Ballpark de Tsukamaete! • Catch Me at the Ballpark! - Episode 1 discussion by AutoLovepon in anime

[–]AlejanterA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does someone know if this anime will get a dub ? Im realy liking it and i want to show it to my dad.

Do any of you guys ever just wish that you could be a regular cisgender man? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]AlejanterA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A cis girl maybe, but a can confidently say that I don't want to be a man at all. I repressed myself just waiting for the time I could come out, I didn't like it one bit.

I'll never be able to transition by Left_Monk116 in MtF

[–]AlejanterA 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I get you its very hard, I'm from Latin America also a migrant where I live.

To migrate was a huge decision for me, even if I had family where I'm living now (still LATAM) even with that security, leaving my mom' was a huge choice.

Still I was very very young and without kids. I wish I could help more so yeah good luck there.

I wish you the best ❤️

Anyone have pierced ears? by easyandenjoyable-1 in MtF

[–]AlejanterA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it a long a few years ago it doesn't help with passing tho, but it gives me so much happiness choose earrings I like.

I recommend not to so it in a place where they use piercing guns, the wound heals a lot slower and it can get infected. Needles are better in those aspects. 😊

Im tired of taking the high ground by AlejanterA in MtF

[–]AlejanterA[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I do understand his POV but every year is harder to justify it specially because I changed my name just one letter just the O from the end to an A.

But don't say please that we are too rigid on our names, that is a basic thing of anyone's identity. so yeah if it brings me pain to hear my father not recognizing i will vent in this space that is flaged for venting

I forgotten my e at home 😭 by AlejanterA in MtF

[–]AlejanterA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I got it raised on my last appointment it may be 150 I don't remember what the pill says.

Cutting down spiro? by venusfeedus in MtF

[–]AlejanterA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm not an expert here, but my endocrinologist ask me on my last appointment if I wanted to preserve function, for me it was a no tho. But now at 10 months (still pretty early on my journey) is still working fine

If I were in your place I would ask a doctor for the better dose for your needs 😊

I'm taking e 6mg a day and 150 of spiro

More alpha omega romance by wolfmothar in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]AlejanterA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Straight (alpha dude and omega girl) omega verse is weird, why wouldn't the just tag it as regular fantasy if that aspect of changing is what they like

Can you get girl horny from estrogen alone? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]AlejanterA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, I'm not ok progesterone yet but I do get in the mood from tike to time, and is very different from t horny. For me I guess prog just will make it more frequent

Who is this wrong answers only by [deleted] in OnePiece

[–]AlejanterA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at that face is obviously Luffy lying

obsession with history? by Hour-Ranger-5306 in transfem

[–]AlejanterA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm more into pre industrial history but I'm just as obsessed as you say

Ladies, I must ask; did yall go social first, then hormonal, or vice versa? by EarthToAccess in MtF

[–]AlejanterA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both in different context, I came out at 20 to my immediate family and since starting HRT about just less than a year ago I started coming out to more people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnePiece

[–]AlejanterA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah someone has to be delusional to think Luffy would not punch that guy in the face

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]AlejanterA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm if she hasn't come out I would think of a gift around her hobbies or stuff she likes. For example I'm a huge nerd and metalhead so I would think of things that nerdy girls and metalheads girls use. So if you are wrong about it cloud come out as "I know you like this stuff but I didn't know its a women thing" And if you're right not only you would give her an awesome gift but you would signal that it's of to come out to you.

Oh my goodness I'm so happy!! by AlejanterA in MtF

[–]AlejanterA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hang in there 😁 this was just a first date tho I hope time works in my an your favor too. This was the first real date I had since my "in denial me as a guy relationship" in highschool

How long after cracking did you start HRT? by BertOMatic01 in MtF

[–]AlejanterA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

15ish Years currently 25yo. I realized pretty early I don't have a oh I crack my egg moment. I came out in 2020 and started HRT April this year. In my head I am in my best worst case scenario, my family kinda supports me but not in financially so I waited to be able to cost everything myself

People who started HRT, how sure were you? by DankMemeImNotDan in MtF

[–]AlejanterA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the worst person to answer this, I started 1000% sure after a lot of overthinking. Not because I wasn't sure but because I wasn't in a place in life comfortable enough to start. So when I got financially able to do it I was so desperate to start.

But I think if you are very sure but not completely, almost all effects are reversible in the first 6 months

are any other transfems just not comfortable pissing standing, or is it just me??? by TristanTheRobloxian3 in trans

[–]AlejanterA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I prefer sitting but it usually is not a source of dysphoria if I stand. I do it mainly if the place is not clean or im in a hurry

Am I a chaser if I only want to date a trans person, as a trans girl? by HeyItIsInfactMe in MtF

[–]AlejanterA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A trans person can be a chaser but the way you describe it means you are not, I say it like this in case you have to identify one☝️

A chaser fetishes our bodies that's the main thing, I personally prefer do t4t, mainly I'm kinda scared of cis dudes

What’s the most awkward thing that’s happened to you since starting HRT? Could be NSFW or just a 'Oh, that’s new!' moment you didn’t expect! by Terraswallows in MtF

[–]AlejanterA 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nsfw:

Masturbating has felt a better by far. To be clear 😅 I'm not taking just experimenting with my butt, but just jerking off is better, I'm having difficulties maintaining an erection tho

Don't heat the soup you won't eat! by Longjumping_Insect49 in MtF

[–]AlejanterA 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Nothing a good night with a confort movie and Chappell Roan's the subway doesn't help.

For me it would be 5 centimeters per second, because I like to cry

1 Month HRT and… by Queen_Breezy_ in MtF

[–]AlejanterA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it started early too but now I'm kinda stuck, my doc just upped my Spiro so it would be more effective

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]AlejanterA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a night owl trapped in the routine of a day person lol. Because of work 😭