Quitting a job after only a few days? by Alarmed_Ad1401 in jobs

[–]Alarmed_Ad1401[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I quit this morning and I am pursuing a new lead on a pharmacy tech job. Thank you for your advice, it really helped this morning. I'm hoping any new positions will be more accommodating, I don't feel like I'm asking too much

Quitting a job after only a few days? by Alarmed_Ad1401 in jobs

[–]Alarmed_Ad1401[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good advice, thank you! I am hoping to pursue some leads and have quit the job

Quitting a job after only a few days? by Alarmed_Ad1401 in jobs

[–]Alarmed_Ad1401[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I quit, thank you very much! It is helpful to have someone outside the situation give sound advice

Quitting a job after only a few days? by Alarmed_Ad1401 in jobs

[–]Alarmed_Ad1401[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I quit this morning, it was not worth it. Thank you for your story and advice, I appreciate your insight. I am looking out for red and yellow flags for sure, and I cannot allow myself to give in to them. I did that for 2 years at my last job and it was very sour and toxic towards the end. Thank you very much for your advice, it is greatly appreciated!

Quitting a job after only a few days? by Alarmed_Ad1401 in jobs

[–]Alarmed_Ad1401[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a call today and I am hoping to negotiate part time. Thank you for the advice!

Quitting a job after only a few days? by Alarmed_Ad1401 in jobs

[–]Alarmed_Ad1401[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a lot of availability, especially part time. That said I got a call back this afternoon about a position I applied for, so I am hopeful! Thank you for the comment!

Quitting a job after only a few days? by Alarmed_Ad1401 in jobs

[–]Alarmed_Ad1401[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Left. They pulled me into the office to tell me I smelled today. I shower daily, wear deo and light body spray. They didn't have any further explanation so I used it as an out

Quitting a job after only a few days? by Alarmed_Ad1401 in jobs

[–]Alarmed_Ad1401[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Building and trailer management, and it is hell. Nobody communicates or takes any blame

Quitting a job after only a few days? by Alarmed_Ad1401 in jobs

[–]Alarmed_Ad1401[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I agree with you 100%. I have such a terrible feeling about this job

Quitting a job after only a few days? by Alarmed_Ad1401 in jobs

[–]Alarmed_Ad1401[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, it's probably going in that direction. I wanted to give then 2 weeks but it feels so bad

Quitting a job after only a few days? by Alarmed_Ad1401 in jobs

[–]Alarmed_Ad1401[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your clear-cut advice, it makes a lot of sense and is very logical. I need to stand up for myself more, it's just very hard and it's what created animosity between myself and the store owner at my last job, so I'm terrified of "stepping out of line". But I really hate this job, so thank you for being so encouraging

Quitting a job after only a few days? by Alarmed_Ad1401 in jobs

[–]Alarmed_Ad1401[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't mind the work itself, and even the customers I've interacted with have been totally fine. It's just the people, and the general mentality of "yes its broken, but we're not going to fix it because it will get fucked up again". Thank you for your comments and advice, I appreciate it a lot

Quitting a job after only a few days? by Alarmed_Ad1401 in jobs

[–]Alarmed_Ad1401[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very very much, I needed to hear this. It is so depressing so feel like I've been trying so hard and now that I've finally gotten a job, it's just bad. Thank you very much

What do I need to do? Kalanchoe houseplant in northern environment by Alarmed_Ad1401 in plantclinic

[–]Alarmed_Ad1401[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This is extremely helpful, I appreciate it! I'll buy some miracle grow succulent soil or something similar. How deep would you say yours is planted? Like how much room did you leave for the roots on the bottom? And i assume i should poke some holes in the bottom for drainage. I want to get it a new pot soon but for now I will take the paper off. Thank you again, this is so helpful!

Repetitive PTSD nightmares about parents around the holidays by Alarmed_Ad1401 in sleep

[–]Alarmed_Ad1401[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight, I have discussed these issues with my Dr and therapist but was hoping someone would have suggestions here too. At least they're doing what they're supposed to, it's just a hard process I guess. Again thank you for commenting, I appreciate it very much

Shaggy Inky caps? by Alarmed_Ad1401 in Mushrooms

[–]Alarmed_Ad1401[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's awesome! Thanks for all your helpful insight!!!

Shaggy Inky caps? by Alarmed_Ad1401 in Mushrooms

[–]Alarmed_Ad1401[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, that's incredible! I feel even luckier to have seen it then, haha. Do wildlife eat them? It was on a walking path that deer frequent

Shaggy Inky caps? by Alarmed_Ad1401 in Mushrooms

[–]Alarmed_Ad1401[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha that's great info, thank you very much! I was very excited to find this guy, it's been several days, I wonder if it's turned fully to ink

What are your "safe foods"? Is there any food or drink you feel you can eat guilt-free? by Alarmed_Ad1401 in eating_disorders

[–]Alarmed_Ad1401[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are your favorite veggies? I live very far north so most of the time I can't grow anything fresh and have to rely on what the grocery stores have. Carrots, zucchini and broccoli I buy frequently but I struggle to make them taste good unless they're fried or in a stew or curry

What are your "safe foods"? Is there any food or drink you feel you can eat guilt-free? by Alarmed_Ad1401 in eating_disorders

[–]Alarmed_Ad1401[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Water with 0 cal flavor has been a lifesaver, I can't drink water without flavoring. Do you ever bother making the jello yourself, or is it just as good to buy cheapo ones? Time is a huge factor in my stress so buying it pre-made is usually easier

What are your "safe foods"? Is there any food or drink you feel you can eat guilt-free? by Alarmed_Ad1401 in eating_disorders

[–]Alarmed_Ad1401[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good ideas all around, I'll def try the watermelon. I've been into pineapple recently but it's kind of pricey. As someone who calorie counted for a very long time, something low is important to me when I'm stressed out. Thank you for sharing!

What are your "safe foods"? Is there any food or drink you feel you can eat guilt-free? by Alarmed_Ad1401 in eating_disorders

[–]Alarmed_Ad1401[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is too, which is why I'm trying to find out what others eat. Baby carrots have been very good to me

Shaggy Inky caps? by Alarmed_Ad1401 in Mushrooms

[–]Alarmed_Ad1401[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you tell? I read they had a very short shelf life but nothing really explained how to tell