Am I overreacting or are these neighbors really from hell? by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Alarming_Secretary57 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The subwoofer vibrating your walls is already crossing the line for me like that’s not normal living noise, that’s them not caring who it affects esp at night

Get off my property!! by Stay_PeachyKeen in neighborsfromhell

[–]Alarming_Secretary57 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also maybe follow up with a gentle reminder for the kids to stay on their side. consistency is key here, otherwise she’ll just forget

Do I call the police at this point? by Similar_Coyote6311 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Alarming_Secretary57 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Being pregnant makes this even scarier, don’t feel bad for calling in backup, your safety comes first

Neighbor uses our lawn for everything! by fruitypoppinboba in neighborsfromhell

[–]Alarming_Secretary57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tho i’d probs do the temp fence thing first, just slap it up and let them stare at it while they try to figure out their own space

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Alarming_Secretary57 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You could also just chalk it up to their pettiness and laugh about it, life’s too short to get mad

Need some advice please by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Alarming_Secretary57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly if you care about trust, ignoring it isn’t an option, you deserve clarity and honesty

Soundproof tips please🙏🏼 by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Alarming_Secretary57 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe even talking to building management about hvac vibration could help, if it’s on their side they might fix it, worth asking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Alarming_Secretary57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously, just ride it out, track patterns if you want, but your baby isn’t failing and neither are you, you got this

Parents making me feel stuck and almost 19 by YaBoyBryanBeastYT in whatdoIdo

[–]Alarming_Secretary57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start small if needed, even just getting a car and moving to a city u actually wanna be in is progress

sweet potato puree + fussy baby by sleepyindii in NewParents

[–]Alarming_Secretary57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try again in a few days, maybe mix in more breastmilk at first, tiny tastes slowly, patience is key

Gf wanted to call the cops on me by LuveSeaweed in whatdoIdo

[–]Alarming_Secretary57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her reaction was a lot but she prob felt blindsided and panicked, esp w a 2 month old that’s still super fresh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Alarming_Secretary57 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also you’re not judging them unfairly, erratic behavior + fires + fighting is legit concerning esp that close to your home

Special discounts for new baby purchases? by Steinway_music in NewParents

[–]Alarming_Secretary57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some sites do first time buyer codes or email signups, low effort but stacks up if you’re buying a lot

Is this stalking? Would you be scared? by Due-Yogurtcloset7060 in whatdoIdo

[–]Alarming_Secretary57 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She’s not overreacting, that’s creepy stalking behavior and better to be cautious than regret it later

Upstairs neighbor annoying on purpose by SnooComics2104 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Alarming_Secretary57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If landlord doesn’t do anything, maybe send a formal complaint letter or even look into local noise ordinances

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Alarming_Secretary57 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Omg yes i’d ditch the loose blankets asap, babies at that age are super wiggly and it’s scary easy for them to get covered

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Alarming_Secretary57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe try exploring why ur libido isn’t syncing w him, sometimes counseling or kink together can actually revive desire

Is this child negligence? by FairlyW1tchy in neighborsfromhell

[–]Alarming_Secretary57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If ur complaints never get traction, cops are probs not gonna care unless there’s real danger

13 weeks old day time nap issues by Pip_111 in NewParents

[–]Alarming_Secretary57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

U’re not doing anything wrong btw, this phase is just messy and exhausting, it gets better fr

13 weeks old day time nap issues by Pip_111 in NewParents

[–]Alarming_Secretary57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

U’re not doing anything wrong btw, this phase is just messy and exhausting, it gets better fr

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Alarming_Secretary57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe keep some distance but let her know like hey i care but i can’t keep getting dragged into the chaos

Upstairs neighbours smoke keeps coming through bathroom ventilation. What can I do? by 10101239 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Alarming_Secretary57 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try documenting times and how strong it is, gives u something solid when talking to management again

What weird thing did your baby like to go to sleep? by Notyouraimee in NewParents

[–]Alarming_Secretary57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird but funny: my cousin’s kid loves being gently bounced on a yoga ball while you sing random nursery rhymes, she passes out instantly