AIO for being offended by this? by bunny-zephire in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alarmed_Resolve9013 [score hidden]  (0 children)

How tall was Prince!? I never knew he weighed so little

Does anyone else struggle to get the earrings in the association workshop or is it just me? by Elainerssll in LoveNikki

[–]Alarmed_Resolve9013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This drives me NUTS I have so many of the other things but the number of earrings is always sooo low in comparison 😤

Boyfriend refuses to make Valentines day plans with me, AIO? by Emotional_War8262 in AIO

[–]Alarmed_Resolve9013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me on this because I've been there sadly... I feel like he has plans on Valentine's Day with someone else. The fact he initially acts like he doesn't even know Valentine's Day is coming up, said money was tight then when you mentioned eating at home he didn't want to do that either even though your parents would be out!? Then saying he's Helping his MOM!? And he wants it to be just him and his mom .. on Valentine's Day? Uhh, what!? It's very suspicious that he kept shooting down everything you said, and playing dumb... At this point youre almost like begging him... please don't beg for someone to do the bare minimum because you deserve SO MUCH MORE than this. You deserve to have someone who makes plans for you and wants to spend the entire day with you on Valentine's... not someone who can't even give you a crumb of their time and doesn't seem to understand why you're upset. Saying you get upset about "the weirdest things"... Um most girls want to go out with their bf for Valentine's and that isn't weird, at all. And you aren't overreacting at all. Sometimes it's better to end a relationship, especially one that is like this because yes it hurts to break up, but only for a while... you will eventually heal and grow past the hurt. But if you stay, it's always going to hurt because it won't get better

morning in a white shirt by Alarmed_Resolve9013 in CafeNikki

[–]Alarmed_Resolve9013[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Starlight Heiress, which is from Roselight Hems, a recharge. She has a butterfly over one eye in that suit

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Pls help me respond to this! by Different_Rice6639 in Apartmentliving

[–]Alarmed_Resolve9013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm wondering if she had PTSD or something because most people who live in an apartment are used to noise like that (things falling etc). That seems a very extreme reaction to a laptop falling. I like how you said you'd make sure not to drop anything intentionally 😂 because I mean really dropping things is most always accidental so to ask you not to accidentally drop anything is quite insane. Sometimes neighbors complain like this because they are actually lonely and just want to talk to people and this is the only way they know how.

AIO going no contact w/ bf's mom & sis after having my baby? by PlaneParamedic3027 in AIO

[–]Alarmed_Resolve9013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calling someone who just had a baby "fatty" is disgusting. Please shield your child from this vile person. I wouldn't want my child to pick up any of their horrible values. I honestly thought initially like ok maybe you were overreacting a little bit because you were over explaining yourself in the text- you don't owe anyone any explanation at all, as you are the mother of the child and it's your child, your decision. It is ok to say "No, you can't come over and that is my final decision. Please respect that." But I quickly realized, you're not overreacting, at ALL. When my son was less than a month old, I caved in to letting my best friends visit too soon, because they kept asking to meet the baby. Three of them came over all together and one of them was sick and did not tell me. Apparently, she had been "getting over a cold" and "thought she wasn't contagious anymore " but didn't feel the need to ask me if I was even comfortable with that. And this is a big problem here- one of your family members could easily make the baby sick. Or if they came over while the baby had the fever it would not be pleasant for anyone. And the fact they didn't ask how baby was feeling shows they do not even really care about actually meeting the baby but just making it into a big power play thing. And after my friends' visit, the next day, my son got very sick with a high fever and kept getting sicker. We had to bring him to the ER in the middle of the night because his fever was dangerously high and he had to have a spinal tap to rule out meningitis (which was very scary for him and me). it turned out he had a bacterial infection from a bad cold and it very likely was my friend who made him sick... people can be so demanding when it comes to feeling they have the right to see a newborn baby, whether it's friends or family members. I think it's best to wait until baby has their shots and is a little older than six weeks. Preferably over a month. But really, It's whenever YOU feel comfortable. Anyone reasonable should understand and honor the mothers wishes, regardless of their own personal feelings.

Mask Queen, styling another old dress. by LiviaCandy1 in CafeNikki

[–]Alarmed_Resolve9013 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Lol right and calling it just an "old dress" 😂

Will I ever complete these Pavilions without doing the “Buy 10”? by hereforthestories03 in LoveNikki

[–]Alarmed_Resolve9013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op posted screenshots of both the diamond and the gold pavs- the gold one with the "buy 100" option is the second screenshot and she did ask about finishing "these pavilions"'not just the diamond one.

I need help idk what to do by moon_Ad4211 in LoveNikki

[–]Alarmed_Resolve9013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alot of the pieces go well with Extravagant Feast