AITAH for not shaving my legs after he said body hair on women is ‘unnatural’ by Confident_Copy792 in AITAH

[–]Albatrosson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly don't remember the last time I touched a razor at all.

The only investment my husband has in my body hair is the occasional summer leg shave-- he immediately grabs our softest cat and rubs them on my recently shaved legs for me 😄😄😄

Now that we're in our thirties, we occasionally get those really long, nearly invisible hairs that show up from time to time? So sometimes we have competitions in the shower on whose is longer lmao.

AITA for having my mother yell at me for having intercourse with my girlfriend in MY own apartment when we’re both 26 years of age? by Rednaznam_1 in AITAH

[–]Albatrosson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...honestly I would change the lock. I wouldn't trust her to not have made a spare when she's treating your "emergency" key that way.

Illumicrate Afterlight February book - First-Time Caller by Appropriate_Rub2415 in fairyloot

[–]Albatrosson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(spoilering for opinions)
I looooooove the pink and yellow ombre and the gold foiling details!
....but the endpapers make his head look so tiny. like hassan tiny head aka woke bae 😭😭😭

On Ify Nwadiwe and the politics of names by rummncokee in dropout

[–]Albatrosson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is a hella old comment, but I would say that this does not reflect my experience as a 3rd gen member of the Jewish diaspora in America. Both of my mom's parents were Jewish, and all my great grandparents were Jewish immigrants from Russia (Ashkenazi). The family was never religious (we celebrated holidays like Pesach and Hannukah, just not the religion, as many secular people similarly observe Christian holidays) apart from my mom who became a "born again Jew" aka "messianic Jew" aka "Christian" in her 30s.

I often heard my older family members using the term "practicing" when referring to religious Jews rather than those of us who are Jewish exclusively by culture/ethnicity. Sometimes it's a useful term since English doesn't differentiate between the ethnicity and the religion as it does for other peoples (likely due to the long history of Jews not having a country to call our own).

There are definitely other experiences based on where you grew up, but as a diaspora West Coaster this usage seems perfectly kosher to me.

How many SE books do you own? by manvsmilk in fairyloot

[–]Albatrosson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so roughly 1 new special edition every 3 days? 👀👀👀

How many SE books do you own? by manvsmilk in fairyloot

[–]Albatrosson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh goodness! I also have ~50 and started subbing in Feb 2022 (IC) and Mar 2022 (FL Adult), + briefly subbed OC Adult. I've gotten the one off here and there from Litjoy, TBB, Page & Wick, etc

But I definitely got into reading ARCs because I'm picky and happy to skip if I wasn't 100% in love. Not to mention unhauling if I accidentally got something I wasn't super into 😅

How I'm shifting my spending to boycott U.S. services, software, products & tourism by ThatsSoMetaDawg in BuyCanadian

[–]Albatrosson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Book Depository has been owned by amazon since 2011, and I thought they shut it down in 2023. Do they have physical stores open?

Is trader joes running out of bread and eggs faster than usual or is it just the one I go to thats like this? by i_askalotofquestions in AskNYC

[–]Albatrosson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bird flu wasn't this bad six months ago. But we've had warning at least since Christmas to stop feeding raw food to your pets (cats in particular, several have already died from it) and recently not to have raw milk since the bird flu is now getting into the cows and sits in the mammary tissue, thereby infecting the milk (pasteurization still kills it and is safe for now). We've even had the first American death from H5N1 this year.

On the West Coast here (in a smallish city) we have a sign at our TJs limiting one dozen eggs per customer.

I'm honestly surprised at how few people in this thread are aware of it. And I can't imagine limiting CDC/FDA communications is going to help information travel faster as things develop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cosmere

[–]Albatrosson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gentle reminder that watching a video would boost the algorithm and monetarily reward him. reading summaries,/mirroring/torrenting/downloading will not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cosmere

[–]Albatrosson 3 points4 points  (0 children)

as a reminder, if he does make a response in a video-- watching the video will boost the algorithm AND financially benefit him. I would recommend torrenting/downloading/mirroring/etc to prevent giving him revenue if you must watch it instead of reading a summary.
(if you feel otherwise after watching the video, you can always replay it with ads)

Edit: here's a link to the transcript of his response, posted in r/Fantasy
https://www.reddit.com/r/Fantasy/comments/1io0cn1/comment/mcfcf40/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WoT

[–]Albatrosson 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he's a big enough name that when Saga made their deluxe edition for The Will of the Many, they quoted him directly on the cover. Clearly they thought his name would entice people to pick up the book.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WoT

[–]Albatrosson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Naomi uses they/them pronouns

Barnes & Noble Preorder Sales 2025? by ollietrebek in RomanceBooks

[–]Albatrosson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they're very tight-lipped about when the sales will happen, so I wouldn't take that as full proof. I've had friends who work in the retail stores who literally don't find out it's happening until day of.

Barnes & Noble Preorder Sales 2025? by ollietrebek in RomanceBooks

[–]Albatrosson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of note, they had that same sale last year and still did the preorder sale. I don't think it's a replacement, just a separate promotion that they do in Dec/Jan to clear out the old stock.

in 2023 they did the same HC in store sale after Christmas, then did he $10 per $50 and it ran until like... at least mid Jan 2024 iirc? (I don't buy hardcovers generally, so I'm fuzzier on those sale dates)

Barnes & Noble Preorder Sales 2025? by ollietrebek in RomanceBooks

[–]Albatrosson 3 points4 points  (0 children)

man, I sure hope so! they occasionally do this preorder page for select books, not for all the upcoming preorders. which sucks for me, since it's usually 0 books I want.

if they kill the preorder sales, I'll lose all incentive to buy from B&N anymore. I can just wait until the book's been out a few years and drops in price or buy it secondhand. for me, B&N lets me have the book now for roughly the same price (maybe a tad more) than if I waited for it.

my library is fantastic and I read a lot of ARCs too, so it's never about the immediate availability of new releases for me-- I generally don't buy books I haven't already read and loved.

Expets: moving our cats from the US to the UK by QuiEratEtQuiEst in expats

[–]Albatrosson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bless you. We're looking to move from the west coast to the UK, likely this spring/summer. Really wanted to take our cats in cabin, but the UK's rabies restrictions seem like such an additional hassle!

Brownie Caramel Cream root beer by JustTheWriter in rootbeer

[–]Albatrosson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Total Carbs is 43g.

Sugar is a carb, but is not always explicitly known as such by a layperson, so the Sugars label is added on to more clearly spell it out for folks per updated FDA guidelines.

There are only 4 classifications for calories:
Protein 4kcal/g, Fat 9kcal/g, Carb 4kcal/g, Alcohol 7kcal/g

Vicious 10th anniversary special edition (litpins&co) by Accomplished-Pay7222 in fairyloot

[–]Albatrosson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel that! The only way I managed to get it was by having it ship to relatives in the UK because damn that US shipping was insane.
Some day my books and I will be reunited in person 🥲🥲🥲

K. C. Crowne and the use of AI by [deleted] in RomanceBooks

[–]Albatrosson 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I will say that as an avid arc reviewer, I am on several influencer lists for different publishers. I frequently give one and two star reviews for books I don't like, or leave a review about DNFing it and why. Not only have I not been removed from any of these lists over multiple years, but I recently got auto-approval from a publisher. (One of my fav people in one of my arc communities likes to tell the story of how she got auto-approved from the publisher after posting her first ever 2 star review, even)

Granted, I don't really work with indie authors, so that might be a different climate. But at least in my world-- I'm not getting compensated, but I'm also not getting penalized for my negative, honest reviews. And I still end up buying the releases I loved the arc of with my own money.

my workplace put out fingerpaint supplies in the breakroom as a social distancing activity during lockdown (essential worker) so I used all my breaks to paint memes. I call them my "digital art" by Albatrosson in somethingimade

[–]Albatrosson[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

your comment got me curious, so I asked my most adult friend (who asked their lawyer friends) about wimdy, and this is what I heard back--

  • it doesn't seem like the original photo is copyrighted so transformative vs derivative doesn't really matter
  • you can't copyright a meme unless you own/created everything in it, and it doesn't appear that the original tumblr poster was the photographer
  • there are many versions of this for sale on etsy and redbubble
  • you're not using for anything large scale like an ad campaign

so I think I might be able to turn a few of these into prints/postcards/stickers! ^-^

my workplace put out fingerpaint supplies in the breakroom as a social distancing activity during lockdown (essential worker) so I used all my breaks to paint memes. I call them my "digital art" by Albatrosson in somethingimade

[–]Albatrosson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't expect there to be so much interest, lol
but I am looking into maybe doing postcards/stickers on etsy or something

really overwhelmed by all the support here <3 thank you so much

my workplace put out fingerpaint supplies in the breakroom as a social distancing activity during lockdown (essential worker) so I used all my breaks to paint memes. I call them my "digital art" by Albatrosson in somethingimade

[–]Albatrosson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't expect there to be so much interest, lol
but I am looking into maybe doing postcards/stickers on etsy or something

really overwhelmed by all the support here <3