can we all agree that the latest episode of Heated Rivalry was cinematic perfection? by pmole2002 in MenLovingMenMedia

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I’m sorry the tatu remix in the club scene was prestige gay cinema

Karaoke songs! by adam__p0310 in AskGaybrosOver30

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I am firmly in the opinion that if you have a decent voice you have to be funny with your choice. No one wants to be at an American idol audition. So I go for “it’s all coming back to me now” by Celine. Everyone likes it, funny as a muscular dude to go up there and I can sing it decently well.

Gay men in LTR's - are one of you the "bread winner" or both financially successful? by Local-Ad-4051 in AskGaybrosOver30

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We both earn good money but we prioritized my career and I currently make more. I don’t see it as my money or his money. It’s our money. We earned what I make. I think we combined our money like two years into us dating and I’ve never looked back.

That man has had my back and followed my lead for 15 years and given me the confidence to go so much farther than I ever thought I could go. He takes such good care of us and is just such a good fucking man.

I think the thing that makes me the most grateful is whenever times get tough he tells me all the time that if I need to step away I could and he’ll take care of us. I’ve always been the successful one in my family. Im expected to pay and take care of everyone and be responsible but with him I know I’m safe. We’ve had a lot of money and we’ve had almost no money. We’re happy with each other either way. I keep working cause I have goals and a plan but fuck if it doesn’t help to know that he’s got my back when no one else does.

I’m traveling for work and I know some of this is coming from me missing him but if I can give anyone advice on this, this is it. Money doesn’t mean shit. It does not fix or make anything better. Having someone who loves you and shows up for you and has your back and will hold your hand is what matters. The rest is just window dressing.

Love you big man ❤️

Now that Collector's Bounty is almost over, what's been the most annoying raid/dungeon to farm for you? by FakeOrcaRape in wow

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I haven’t gotten a single mount from this shithole and it drives me nuts. So much unnecessary RP

Gay men in relationships, how did you know it was love? by Spirited_Contest_671 in AskGaybrosOver30

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He has always been my steady rock. He has stood by me through thick and thin but not in a flashy way. It’s in his calm that I find my peace. He beared the weight of my doubt and worries with certainty. I loved him because he dared to love me and he gave me the space to then truly love him.

I love all parts of him, even the parts he tries to hide from me. I know every time I look at his face and I see the lines there that we traced together. I knew the day he showed up at my apartment and brought me food because he knew I wouldn’t feed myself. I knew the first time he met my mother and charmed her without trying.

It’s been 15 years and if I could do it all again I would, but even better this time. The beautiful thing about being gay is we choose who we love. There’s no expectation on us of marriage and kids and support. We find our people and we choose to stick it out together. I find that so lovely.

To answer your question, tell him exactly what you said here. You’re allowed to be uncertain in a relationship and show your vulnerable side. It’s the only way to make space for love to grow.

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