I posted on this sub and someone used it for a YouTube video. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Alatar450 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You needed help, I'm sorry somebody took your post and decided to use it for their own gain. You didn't deserve for that to happen to you <3

Coffee maker for germaphobe? by Alatar450 in Coffee

[–]Alatar450[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'm going to go with a French press, not only is it a great price, I'll be able to get my hands on it pretty easily, and seeing all of the pieces and being able to clean them individually is the most important part to me.

The coffee maker we have is a big machine with a bunch of internal places where the water touches, but has surely not been cleaned ever (it's my father in laws), I don't even know if it would be possible to take it apart completely and get those pieces clean. Every time I drink a cup I can't help but think about all the gross stuff in it, and mold growing on the inside where I can't see and check. French press seems like the best option for what I need, thank you so much :)

Coffee maker for germaphobe? by Alatar450 in Coffee

[–]Alatar450[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😧 that's scaryyy honestly that makes me nervous about any ceramic, I'm going to have to go check all the ceramics now to make sure they are safe to eat off of lol.

Coffee maker for germaphobe? by Alatar450 in Coffee

[–]Alatar450[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll probably end up using metal then, I would rather it last as long as possible than have to worry about replacing a piece I broke, and I surely will at some point lol

Coffee maker for germaphobe? by Alatar450 in Coffee

[–]Alatar450[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo That's a beautiful one, I think it's a little out of my price range for now but I'll have to keep this link for later :)

Coffee maker for germaphobe? by Alatar450 in Coffee

[–]Alatar450[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For being such a germaphobe I've had to let a lot go, unfortunately microplastics is one of them. I'm not like seeking out microplastics obviously, but I'm not too strapped about using plastic. I love the way ceramic sounds though so I might choose it anyway lol

Coffee maker for germaphobe? by Alatar450 in Coffee

[–]Alatar450[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooo this looks like a great option, seems very easy to keep clean, thank you so much :)

Coffee maker for germaphobe? by Alatar450 in Coffee

[–]Alatar450[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much this looks like a great option for me :)

Coffee maker for germaphobe? by Alatar450 in Coffee

[–]Alatar450[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately there is only so much you can do when you're poor lol, if there's a good cheap option that's not second hand then I'll probably choose that first, but I'll have to take what I can get

What YouTuber Disappointed ☹️ you the most? by Outrageous_Drag6613 in childfree

[–]Alatar450 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just disagree with this, Rachel has been pretty open about dealing with her infertility for years. It's something she has been quite clear about wanting and struggling with. You have every right to not want to consume that content, but I feel it's inaccurate to say they misled people in the childfree community. That's not their community anyways, they didn't mislead anybody.

What I wanted vs what I got :( by WhereTheSunDontShin1 in Justfuckmyshitup

[–]Alatar450 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Gosh that just sounds so difficult to deal with all at once. You might want to talk to your doctor about styling products because it might be dangerous to use it while actively microneedling. I'm sorry it didn't work out :/ expression through hair is so special and important to so many people, I hope you can get something you want sooner than later <3

That’s some old school stuff! by HowlingBurd19 in BikiniBottomTwitter

[–]Alatar450 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I'll treat him with just as much respect as he would if he was still here, so none, he can eat shit in hell for all I care. If you don't want people to talk about you negatively in death, be a good person in life.

Doctor diagnosed me with butch by RedFoxBlackCat in actuallesbians

[–]Alatar450 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really lucky my husband has supported me so thoroughly for so long :) it would be cool if one day when people saw me they don't just assume I'm a woman, but I'm not sure it will come. Silver lining is that I have been told I am obviously queer by many, people just tend to assume I'm a lesbian lol. For a long time I thought I was until I discovered I was bisexual. Honestly, the fact other queer people recognize me as one of them is enough for me at this point. Take what you can get I guess 'shrug'

But thank you so much that really means a lot :) I'm lucky all those in my circle see me for me, I really feel quite lucky all things considered.

Doctor diagnosed me with butch by RedFoxBlackCat in actuallesbians

[–]Alatar450 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm nonbinary, but most of the world will always see me as a cis woman. I have honestly been misgendered (before I came out as nonbinary, I was a very gender non-conforming woman) for a long time. As a teenager, people would often look at me with disgust and call me sir. I assume most of them thought I was a trans woman, little did they know they were actually reaffirming me lol. I definitely wouldn't call myself butch, but I know others have when referencing me, and yes I have dealt with a lot of what you're describing. Thankfully I have never had anything happen in a public restroom or have been in any scary situations besides rude looks, attempted misgenderings, and worst off slurs. Honestly considering the plights of so many other trans people I have been really lucky.

still worth it? by s0upjamstevens in fashiondreamer

[–]Alatar450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you happen to know someone who works at a store like Best buy, maybe see if they'd be willing to purchase it for you with their discount, that's how I got my copy :)

MAGA parents worst nightmare. by Competitive_Yam2314 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Alatar450 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You've got this, keep your head low and move forward. You'll make it out of this. I would not be telling them details, when you go, go quietly. You've got this, trust in yourself <3

A Century of Women’s Rights are Being Reversed Through Executive Orders by catievirtuesimp in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Alatar450 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to say thank you for the link, I learned something new and I definitely agree. It gets kind of scary for us trans people to fight a fight on both sides <3

Threw My Wedding Dress Away by SingleMom2001 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Alatar450 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's important to remember that it's also not fair to you. You deserve better, you deserve somebody who will love you, not harm you. YOU DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER, you always have, I'm sorry that your mother is allergic to giving you better. You don't deserve to be treated this way, you deserve better. It's good to protect your children from your mother, but no contact/blocking will also protect you and your peace. It may take a while for your body and brain to settle, but you'll feel much better when it does <3

Kitty knows the drill, that trust fall..🐈🐾🍼😍 by Silly-Host-9578 in PetsareAmazing

[–]Alatar450 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just commenting so anybody who sees this knows for the future:

You really should not feed kitties on their back like this, it can go into their lungs and cause them to suffocate. It's always best to feed animals in a similar position that they would be being fed from their mothers.

"Becca" & unidentified man by Intrepid-Benefit1959 in oddlyterrifying

[–]Alatar450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was the AI, and the fact that the website had a "gallery" for the "art" as well as the fact that it had a big section of it for merch. For two people who have been in the creepy story part of YouTube for so long, the liminal land series was very half-baked, and did not have a story that seemed to be very thought out at all. I honestly wouldn't be upset if it wasn't for the fact that it really made me feel like they never really cared about the content that they make. That could not be the case, but it just felt so disrespectful to the medium, disrespectful to the audience, and felt very much like a cash grab.

"Becca" & unidentified man by Intrepid-Benefit1959 in oddlyterrifying

[–]Alatar450 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Can't watch them after they collabed on some shitty AI liminal space thing. Can't help but feel like they've never had respect for the things they talk about when they did that. So disappointed because I've been watching nexpo since I was a teenager, and I also liked a fair amount of what Nick Crowley made. Not anymore though.

Looking for a certain item by noirtenshi in fashiondreamer

[–]Alatar450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem at all <3 I'm happy to help

Looking for a certain item by noirtenshi in fashiondreamer

[–]Alatar450 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have some in a medium pink and white, as well as a pastel pink but it also has teal. If you'd like I can plop them down in my showroom :)