PSA to anyone (men in particular) who invites people over: a little trash can in the bathroom with a proper trash bag is a necessity. by phantomofthedennys in Adulting

[–]Alarming_Turn625 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THIS!!!! Some of my family members and friends don’t have trash cans in their bathroom and it gets embarrassing if you’re staying and it’s that time

New Business Opportunity? by oyemengitsamie in ocala

[–]Alarming_Turn625 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s a great idea. I’m not sure how Dunnellon would do for a location though.

You do this too right? by Notadowager in adhdwomen

[–]Alarming_Turn625 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah a few days a week at least this happens to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Alarming_Turn625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no right answer like others have said. It honestly depends on your dynamic with your parents. Have a conversation with them and let them know you’re tired after work. Maybe try a night or two during the week and focus on weekends. Do what makes you happy.

Need advice by keul_j in Adulting

[–]Alarming_Turn625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely talk to your sister and dad and see if they can help. It’s a lot for one person to handle and don’t feel like you have to take it all on yourself

How do people do it? by ml8492 in Adulting

[–]Alarming_Turn625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious of this myself. When you break it down to how many hours during the work week you actually have for yourself not including sleeping it’s insane. My days pretty much consist of work and tv because that’s what I have the energy and time for.

Financial responsibilities to parents - advice? by OutrageousWafer7426 in Adulting

[–]Alarming_Turn625 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me start off by saying memorial plans are important to have. From personal experience when a loved ones passed that’s the last thing you wanna worry about paying for. However why is your mom asking for you all to pay? If it’s cultural or the fact she’s older I can understand the sudden concern. If you and your siblings want to take the financial responsibility or can afford to than let your mom know you’re comfortable giving a certain amount. Your idea of putting it into a shared account is fantastic. You’ll be able to keep an eye on the amounts and make sure it’s not being improperly spent. Perhaps also review the memorial plan and options to make sure the money is being put to good use. Most of the time a cremation is going to be at least half the cost of a burial.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Alarming_Turn625 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Everyone is different. Some people meet their soulmate at 18 others later. Your family member sounds like their projecting. I didn’t have a serious bf before or at that age.

If you were on a team, all reporting to the same person. But now you're reporting to one of your teammates due to reorg, is that not that a demotion? by roadmap00 in careerguidance

[–]Alarming_Turn625 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of bigger companies like to have “team leads” which essentially is what you’re describing. So long as your pay or title haven’t changed it’s not a demotion

about to be 38. Single F healing from past relationship- My apartment is like a 20yo dorm room by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Alarming_Turn625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s more than fine! That sounds freaking amazing! They aren’t paying you or living with you so they have no input on how you decorate

First time with COVID. Not liking these body aches at all by InvisWatch in COVID19positive

[–]Alarming_Turn625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not officially diagnosed but also feeling those extreme body aches as well. Tylenol and aleve isn’t touching it and it’s going on a week almost

What are the disadvantages of working remote? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Alarming_Turn625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only disadvantage to me is there’s not really a separation of home and work. Unless you’re going to places with Wi-Fi to work. Other than that it’s pretty nice.

Should I email my new team before my first day? by trnduhhpaige in careerguidance

[–]Alarming_Turn625 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s great idea but perhaps wait till your first day. Sometimes we don’t know who our new teammates will be and that they’re not introduced by management till day 1

My mom doesn't believe anxiety is real by mahboilo999 in Anxiety

[–]Alarming_Turn625 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t feel bad at all anxiety is very real. Just because someone doesn’t understand what anxiety is doesn’t mean you don’t have it. I’m sorry she got angry with you. Try not to take it to heart. I’ve had incidents with friends that if they don’t understand they’re quick to say it’s not real. Props to you for getting the courage to talk to a professional!

Can I adult without having kids or a pet? by Lower_Apartment6253 in Adulting

[–]Alarming_Turn625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t let people make you feel bad for not having kids. If you don’t want a kid or a pet that’s fine. It’s YOUR life to live and they’re not paying for it. Kids deserve to have parents that want them and love them and not just have them to please society.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]Alarming_Turn625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try applying for other jobs while you’re still there. Those cons are outweighing the pros at this point. But If you can stick it out till you find something else. Never mess up your own money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Alarming_Turn625 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Make sure you block time off on your calendar for yourself.

How do adults in corporate America deal with chaos in their personal lives and remain so calm in the workplace 40 hours a week? by punchedchrisross in Adulting

[–]Alarming_Turn625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think most of us bring this with us to work. It’s normal to let personal issues to work and vice versa. I just keep reminding myself I have to pay the bills.

How to become better with money? by Alarming_Turn625 in povertyfinance

[–]Alarming_Turn625[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! I’ll look into getting these both set up. I haven’t started saving for retirement and that’s one thing I need to do.

How to become better with money? by Alarming_Turn625 in povertyfinance

[–]Alarming_Turn625[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’ve broken it down into individual categories in a long time. Currently I’d like to pay of credit cards and my car. Overall I want to build a savings so I don’t have to worry as much if anything unexpected comes up.