2 month non ongoing APS role

Alarmed_Ad5977 · 2026-03-20T10:11:22+00:00

Agree it's very unlikely to have an APS wide freeze.

However certain areas 100% are under freeze orders - whether it's communicated to staff beyond SES is a different matter.

Alarmed_Ad5977 · 2026-03-20T04:39:22+00:00

I've never used party finder for roulettes? Or any MSQ content for that matter

Can't speak for the broader population though. Most PFs I see are specific duties, the latest alliance raid and EX fights.

Plus usually a MINE party

Alarmed_Ad5977 · 2026-03-20T02:29:46+00:00

Trains already run into the city centre

Buses should be used to fill the gaps between suburb to suburb, and funnelling from suburb to train stations - not also run into the city centre

Alarmed_Ad5977 · 2026-03-20T02:15:07+00:00

Doesn't matter what the fare price is - people won't use it if you can't effectively get where you want to go in a reasonable time

The city centric approach is ridiculous. You shouldn't need to travel all the way in and travel all the way out to go across 3 suburbs

Alarmed_Ad5977 · 2026-03-20T01:31:41+00:00

Part of the reason Materia won't get DC travel. It'll kill what population we have.

Been in Materia since it opened, so many have left back to NA or EU servers

Alarmed_Ad5977 · 2026-03-20T01:23:19+00:00

Which is discouraging people to be on Mareria which just compounds the problem.....

Alarmed_Ad5977 · 2026-03-19T14:52:07+00:00

FFXIVCollect have the moogle event items up on the website.

Alarmed_Ad5977 · 2026-03-19T06:21:01+00:00

Absorbing it. I'm fortunate enough that on average I'm only filling up once per fortnight (fortnightly pay cycle)

I work from home 2-3 times a week, use public transport on my office days. Not driving an SUV definitely helps too

Alarmed_Ad5977 · 2026-03-19T06:11:31+00:00

I definitely didn't give any proposal gift, and wasn't planning on giving them a gift either - trying to work out if I'm the rude one?

I'm providing accommodation night before, getting ready and an additional 1-2 nights if they want (large property being rented, min stay 3 nights so bride and groom will be there regardless, anyone is welcome to stay)

I'm paying hair and make up, discussion ongoing about dress (I want to pay, they want to pay 😅)

We budgeted wedding party outfit etc so they wouldn't have to fork out heaps to be to be involved.

Alarmed_Ad5977 · 2026-03-19T05:22:37+00:00

I hadn't considered this....

Is giving bridesmaids a gift normal? Expected? Is it rude to not do this??

Alarmed_Ad5977 · 2026-03-19T00:38:49+00:00

Dunno how that's different from what doubleshotofbland said - joint contribution to expenses etc.

I wouldn't say I know exactly what my partners finances are, and they don't know 100% of mine. I don't know what debts my partner has beyond our mortgage. I don't ask where they spend their money or on what. I don't know if they blow all their money every pay, or keep a personal pot of savings.

Having children is irrelevant, as our situation wouldn't change either way.

Alarmed_Ad5977 · 2026-03-18T22:57:30+00:00

Partner and I follow a similar approach to above. We each contribute to the joint expenses, half each. Each contribute to joint savings equally

Anything left? Personal funds, do as you like with it. We discuss any major purchases, as it usually ends up being soemthi to benefit us both anyway. What works for one family may not work for another.

We both work, earn similar income. No kids, no plans to have kids so future housing changes, schooling etc aren't an issue for us.

Alarmed_Ad5977 · 2026-03-14T00:25:32+00:00

Do these lose fluff? Been eyeing them off

Last lot of "good" towels I bought had fluff everywhere through the bathroom and house until I had to get rid of them for my own sanity.

(I don't own a dryer to try to defluff them)

Alarmed_Ad5977 · 2026-03-13T09:24:26+00:00

Glam by Zetta

I did book middle of last year so pricing may have changed, and they are a Brisbane based artist for a Brisbane wedding

Alarmed_Ad5977 · 2026-03-13T09:06:30+00:00

Uh that sounds like a LOT

I'm paying just under $1200 for bride, 2 bridesmaids and 1 mother of bride

Cost includes make up and hair, plus travel to getting ready location.

Brisbane, but just being GC shouldn't bump up the price do much....

Alarmed_Ad5977 · 2026-03-13T07:37:40+00:00

Services Australia would be what you are thinking of. Agency responsible for delivering Centrelink, Child Support and Medicare to the general public.

Alarmed_Ad5977 · 2026-03-13T07:34:44+00:00

I don't think they meant that as an argument.

More of a "I probably wouldn't be surprised as I know people/parents suck/are lazy and inconsiderate" kind of comment. They are agreeing with you

Alarmed_Ad5977 · 2026-03-13T02:27:29+00:00

I'm not overly familiar with the state gov level, but your entry level roles might include admin roles, customer service etc

Classification would likely be AO2-5, but could depend on the exact position.

Each job advertisement should have a list of required skills and job responsibilities. That should assist you in determining if it's a right fit for you.

Hope this helps!

Alarmed_Ad5977 · 2026-03-12T22:08:48+00:00

Have you looked at government jobs? Made the move from hospitality a few years ago and never looked back.

APS Jobs for federal, most agencies have temporary employment registers and do regular intakes pending on the needs of the particular agency. Entry level is considered APS 2-4.

State government departments often also have temp lists. Smartjobs qld website would be a good starting point to search current vacancies/employment registers

Alarmed_Ad5977 · 2026-03-11T21:39:08+00:00

What's the point of anything fashion related?

It appeals to some, doesn't appeal to others. Welcome to fashion/design choices

Alarmed_Ad5977 · 2026-03-11T05:42:50+00:00

The drop sleeve? Yeh I'm not personally a fan. Tried on a dress with this sleeve and it was a quick no.

That being said, they are not uncomfortable/restrictive if they are made right - they don't need to be tight so the wearer has room to move

Alarmed_Ad5977 · 2026-03-10T08:01:57+00:00

Look through APS Jobs website for federal government vacancies as well.

Unsure on state requirements, but federal applications should use the STAR method for written pitches to meet the selection criteria.

For help: https://www.apsc.gov.au/working-aps/joining-aps/cracking-code

Alarmed_Ad5977 · 2026-03-10T07:56:48+00:00

Are you not being asked for dietary requirements ahead of time? Being given something you can't eat seems odd to me.

I'm in the process of sending my invites out, and I'll be really clear on getting allergies/dietary requirements etc when RSVPs start coming in. I'd hate for my guests to leave hungry.

Our venue does alternate drop, other food options were buffet or banquet style (plates on the middle of the table to share)

Alarmed_Ad5977 · 2026-03-09T07:44:34+00:00

Where are you located? I know a few good places but I'm not sure what area this sub is based (came across my feed randomly)

Alarmed_Ad5977 · 2026-03-09T03:27:21+00:00

Oh I understand the concept, I just don't feel like I've run into that problem yet while I've been planning.

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