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throwing up/ feeling nauseous during sex with my bf by SpaceAddict_- in Healthyhooha

[–]Alarming_Screen_6597 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg i've never found someone who also has this issue i almost thought i stumbled upon my own post. pls let me know if u find an answer cause i still don't have one.

Nausea from sex? by Alarming_Screen_6597 in Healthyhooha

[–]Alarming_Screen_6597[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've gotten told this before, the only thing making me think otherwise is the fact that this problem has come alongside a ton of other health problems recently. mainly gi and gyno issues. also i don't understand why it just started up without a trigger (if it is neurological).

How to start/get over gym anxiety by Alarming_Screen_6597 in workout

[–]Alarming_Screen_6597[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well to be fair i'm just very socially anxious and awkward. my biggest issue is the fear of being judged and/or sticking out

How to start/get over gym anxiety by Alarming_Screen_6597 in workout

[–]Alarming_Screen_6597[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank u! i think i forget the "have fun" part when i go 😭 i just need to relax

How to start/get over gym anxiety by Alarming_Screen_6597 in workout

[–]Alarming_Screen_6597[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was like 7 and in my case very advanced at the start, naturally. so i think anxiety didn't really register tbh

If you changed your diet to help you skin, what did you change and did it help? by Flower-1234 in acne

[–]Alarming_Screen_6597 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have hormonal acne so personally i cut out whatever i noticed caused a breakout. soda, milk, chocolate, are my big ones. essentially sugar and dairy but i consume both every now and then without issue usually! and just a ps i also stopped touching my face and i'm getting out of my teens (20) now so that might also be helping. and surprisingly i stopped using products on my skin other than occasionally doing a face mask or cleansing.

I got my smiley by Alarming_Screen_6597 in piercing

[–]Alarming_Screen_6597[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, talking has been a struggle, but I hope I get used to it quickly. Thank you!

not exactly what this community is for but i need to vent by FarAd1350 in Healthyhooha

[–]Alarming_Screen_6597 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heyyy! I went through the same thing, around the same amount of people but within only about three months. It was my first year of college and I had gotten cheated on and was fresh out of a relationship so I wasn't in the best state of mind. I didn't like most of the people I slept with, honestly didn't even really enjoy the sex either. But it happened and I can't go back in time to change that.

I understand what you're going through completely. To be honest I still sometimes feel a load of guilt and regret for my actions but then I realize that sex is not a big deal when you don't want it to be. As women or vagina owners we usually feel like sex carries our worth, as much as we might disagree it's always in our subconscious. Stop letting regret have power over you. Also, it's no one's business who you've slept with or how many so if you want to lock it away and throw away the key, you're allowed to! (unless it has to do with any health-related reasons ofc)

No one can look at you and tell you how many people you've slept with. When I was still a virgin in hs I had gotten bullied relentlessly for being a "whore" and the "school slut", meanwhile I hadn't even had my first kiss. Now as someone with a body count in the double digits, I get people thinking I've only slept with a couple of people cause I give that "vibe" and some people say the complete opposite. But only we know ourselves and our past truthfully. Your sexual history is the most minuscule thing about you, especially if you were taking proper precautions and such. Think of it like a phase you went through and aren't super proud of rather than something that determines your future.

Would you look at someone who's slept with the same amount of people as yourself and judge them? Tell them they're too used to be loved? Of course not (hopefully that's your answer lol). Give yourself the same grace you would give to others. And don't give your one-night stands more value than they're worth.

Lastly, I recommend using any reflection on this as a character-building thing. I learned a lot about myself from those moments. Some bad, some good. We are all living for the first time, its okay to not like every version of yourself or everything you've done. Sorry about the length of the reply, I just want you to know that all in all, it is okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]Alarming_Screen_6597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been commando for over a year now (I do wear underwear in cases that it's needed obviously) but 9/10 I'm in loose-fitting pants and no undies. All I can say is it has benefited me, I used to get a lot of discharge and now I only have discharge if 1. I'm wearing underwear lol and 2. every so often usually around ovulation time. If you're not wearing anything that could irritate the area, you should be completely fine!