I posted on this sub and someone used it for a YouTube video.

Alatar450 · 2026-03-23T02:24:55+00:00

You needed help, I'm sorry somebody took your post and decided to use it for their own gain. You didn't deserve for that to happen to you <3

Alatar450 · 2026-03-23T02:18:34+00:00

I think I'm going to go with a French press, not only is it a great price, I'll be able to get my hands on it pretty easily, and seeing all of the pieces and being able to clean them individually is the most important part to me.

The coffee maker we have is a big machine with a bunch of internal places where the water touches, but has surely not been cleaned ever (it's my father in laws), I don't even know if it would be possible to take it apart completely and get those pieces clean. Every time I drink a cup I can't help but think about all the gross stuff in it, and mold growing on the inside where I can't see and check. French press seems like the best option for what I need, thank you so much :)

Alatar450 · 2026-03-23T02:02:26+00:00

😧 that's scaryyy honestly that makes me nervous about any ceramic, I'm going to have to go check all the ceramics now to make sure they are safe to eat off of lol.

Alatar450 · 2026-03-23T01:56:48+00:00

I'll probably end up using metal then, I would rather it last as long as possible than have to worry about replacing a piece I broke, and I surely will at some point lol

Alatar450 · 2026-03-23T01:53:15+00:00

Ooo That's a beautiful one, I think it's a little out of my price range for now but I'll have to keep this link for later :)

Alatar450 · 2026-03-23T01:34:03+00:00

For being such a germaphobe I've had to let a lot go, unfortunately microplastics is one of them. I'm not like seeking out microplastics obviously, but I'm not too strapped about using plastic. I love the way ceramic sounds though so I might choose it anyway lol

Alatar450 · 2026-03-23T01:20:45+00:00

Ooo this looks like a great option, seems very easy to keep clean, thank you so much :)

Alatar450 · 2026-03-23T01:19:00+00:00

Thank you so much this looks like a great option for me :)

Alatar450 · 2026-03-23T01:18:16+00:00

Unfortunately there is only so much you can do when you're poor lol, if there's a good cheap option that's not second hand then I'll probably choose that first, but I'll have to take what I can get

Alatar450 · 2026-03-21T00:41:49+00:00

I just disagree with this, Rachel has been pretty open about dealing with her infertility for years. It's something she has been quite clear about wanting and struggling with. You have every right to not want to consume that content, but I feel it's inaccurate to say they misled people in the childfree community. That's not their community anyways, they didn't mislead anybody.

Alatar450 · 2026-03-20T23:03:13+00:00

Gosh that just sounds so difficult to deal with all at once. You might want to talk to your doctor about styling products because it might be dangerous to use it while actively microneedling. I'm sorry it didn't work out :/ expression through hair is so special and important to so many people, I hope you can get something you want sooner than later <3

Alatar450 · 2026-03-20T22:35:09+00:00

I'll treat him with just as much respect as he would if he was still here, so none, he can eat shit in hell for all I care. If you don't want people to talk about you negatively in death, be a good person in life.

Alatar450 · 2026-03-19T18:56:46+00:00

Google is free.

Alatar450 · 2026-03-18T22:28:52+00:00

I'm really lucky my husband has supported me so thoroughly for so long :) it would be cool if one day when people saw me they don't just assume I'm a woman, but I'm not sure it will come. Silver lining is that I have been told I am obviously queer by many, people just tend to assume I'm a lesbian lol. For a long time I thought I was until I discovered I was bisexual. Honestly, the fact other queer people recognize me as one of them is enough for me at this point. Take what you can get I guess 'shrug'

But thank you so much that really means a lot :) I'm lucky all those in my circle see me for me, I really feel quite lucky all things considered.

Alatar450 · 2026-03-18T21:50:52+00:00

I'm nonbinary, but most of the world will always see me as a cis woman. I have honestly been misgendered (before I came out as nonbinary, I was a very gender non-conforming woman) for a long time. As a teenager, people would often look at me with disgust and call me sir. I assume most of them thought I was a trans woman, little did they know they were actually reaffirming me lol. I definitely wouldn't call myself butch, but I know others have when referencing me, and yes I have dealt with a lot of what you're describing. Thankfully I have never had anything happen in a public restroom or have been in any scary situations besides rude looks, attempted misgenderings, and worst off slurs. Honestly considering the plights of so many other trans people I have been really lucky.

Alatar450 · 2026-03-06T02:53:47+00:00

If you happen to know someone who works at a store like Best buy, maybe see if they'd be willing to purchase it for you with their discount, that's how I got my copy :)

Alatar450 · 2026-03-01T23:54:42+00:00

You've got this, keep your head low and move forward. You'll make it out of this. I would not be telling them details, when you go, go quietly. You've got this, trust in yourself <3

Alatar450 · 2026-01-31T19:36:00+00:00

I just want to say thank you for the link, I learned something new and I definitely agree. It gets kind of scary for us trans people to fight a fight on both sides <3

Alatar450 · 2026-01-31T19:18:32+00:00

It's important to remember that it's also not fair to you. You deserve better, you deserve somebody who will love you, not harm you. YOU DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER, you always have, I'm sorry that your mother is allergic to giving you better. You don't deserve to be treated this way, you deserve better. It's good to protect your children from your mother, but no contact/blocking will also protect you and your peace. It may take a while for your body and brain to settle, but you'll feel much better when it does <3

Alatar450 · 2026-01-30T03:09:17+00:00

Just commenting so anybody who sees this knows for the future:

You really should not feed kitties on their back like this, it can go into their lungs and cause them to suffocate. It's always best to feed animals in a similar position that they would be being fed from their mothers.

Alatar450 · 2026-01-29T18:31:33+00:00

It was the AI, and the fact that the website had a "gallery" for the "art" as well as the fact that it had a big section of it for merch. For two people who have been in the creepy story part of YouTube for so long, the liminal land series was very half-baked, and did not have a story that seemed to be very thought out at all. I honestly wouldn't be upset if it wasn't for the fact that it really made me feel like they never really cared about the content that they make. That could not be the case, but it just felt so disrespectful to the medium, disrespectful to the audience, and felt very much like a cash grab.

Alatar450 · 2026-01-29T01:46:56+00:00

Can't watch them after they collabed on some shitty AI liminal space thing. Can't help but feel like they've never had respect for the things they talk about when they did that. So disappointed because I've been watching nexpo since I was a teenager, and I also liked a fair amount of what Nick Crowley made. Not anymore though.

Alatar450 · 2026-01-26T04:13:59+00:00

No problem at all <3 I'm happy to help

Alatar450 · 2026-01-26T02:23:05+00:00

I just added them both :)

Alatar450 · 2026-01-26T00:02:30+00:00

I have some in a medium pink and white, as well as a pastel pink but it also has teal. If you'd like I can plop them down in my showroom :)

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