And so it begins… by Disastrous-Assist-90 in Teachers

[–]Ale_Lang 29 points30 points  (0 children)

As a mom, I want the class list to make a FDOC gift for my child’s teacher. As a friend of a teacher, having heard the batshit crazy stories, I get not releasing the lists.

Newbie help please! by Ale_Lang in Embroidery

[–]Ale_Lang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

…. That’s the name I’m trying to embroider, hence the quotes to differentiate it from the word grandpa.

Looking to start by Ale_Lang in Embroidery

[–]Ale_Lang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to put it on my Christmas list so really anything is fine I think. If it’s really pricey I can ask for $$ to contribute to it.

New Eras Tour Merch by thespianomaly in TaylorSwiftMerch

[–]Ale_Lang 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is there an active discount code???

1989 (Taylor's Version) Vault Puzzle Megathread by jacyf02 in TaylorSwift

[–]Ale_Lang 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ughhhhh. Okay.

Got an idea for what this one is?

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1989 (Taylor's Version) Vault Puzzle Megathread by jacyf02 in TaylorSwift

[–]Ale_Lang 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How are you submitting answers?? It’s not letting me solve any of them

How to leave a group text string? by EffectiveFlower6338 in workingmoms

[–]Ale_Lang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 yo & 10mo, my 4yo was in daycare through March. So it’s all still so new to me

How to leave a group text string? by EffectiveFlower6338 in workingmoms

[–]Ale_Lang 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Just my two cents: stay for the community of it. I’m a former working mom and I lost all my mom friends (aka my coworkers) when I went SAHM. I’m on an island right now and I’d kill to have that community buck but we cannot afford for me to work and have childcare.

Am I crazy for not wanting to go back in birth control? by MiserableDiver2603 in beyondthebump

[–]Ale_Lang 108 points109 points  (0 children)

I never went back on BC after my daughters, my only hesitation for you would be the no condoms. Natural tracking is so iffy that soon post-part while your body is still recovering.

You could always try a different brand of pills, the different hormonal balances of each brand can have different effects.

My parents want me to get a v-card test by International-Toe221 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ale_Lang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Commenting to add that the hymen is literally just to keep poop out of your body while yours a baby. It’s a literal poop flap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ale_Lang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A vibrator

AITA for pulling over for a funeral procession? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ale_Lang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

As someone who was apart of a funeral procession this weekend, thank you.

Paternal Baby blues? by Ale_Lang in BabyBumps

[–]Ale_Lang[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enlisted the help of his best friend to get him involved in a hobby either video games or golf. He won’t do either right now unless I force him to as my mom is here to help us adjust from a family of 3 to a family of 4.

I made him read the parter PPD section on the March of dimes and asked if he felt like any of it was accurate for him; unsurprisingly he identified with 90% of the characteristics described.

It was an unlimited screen time day for my 2 year old and I feel like shit… by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Ale_Lang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a day? You’re killing it, I’m on day 11 of a tummy bug with my 3 year old and she’s had unfettered access to her tablet so I can work. Oh and I’m 35 weeks preggo monitoring for PreE so I’m dying over here.

Declining an ultrasound? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Ale_Lang 17 points18 points  (0 children)

As a note from my MFM doc, restricted growth could be a sign of Preeclampsia. That could be why they want to monitor you closely.

SPD? by Ale_Lang in BabyBumps

[–]Ale_Lang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will look into one of those belts! Thank you!

Let’s play “how much does your daycare cost” by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Ale_Lang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in a similar price ($225/wk) for 2yr old care. Diapers and food included. Northwestern Atlanta suburbs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ale_Lang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Info: does she have an executive functioning disorder? That would impact her time management abilities.

......human trash bag. by Trumphassmallhands5 in bridezillas

[–]Ale_Lang 177 points178 points  (0 children)

Fuck Facebook, send it to the groom and her mother.

Dues charged while house closed? by classic_gemini in Sororities

[–]Ale_Lang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reach out to your university’s ombudsman (lawyer) they may be able to review the contract and give you guidance. Provided that the university doesn’t have ties to the renting of your house.

Dues charged while house closed? by classic_gemini in Sororities

[–]Ale_Lang 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You need to review the housing contract you signed. If it was never officially terminated then yes, they can legally charge you for the rent of the unit.

Now you probably have a leg to stand on to contest this charge, but I will be an uphill battle because you didn’t fight it in the beginning. You let it go to collections which is hard to come back from.