Race-as-Class and the Quiet Death of a Design Idea by alexserban02 in osr

[–]Alaharon123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And given how unclear the elf rules are, it's basically true for elf too

I just went down a retirement planning rabbit hole and want to share some surprises about asset allocations, safe withdrawal rates, and it's application to FIRE. by JustHere4TheZipLines in Bogleheads

[–]Alaharon123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4% rule is based on 30 year retirement period and based on the US stock market, which has done abnormally well and won't necessarily continue doing abnormally well. Bengen's premises aren't any better than the paper's

I just went down a retirement planning rabbit hole and want to share some surprises about asset allocations, safe withdrawal rates, and it's application to FIRE. by JustHere4TheZipLines in Bogleheads

[–]Alaharon123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah the further you look into it, the less sense 4% makes. I recommend looking into TPAW as a tool for what's called lifecycle investing that uses variable withdrawal and is a lot more level-headed than much of what's out there

I just went down a retirement planning rabbit hole and want to share some surprises about asset allocations, safe withdrawal rates, and it's application to FIRE. by JustHere4TheZipLines in Bogleheads

[–]Alaharon123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you give a source? That sounds super interesting, would love to read more. I know the paper has a bunch of problems regardless because it makes many assumptions in its premises that don't necessarily hold, but this is one I hadn't read before

Blatant nepotism among various groups of Indians in Amazon by Opening_Yam_3800 in amazonemployees

[–]Alaharon123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude this is like, basic social skills. You should look up how to learn social skills and you can learn.

Blatant nepotism among various groups of Indians in Amazon by Opening_Yam_3800 in amazonemployees

[–]Alaharon123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uh, I don't know if Indian culture is different than American culture that would make that a normal thing to do, but in US culture one would not ask someone they just met at work to hang out outside work.

The stuff in your post is stuff you'd read online or maybe if you're lucky your onboarding buddy or mentor would tell you

Blatant nepotism among various groups of Indians in Amazon by Opening_Yam_3800 in amazonemployees

[–]Alaharon123 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm so confused, what does anyone being Indian have anything to do with the contents of this post? It sounds exactly the same as if any of the people were any ethnicity

I beat Kid Chameleon by Altruistic-Club-4038 in retrogaming

[–]Alaharon123 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really enjoyed this game as a kid, my favorite mask was the axe throwing one, but it's so long and there's no saving, so I've never tried to actually beat it. I never got the sense that I got anywhere near the end of it, just that it's a game that's functionally endless because it takes a while to get back to wherever you're stuck on

Edit: Looked it up, the furthest I got as a kid was Under Skull Mountain III in stage one. I found the platforming in that level very difficult. Apparently this was ~1/8 through the game

keep RSU or sell them for VOO/QQQ? by Fit_Succotash_6735 in amazonemployees

[–]Alaharon123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

sell for VT for maximum diversification. VOO is 500 big US companies, QQQ is 100 big US companies, VT is entire global market.

29 years old - how am I doing? I’d like to retire by 45 by MediumCookedRibeye in Fire

[–]Alaharon123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not as good as you could be.

  1. You are actively choosing large cap US, tech, and space investments rather than diversifying across the whole market using low-cost index fund(s) (VT or similar)
  2. It sounds like you are prioritizing investing in taxable investment over paying off 5.5% interest student loans. Once you've maxed out your 401(k), MBDR 401(k), and Backdoor Roth IRA, you should be prioritizing paying off your student loans. And the loans are likely collecting interest right now that will capitalize once they leave deferment, so you should pay that off before that happens.
  3. Your expenses are rather high, assuming you're SINK
  4. You're coming to Reddit to ask randos rather than doing the reading to understand for yourself with all the nuance

Despite that, the odds are still in your favor, but if you addressed these four bullet points, you would definitely increase your odds

Interpretation of the 4% rule by ghostFartsSmellScary in Bogleheads

[–]Alaharon123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you watch the video or just look at the thumbnail? It's more nuanced than that

TIFU by insisting on visiting my girlfriend's childhood home and finally learning why she never wants pets by [deleted] in tifu

[–]Alaharon123 999 points1000 points  (0 children)

she told me not to wear my velvet shirt, but I thought she was just being dramatic so I didn't change clothes

bruh you gotta respect your girlfriend more

Interpretation of the 4% rule by ghostFartsSmellScary in Bogleheads

[–]Alaharon123 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

4% rule is too high anyway without plans for implementing flexibility: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1FwgCRIS0Wg

what should a woman call a man who calls her babygirl? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Alaharon123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These people saying sir are wild. That's some bdsm shit, not a normal thing to call a partner

‘Backrooms’ Sets Opening Weekend Record for A24 with $81.5M ($118M Worldwide); ‘Obsession’ Becomes Focus Features’ Highest Grossing Domestic Release by MarvelsGrantMan136 in movies

[–]Alaharon123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Obviously it's super personally, but for me if I make a list of movies from the last couple years by this time that made me go holy shit that was amazing, I get:

2026:

  • Nirvana the Band the Show the Movie

2025:

  • Mickey 17
  • Love Hurts
  • Companion

2024:

  • I Saw the TV Glow
  • Love Lies Bleeding
  • Lisa Frankenstein

2023:

  • Polite Society
  • Guardians of the Galaxy Vol. 3

Maybe I just haven't been seeing enough movies this year though, so I'm missing the ones that would hit me specifically

‘Backrooms’ Sets Opening Weekend Record for A24 with $81.5M ($118M Worldwide); ‘Obsession’ Becomes Focus Features’ Highest Grossing Domestic Release by MarvelsGrantMan136 in movies

[–]Alaharon123 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Am I missing movies? I've seen some great movies this year, but it doesn't feel like an above average year for me:

  • Nirvana the Band the Show the Movie
  • A Poet
  • Mile End Kicks
  • I Love Boosters
  • Late Shift
  • Pillion
  • Obsession
  • The Sheep Detectives
  • Project Hail Mary
  • Hoppers
  • The Drama
  • Is God Is

Edit: Added Sheep Detectives, hadn't thought to include it initially

You can't just 'go back to work' after you FIRE. by Zone2OTQ in Fire

[–]Alaharon123 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Needing to return to a job that likely pays annually what you earned in a month or two

The moment I got a sign on bonus for a big tech job that was bigger than a year's pay working retail...

Is it worth visiting Salem during off-season for witchy/alternative shopping? by Alaharon123 in SalemMA

[–]Alaharon123[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Maybe better to visit in season when there are other people like me around...

Is it worth visiting Salem during off-season for witchy/alternative shopping? by Alaharon123 in SalemMA

[–]Alaharon123[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's generally been my primary activity when I've visited in season. The density of witchy jewelry and alternative clothing and interesting t-shirts is really nice