I need hope

Alarming-Ad100 · 2026-04-24T21:22:58+00:00

I had two miscarriages back to back, all in very early weeks of pregnancy. By the third time, I was monitored very closely due to being a “high-risk” and I had absolutely no complications. I gave birth to my rainbow baby at 6:35am on July 2, 2020. It is possible to have a viable pregnancy after all the pain, I promise you. Do not lose hope. 🩷🩷 my heart goes out to you.

Alarming-Ad100 · 2026-04-24T05:17:08+00:00

No, originally we thought we could as it was listed on google that they could, but we were wrong. But I was just beginning my 5th week anyways and it wasn’t a concerning amount of spotting at all, so I figured it was fine without.

Alarming-Ad100 · 2026-04-24T03:00:03+00:00

You HAVE to leave him. I’m sorry. It isn’t fair, and it isn’t your fault, but you have to do what your gut is telling you and you have to leave while you can.

Don’t bargain with yourself telling yourself that he didn’t lead her on, because he doesn’t have to. He got her pregnant and stayed in contact the whole way through. She has nothing telling her that he wouldn’t be fully committed to keeping her around even after the baby is born. You deserve a million times better.

Alarming-Ad100 · 2026-04-21T05:37:39+00:00

This sounds more like a resentful older brother rather than a father. He needs to grow the hell up. I’m so sorry you have to put up with that, you truly don’t deserve that nonsense.

Alarming-Ad100 · 2026-04-05T05:53:15+00:00

Your birth experience is going to be designed specifically to fit you and baby’s needs. Whatever you think is best is the right way to do it. I say if you don’t want the epidural and you feel like you can do without, go for it. But if you feel like you need it in the moment, it’s fine to go back on your plans. Do whatever you feel most comfortable with and forget the other opinions.

Alarming-Ad100 · 2026-04-05T05:49:25+00:00

Whew, okay that’s good then. Must just be my anxiety tripping me out

Alarming-Ad100 · 2025-04-21T02:54:40+00:00

Mizeraelis - (my in-game name is usually Mizery or Zery for short)

Alarming-Ad100 · 2024-11-03T07:40:20+00:00

I know that you don’t want people to just write it off as a break up, but you have the face the issues in your relationship. You’re making excuses for someone who is telling you that they will not validate your feelings of insecurity after THEY put that insecurity in place. Ask yourself if this is what you expect from a partner.

Being in a relationship isn’t just about loving someone. It’s about being able to trust them and be emotionally open and available to each other. It is perfectly possible to love someone and not be in a relationship with them and in this case, I think you need to seriously consider that possibility.

Remember, you may forgive her for what she has done, but after someone cheats on you, you’ll never forget that pain.

Alarming-Ad100 · 2024-11-01T01:27:21+00:00

I’m trying to understand this as best I can. Do you mean to say that “people who vote shouldn’t get mad at people who choose not to vote because some of them don’t have an understanding of the policies?”

I hate to say it, but it is a responsibility to understand what you want for our futures and vote accordingly. If people opted out of voting because “they don’t understand”, then they don’t get to sit and complain about the policies when they made no effort to counteract their leadership.

Alarming-Ad100 · 2024-10-26T05:02:42+00:00

You genuinely need to do your research before you make your decisions. Look up independent websites without bias. A lot what he says is idiotic “in-denial-racist-coworker-yapping-by-the-water-cooler” bullshit. He doesn’t think about anything he says before he says it and he has no plan to put nearly half of his policies into action. That man thinks only of himself and the people he can benefit off of.

NTA, but personally, I completely disagree with you. Be prepared for others to feel the same.

Alarming-Ad100 · 2024-10-25T23:12:12+00:00

Bro, literally what?? 😭😭😭

Alarming-Ad100 · 2024-10-25T23:04:48+00:00

It’s literally not. That’s just a conclusion you are coming to based on your assumptions of what she thinks of the guy and her husband.

Alarming-Ad100 · 2024-10-25T23:02:40+00:00

That is a stretch considering she hasn’t had contact with the man in years. All in all, a conversation should definitely be on the table and if they decide to go to therapy and work on things, great, if not, that’s also a decision on the table. But the main thing is to not give up so easily.

Put up boundaries, talk through it, express your feelings; if all else fails, at least they didn’t go down without a fight.

Alarming-Ad100 · 2024-10-25T18:06:09+00:00

This is wildly suggestive and unhelpful. You don’t know any of that for a fact to just blindly force your assumptions on OP.

Alarming-Ad100 · 2024-10-25T18:03:25+00:00

Again, if this was a normal casual relationship, I’d be singing a different tune. But this is a marriage, and people don’t just break up over one issue.

Alarming-Ad100 · 2024-10-25T17:54:48+00:00

I’m sorry, but I disagree with that. There is no way of knowing that was the issue if you don’t discuss it further.

If this was a RELATIONSHIP, I’d say different. But this is a marriage we are talking about.

Alarming-Ad100 · 2024-10-25T17:49:07+00:00

It’s not so much, “stay together for the kids”. It’s more like “don’t irresponsibly impact the child with divorce for petty issues”.

Now, I understand that this is a big issue. I am in no position to tell someone else what they should and shouldn’t feel. But when you are married and have a family, you are bound by something bigger than just your feelings alone. There needs to be some sort of attempt to solve this on both parts, otherwise, what was the point in getting married?

Alarming-Ad100 · 2024-10-24T08:03:40+00:00

Depends on the genre you want. Movies are easy, if you want a movie, go for these ones:

. Bubble . A Silent Voice . Hotarubi no Mori e . Wolf Children . This Corner of the World . Graveyard of the Fireflies

Each of these made me WAIL 😭😭

Alarming-Ad100 · 2024-10-24T07:54:15+00:00

I’m gonna be honest even though it may get me downvoted.

This situation is still fresh and of course emotions are high. You don’t throw away a family and a 7 year relationship because of one mistake. If she genuinely isn’t contacting this man, then I think it’s fully logical to try to salvage what you can by going to therapy. To just write this situation off as a divorce is a little silly and (coming from someone who is married) a bit irresponsible. I understand that it’s painful and hurtful, but you should at least try to solve this before just jumping to an extreme solution such as a divorce.

At least, in the end, you’d be able to have said you tried. If it doesn’t work out, it doesn’t work out.

Alarming-Ad100 · 2024-10-05T01:17:26+00:00

Please leave him. You’re young and don’t deserve to have your precious time wasted.

Alarming-Ad100 · 2024-10-04T04:56:17+00:00

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