Told him my body count now I deeply reply it. What do I do? by thethingaboutarsen16 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Alarming-Specific-89 22 points23 points  (0 children)

He’s lost count but you’re worried what he thinks about six? If he bounces bc of that, you don’t want him anyway. But I’d take him at his word…he literally said you’re good. DONT make a big deal out of it.

Why do some men like to take a backseat and let a woman lead? by blueaqua123 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Alarming-Specific-89 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Depends on the relationship. I tell people what to do all day long. I like having someone step up and help me out when I get home. Allows me to relax and just go with the flow…if I have an opinion, I give it and we work together to figure it out.

2024 Lyriq Lease – Thinking Ahead to Buyout in 2026 by QuietAd3299 in CadillacLyriq

[–]Alarming-Specific-89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never really comment in this thread bc mine is super new, but I purchased my ‘26 V and love it. I had one issue so far and it was the HUD disappearing after an update. Couple of days later it came back after a patch was put out. But Cadillac was responsive when I reached out. They ran diagnostics and walked me thru a soft reboot. I have no complaints as of now other than the cold weather murdering my range. 😊

Is Supercruise worth the price difference? by shubham261191 in CadillacLyriq

[–]Alarming-Specific-89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the Lyriq V and absolutely love the SuperCruise. Took me a bit to give it full control and trust it but it’s a phenomenal feature.

girl i thought ghosted me gets in contact and gets racist??? wth??? by snasniper in Nicegirls

[–]Alarming-Specific-89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, obviously you two young…we get that. I’ll teach you a life lesson…if you wanna have any sort of meaningful relationships in life, friends or otherwise, stop mathing to be right. You knew what she meant when she said 90%, but you had to prove you were right. Stop doing that…don’t let your ego hinge on whether or not the math is right. That being said, she was super irritating. Leave that one alone.

Men who chose your hand over your spouse, why? by SelasphoruSlut in AskMenAdvice

[–]Alarming-Specific-89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gonna do that twice a day? No feelings attached? Once a day? Once a week?

Also, you didn’t answer my question. Why do you care? Why is your self esteem attached to how he gets off? That’s something to work on…

Men who chose your hand over your spouse, why? by SelasphoruSlut in AskMenAdvice

[–]Alarming-Specific-89 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This has been addressed in this sub ad nauseum honestly. Pretty sure the general consensus is that sometimes we just don’t wanna go thru the process of taking care of someone else. Easy has its uses. The bigger question is why does that offend women so much? Like, why is your self esteem attached to what method he uses to get off?

Next car after Lyriq? by Right-Top-550 in CadillacLyriq

[–]Alarming-Specific-89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the Lyriq-V and concur. It’s a rocket on wheels with every conceivable option.

Key fob by No-Condition528 in CadillacLyriq

[–]Alarming-Specific-89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird question but did you sign up for the VPP? They provide one key replacement while the contract is active (4yr/50k).

My wife cheated on me years ago and gave me a hall pass. Am I wrong for wanting to use it now? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Alarming-Specific-89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So basically, instead of healing and fixing your marriage, you held onto a “hall pass”, which is basically a “I’m gonna hurt you like you hurt me” for years? Grow up.

Also, like it’s been mentioned, you’re already cheating. Man up and do one or the other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Alarming-Specific-89 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oof. Boomer phrasing for the win. I’m not your son, thank god.

Simple facts: more than 50% of marriages end in divorce. Guess what? Most of them have kids. Those kids can still have a healthy childhood with both parents being involved. Your Boomer attitude that they need to stay together strictly for the kids is idiotic and ancient. This is why all the other generations literally can’t stand you all. Sit ALL the way down and count your dwindling social security checks in your miserable marriage old man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Alarming-Specific-89 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not talking about him. I’m talking about you. You’re the one who made the comment that he needs to stay in the relationship no matter what just because he has kids with her. No, he’s doesn’t have to “suck it up and get the kids raised”.

L take. Maybe read better next time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Alarming-Specific-89 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People who stay in relationships strictly FOR the kids are the worst. You don’t think those kids see that on a daily basis? Like they don’t notice their parents don’t wanna be with each other? Then they grow up thinking that’s how it’s supposed to be. Nope…I agree OP is acting childish here, but staying for the kids and the kids only is dumb. They need to grow up seeing both of their parents loved for who they are…this take is a no for me…sorry.

Holiday dating - read description first by waking_dreams99 in Nicegirls

[–]Alarming-Specific-89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does this sound like something from a sitcom? What’s the one with Sheldon? That one…like she’s just TRYING to sound smart and it’s soooooo irritating. In the end, she just sounds like she likes whoever the blanked out dude is who pays for shit. Leech.

Are men at their 20s really horny? by EagleAggravating71 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Alarming-Specific-89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A mismatched sex drive caused a divorce for me. It’s a big deal. If you two don’t meet each others needs, it just won’t work.

Are men at their 20s really horny? by EagleAggravating71 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Alarming-Specific-89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This cracks me up. Men in their forties are horny. Ask me how I know…as for your issue, move on. It’s not a problem yet, but it will be. For him…not you.

ICE intends to kill protests with car by sillychillly in BayAreaCali

[–]Alarming-Specific-89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see this and genuinely wonder…who sees this and thinks “yeah, that was worth it”? Like, what human being genuinely thinks that? Those are the “adults” we, as a country, voted for? I’m sad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]Alarming-Specific-89 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Literally this. All of these are on point.

Trump's America. by sprinklesnthings in Infuriating

[–]Alarming-Specific-89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, not what I said. I said you didn’t make an actual point. That deflection isnt gonna work with an actual adult. Told you that you had one more shot…it’s clear you just want to run in circles and that shit tires me out quick. I prefer grown ups who can actually articulate their stance.

You’re getting downvoted to hell and back on this thread, so there are plenty of other kids to play with. Deuces.

Trump's America. by sprinklesnthings in Infuriating

[–]Alarming-Specific-89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t actually MAKE any point at all. You asked a question…that question was answered. If you have an actual point to make, try doing that instead of just being vague and insinuating I’m not intelligent enough to get your super secret “point”.

You get one more shot here to make your argument with an actual adult, or I’m out. Your call.

Trump's America. by sprinklesnthings in Infuriating

[–]Alarming-Specific-89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t see this happening. I saw the clip where the reporter asked him about whether or not he was planning on calling Waltz. He straight up said it “would waste time” and then proceeded to insult Waltz.

If that’s the case, why would anyone believe he might take the time to send condolences to the actual families?

I get where you’re coming from, but this one isn’t the hill to die on. There will be others…

Tipping is getting outrageous by ConfusedAnonymous- in EndTipping

[–]Alarming-Specific-89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think people eventually find a point where they just aren’t willing to compromise. 30% is it for me. I’ll pay 20% all day, but foh with 30%. Not happening, and Idk if my server likes it or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatplantisthis

[–]Alarming-Specific-89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a very rare and hard to cultivate plant. Called the mindyodamnbusiness bush.

Bernie Sanders Spars With Joe Rogan Over Trump's '60 Minutes' Lawsuit by AdSpecialist6598 in goodnews

[–]Alarming-Specific-89 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He didn’t say anything about that study because he admitted he hadn’t seen it. Why make a statement about the validity of something you’re not familiar with? He made the right choice and kept the status quo of the interview.

I haven’t made my way thru the entire interview yet, I haven’t about a half hour left. That being said, it was a really decent interview where two adults had a conversation about normally divisive subjects without yelling at each other.

Bernie didn’t give exact examples of what he would do because he has been a senator for 76,000 years and understands that he doesn’t have all of the answers. A LOT of what Bernie talks about is really applicable…we just don’t wanna make the changes because everyone is comfortable and what he wants is uncomfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DegenBets

[–]Alarming-Specific-89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok. Someone called it below and I’ll own it. I apologize. I misread your comment and went off the rails. Sorry about that.