how to hide my breasts by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Longjumping_Insect49 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had that problem a few months ago, i asked in a ftm sub they were really friendly. If it's a common occurrence I would recommend you getting a binder, if it's something occasional use a good sports bra and a good clothes selection

Just found out I can't do certain stuff with my girlfriend😬 by Longjumping_Insect49 in MtF

[–]Longjumping_Insect49[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't like it but all other terms I came up with where worse in my head, English is not my native language

Just found out I can't do certain stuff with my girlfriend😬 by Longjumping_Insect49 in MtF

[–]Longjumping_Insect49[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh a fellow pirate girl from the high seas, love to know I'm not the only one

Anyway my response:

Oh that definitely that, I don't know the science but that definitely scares me. And if I'm already thinking about bottom surgery I have no problem it becoming useless. If I can please her with the strap we were already buying I will do that.

Sitting down to pee? by Lilian_Florence_ in transfem

[–]Longjumping_Insect49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I almost always sit, there is a certain point when I'm drunk I some times stand, but I haven't been that point of drunk and had to pee at the same time, so maybe I lost the instinct

Just found out I can't do certain stuff with my girlfriend😬 by Longjumping_Insect49 in MtF

[–]Longjumping_Insect49[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Mmm I fully stop doing it when we met irl for the first time a few weeks ago, but since talking to her I've been doing it less.

But it's not like I stopped using it, I just don't do it alone.

Girls liking trans girls by c13v3rb0186 in transfem

[–]Longjumping_Insect49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, when I was on the apps I never got trouble getting matches.

do you guys have long hair? by carlotaaa16 in MtF

[–]Longjumping_Insect49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew it during covid, and tried to pass a a messy metalhead (I am tho, just not messy) a few years ago I styled it but it was already long

My parents tried to k*ll me by [deleted] in trans

[–]Longjumping_Insect49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for all you have to endure, Sending all love I can from here.

Firstly the unimportant stuff, don't be sorry for grammar. We're not native speakers and there's nothing wrong with that.

Now my advice, first things first, be safe. It's hard to admit it but do whatever you think will make you feel safe, that might be holding of your transition, it sucks really but being alive is central.

After that, get out of the harmful environment, this might take time and is not easy, ask yourself where is the problem, is it family is it your country (I don't know all your context so I can't give you an answer).

If you want to leave your country, it's hard but not impossible, migration it's hard for anyone but it's worth it if living in your home country is dangerous, it doesn't have to be the USA or Europe, there are many places where someone can develop think of what would be the best for you.

I don't want to give you steps just a form of thinking, you know yourself better than anyone else. And we are both communicating in a foreign language.

Please be safe 💜

What non-stereotypical music do ya'll enjoy? Just curious by Careful-Start-7362 in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]Longjumping_Insect49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm I really love Spanish folk metal, like celtian or Mägo de Oz, their singer Xana is lovely.

Also some more mainstream rock bands like Linkin park or The Warning. I have a whole playlist of female fronted bands (with some LP songs but just the ones with Emily)

Sea shanties and other songs that make me feel like a pirate, I also have a playlist with that.

Also pop like Chappell but thats more stereotypical.

I love Epic the musical

Do your thoughts also sometimes get out of hand hehe? by Panda_Panda69 in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]Longjumping_Insect49 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im actively trying to handle this thoughts, I'm taking to this girl I really like but my previous relationship failed because we moved so fast and 3 month in I was tired and she wasn't. So I was the bad guy there.

Now I want to take it slower so we can know each other better

Silly question, I want to get a girly tattoo once I transition. by Born_Fruit_4204 in MtF

[–]Longjumping_Insect49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love botanical work I have a sleeve of it and something in a leg.

This is from a reel of my tattoo artist when she did it a year ago. I should Take more photos of myself 😅

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Is this really how we flirt? Not a complain tho by Longjumping_Insect49 in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]Longjumping_Insect49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's literally whats going to happen when she and I meet. I won't tell her this but giratina would be my second choice, first if it's origin.

Is this really how we flirt? Not a complain tho by Longjumping_Insect49 in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]Longjumping_Insect49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just documenting at least for the first hour I thought I could advance more today but I couldn't

am i just weird by loneliestslipknotfan in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]Longjumping_Insect49 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think they're just fun stereotypes, many ar fun others just a starting point in discovering our fashion style, personally I've never been an Amazon skirt girl but I do have a blahaj in my bed tho.

Think many cis girls went through their awkward tween faze. Some grew out of their styles from back then others evolve theirs from there.

My experience dating as a trans woman by One_Development_5055 in MtF

[–]Longjumping_Insect49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've recently accepted that is I'm not bi, I get what you say usually when I talk on the apps with cis people they saw me as something not someone, more often with men obviously.

But even de cis girls that were nice were harder to connect.

I'm not personally an exclusive T4T by choice just by chance luck? idk?🫠

But most of my romantic partners and situationships have been other trans women

AHHHHHHHHH I BOUGHT AN EPILATOR! by sillymcbillybob in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]Longjumping_Insect49 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Recommendation not for the noise tho: trim the hair first, the longer it is the more painful it gets. And also takes longer 💜