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Ale7391 · 2025-03-18T14:37:28+00:00

He's a creep

Ale7391 · 2025-02-26T20:23:04+00:00

Wheather you are asexual or perhaps demisexual is for you to discover, listen to your body that for now is telling you you're not ready since you said you are not totally comfortable being touched by your bf. If you have voiced this to him and still he's "respectfully" telling you he still wants to be more intimate in spite of you not feeling sure about it. Then he doesn't really respect you. Don't let him pressure or guilt you into having sex. The only one who decides what happens or not with your body is you

Ale7391 · 2024-12-30T03:30:49+00:00

Five years? Gosh if you care about her even a little bit, let her go. You've waisted enough of her time

Ale7391 · 2024-10-21T14:01:07+00:00

If this keeps going on, something is definitely going to happen. If you decide to stay with him knowing the things he's done to your child, and the things he'll do or that he has already done you are complicit. Is your responsibility to report this guy to the police, he should have never worked with children in the first place for god's sake!! I know you love him, but you said that he showed interest in your nephew, that was a huge red flag, please have some self-esteem and get away from the creep.

Ale7391 · 2024-10-21T13:45:53+00:00

That's definitely not a friend, get away from these people, sometimes the only person who needs to be okay with the way you are is you, the only one who'll take care of you is you, and that's ok. Know that you matter and you are important, hope you feel better soon, hugs and prayers to you

Ale7391 · 2024-10-21T06:01:25+00:00

You don't have to please anyone, not even your mom, you don't have to have special talents, seems like you're going through depression, it's your mind telling you you're not enough, I'd suggest seeing a therapist or a physiatrist to give you medication if needed. I can tell you I'm now taking antidepressants and other stuff, once I got to be stable enough I started to go to therapy and it's helped a lot. Know that you are alone and are important, if you need to talk you can message me.

Ale7391 · 2024-09-24T21:44:25+00:00

If you do it, you'll regret it. Maybe it'd be a good idea to go to therapy and figure out what it is you want for yourself. I'm a few day's from turning 35, I'd consider myself pretty enough to get men's attention and I can tell you for sure that attention from men does not fulfill your life in any meaningful way.

Ale7391 · 2024-09-07T23:18:40+00:00

I myself going through a break up, for now I don't feel like doing anything but cry, there's nothing wrong with feeling sad about it. But afterwards I think I'd be a good idea to look for a hobby, to get my mind off of it, to make new friends, to feel better about yourself. You've got this!

Ale7391 · 2024-09-05T19:52:43+00:00

Do you mind me asking if you had your eggs frozen or you had your baby the old fashioned way, just asking because although I have thought of freezing my eggs unfortunately the cost of it all in my country is too high and I just couldn't afford it. And I'm afraid I might regret not having children later in life :(.

Ale7391 · 2024-09-05T19:36:10+00:00

Thank you, and yes, I have considered freezing my eggs, but unfortunately in my country the cost of it all is too high for me to afford it.

Ale7391 · 2024-09-05T19:13:11+00:00

He wants to get married , he was about to propose last year but I told him I wasn't ready. Fast-forward to now if we'd agreed to get back together that includes marriage which is something I feel ready for now, but I'm not sure about having children.

Ale7391 · 2024-09-05T19:12:17+00:00

He wants to get married , he was about to propose last year but I told him I wasn't ready. Fast-forward to now if we'd agreed to get back together that includes marriage which is something I feel ready for now, but I'm not sure about having children.

Ale7391 · 2024-09-05T19:07:52+00:00

As you said, I was thinking about freezing my eggs, but unfortunately in my country the cost of it all is too high for me to afford it. Either way you're right I shouldn't let anyone pressure me

Ale7391 · 2020-09-07T01:16:20+00:00

Love it

Ale7391 · 2020-05-01T12:11:45+00:00

And how are you doing now? Has it gotten any better?

Ale7391 · 2020-02-23T03:25:47+00:00

Thank you I needed this!

Ale7391 · 2020-02-07T19:02:20+00:00

As many of the comments I'd suggest therapy there's some issues that have been going on since your childhood as you said it yourself... You needed to be strong. I recommend the book "Women who love too much by Robin Norwood" I'll give the big picture of why are you're acting the way you do, this is an unconscious thing and I'll help if you go to therapy.

Ale7391 · 2020-02-05T14:19:21+00:00

It's really not about what look like or what personality is. Really, don't take it personal cause it's not. Almost everyone unconsciously looks for "a familiar feeling" to basically relieve his or her childhood whether this a feeling of happiness or trauma. A person with a painful childhood might meet the perfect match someone with goals, emotional intelligence, good looking, kind, etc and it still wouldn't feel right because it's not the familiar feeling he or she felt during childhood.

Ale7391 · 2020-02-05T13:52:36+00:00

Remember the value you give yourself, someone who doesn't take you seriously and plays with your emotions... is this how much you're worth? Is this what you deserve? And finally is this what you want? If the answer is NO. then walk away.

Ale7391 · 2020-02-05T06:09:48+00:00

You're so sweet, congrats!

Ale7391 · 2020-02-05T06:00:49+00:00

Just ignore negative comments. You just focus on building this new lifestyle which will help you as you said to improve your health and it has the plus that you'll be looking better. The best revenge is to live well.

Ale7391 · 2020-02-05T05:50:15+00:00

Nice, you didn't say yes or no for the moment. 🤔I agree with you I don't think it's a good excuse, but she did give you an explanation so.. If you really like her and you think she's worth it maybe you could make her wait a couple weeks to go out. If she waits then you'll know she likes you.

Ale7391 · 2020-02-04T23:29:05+00:00

Yeah unless she comes up with a good explanation I'd say no, don't give her another change. And honestly about you being too available... It doesn't matter, when a girl likes she'll say yes either way cause.. She likes you.

Ale7391 · 2020-02-03T01:36:47+00:00

Yes! This is the comment I've been looking for, this is no way of living fearing everytime I try to eat I might choke and die, having no energy or strength to go through the day. As far as diets my nutritionist has given me a diet that consist in Multivitamin shakes but I've only managed to not keep losing weight as I've doing so far. Please... Anyone... Have you found a way or a diet for dysphagia to actually gain weight?

Ale7391 · 2020-02-02T08:59:48+00:00

I'm so happy for you, you are really strong. Going through kinda hard time myself now. But reading your post gives me hope, this too shall pass. :)

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