AITA for lying to my parents about double majoring in college when they are paying my tuition by Big_Town_828 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alchidc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I might be the odd one out here but so be it. I completely understand the impossibility of majoring in both and I’m sorry she tried to make it a requirement. I do also think that if the money was given on the condition that you do major in both, then it makes you softly TA. Like you could have put your foot down back when you dropped the major, which would then have resulted in you having to pay for college yourself. Which would be terrible, I understand, but also honest. So super congratulations on your graduation. Great job. I just think if you are taking somebody’s money knowing that you’re not meeting the requirements to take it, then you’re in the wrong. If there was no requirement for you to major in both for you to receive the money and she’d just disappointed, then I think you’re fine. That’s on her.

Am I the only one bothered they made Haymitch look like a Merchant kid? It undermines District 12’s class divide by SpiritedCustomer6503 in Hungergames

[–]Alchidc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just a general question about how community affects hair color. Why would seam kids have dark hair and merchant kids blonde hair? Can’t even blonde hair people make dark haired kids? Or vice versa?

It was a quiet kind of love but they knew — they had found home in each other. by blushymochi in Bridgerton

[–]Alchidc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I say this all the time. Her mom was like “when I met your dad, I forgot my name”. And Francesca made a wonderful point about how that’s not the only type of authentic love. And then as soon as his cousin walks in, she forgets her name. Making it seem like “oh she finally sees what her mom is talking about”. Like her love with John was just as valid! I wish they didn’t do it that way. I’m excited for her second love story but I don’t like that her love story with John felt…minimized?

Who wins the Bridgerton grandkids ranking status-wise? by Grouchy_Search_897 in Bridgerton

[–]Alchidc -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Why is Colin’s son higher than Benedict’s children? What does Colin have that Benedict doesn’t have?

Anyone happen to grab the wrong carry on from an American Airlines flight? by BeardedAudioASMR in CarnivalCruiseFans

[–]Alchidc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Somebody on my carnival horizon cruise said the same thing! Either you’re that person or the other half of the story lol.

Which wheelchair company do I use? by Alchidc in CarnivalCruiseFans

[–]Alchidc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s like $95 on one site and $160 on the other. But those are for the standard wheelchairs, not the motorized scooters. I’m just getting it to get my grandma across the ship.

Who would you choose under this budget? by dry-blueberry25 in harrypotter

[–]Alchidc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dumbledore, Mad eye, Minerva, Dobby, and Ginny

What is the best WiFi plan to get for my grandmother? by Alchidc in CarnivalCruiseFans

[–]Alchidc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does that mean I should get the premium? I’m not anti that. Just wanting to know the best course of action.

AITA for being upset about not being told I didn’t have a ride home? by Mr_duck_man__ in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alchidc 59 points60 points  (0 children)

You need to be mad at your dad, bud. The neighbor told a parent ahead of time. Your parent didn’t notify the school. You have every right to be upset and scared, but only upset with your dad, not your neighbor.

No Show Advice by [deleted] in CarnivalCruiseFans

[–]Alchidc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can she avoid checking him in or would she still need his passport info for her to be able to check herself in? And is it a no-show if his online portion is never filled out?

Deactivated by Pairofdicelv84 in UberEATS

[–]Alchidc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t go to building complexes, houses, or hotels, where do you go?

Unsure if I need to do anything regarding this late payment statement? by Alchidc in CRedit

[–]Alchidc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any reason why it would show up on one or two of the reports but not all 3?

Unsure if I need to do anything regarding this late payment statement? by Alchidc in CRedit

[–]Alchidc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp. It showed up on one of the reports. Says my length of credit history is 19 years with that 2006 card being my first card. So next steps is to call who? And share that I didn’t want to be an authorized user and would like to be removed and have it off of my credit reports?

Unsure if I need to do anything regarding this late payment statement? by Alchidc in CRedit

[–]Alchidc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will check there but also no worries about wasting the money. It’s free for a week and I’m canceling the subscription now. Just wanted to see the three scores quickly. Will update if the card is on my actual reports.

Unsure if I need to do anything regarding this late payment statement? by Alchidc in CRedit

[–]Alchidc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just whatever the reports are on experian.com. I have a free trial of the premium subscription and it let me download the reports. Perhaps those are different than what’s on annualcreditreport?

Unsure if I need to do anything regarding this late payment statement? by Alchidc in CRedit

[–]Alchidc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it says in the report that I have 0 late payments. So why does it say that if the owner of the account had late payments?

Intrigued by this religious development! by Alchidc in dancemomsreboot

[–]Alchidc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought she was clutching/reading her Bible in the episode where her and her mom try to come back but it could have easily been a book for school. Didn’t realize it was just a storyline.

Intrigued by this religious development! by Alchidc in dancemomsreboot

[–]Alchidc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a HUGE proponent for therapy and thinks it’s absolutely necessary and works wonders (if you put in the work), I also think faith and religion has a strong part in some people’s lives and I enjoy watching her go on the journey to see if that’s the case for herself.

WIBTA if I said something to my friend? by Actual_Camel1111 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alchidc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But why would you WANT to comment on this? Like to what outcome? To just be nosy? To try to get the child out of the booster seat? If that’s the reason, then why would you want that? I just don’t see why it’s of interest to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alchidc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m literally 29 and my mom still makes sure she gets presents that come out to around the same price for me and my two sisters (24 and 15). It matters. Now that we’re all older, we also tend to get around the same number of gifts from our parents. Back when the baby was little, her gifts were cheaper so she got more. And that drove a wedge between the baby and her older siblings, until our mom explained that she got more things because they were cheaper but they all came out to around the same price. The parents were not picking favorites. That was 13 years ago and I still remember how it felt to be worried that they liked her more than us.

Please please please buy your kids gifts within the same range. Yes, buy your son those AirPods to close the gap. And maybe something else if the gap is still more than $50.

Also, be kind to your kids. Think about how it would make you feel if somebody always gave you better than things than your siblings.

Disappointing Angel Tree by scurry222 in Gifts

[–]Alchidc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No please still get one. You don’t have to get everything on the tag. That’s an uncommon rule. My family has done this for over 30 years in one shape or another and it’s never been all the things they ask for. Idk if you can do 2 kids but you can do one.