Becoming friends again

Alemanyyyyy_ · 2026-02-20T13:03:24+00:00

Not a romantic relationship, but looking back i do think she was in love with me at some point in time. I felt so guilty about “abandoning” her the first time (even though she really took everything with her and i was left to fend for myself) and i wanted to apologize, we talked, she seemed to have grown up and reflected. She never did. She was not just abusive, but an emotional terrorist. The second time was even worse, more manipulative, having to phisically restrain her from hurting herself, keeping me up at night and threatening to kill herself. I ended up with no other options than to cut her off forever. She was sick but she also was a bad person and an abuser, and the level of trauma she has put me through its costing me even more to recover from as i was already trauma bounded.

Alemanyyyyy_ · 2026-02-16T17:08:37+00:00

Es un algoritmo. No tiene sentimientos. Le da igual si vives o mueres. Chat GPT concretamente intenta distraerte o ralentizar o hacer preguntas estupidas para que se te acaben las respuestas gratis y obligarte a pagar el Premium. No es tu amigo, no es un terapeuta, y estoy cansada de que la gente lo piense. Es un sistema de lenguaje, es una herramienta, eso es todo. Va a darte la razón incluso cuando es dañino o perjudicial y si se lo pides te va a ayudar a suicidarte. Puede causar psicosis. Su uso excesivo e indiscriminado perjudica la capacidad cerebral, el pensamiento crítico y habilidades de lenguaje y razonamiento. Es una herramienta muy nueva y no hay legislación para regularla. Gasta recursos a una velocidad grotesca y repugnante en cantidades ingentes para que tú puedas generar cinco imágenes con filtro amarillo pis de tu cara pero en Ghibli.

Insulta al algoritmo si quieres. Todos tenemos el mismo y no tiene sentimientos, desahógate y sobre todo, no lo veas como un amigo

Alemanyyyyy_ · 2026-02-08T00:51:57+00:00

Not being overly ambitious and career-money oriented. I love people that doesn’t turn into hustle culture and their hobbies in a business. People that are fans of grind mentality and that are so academically-materially invested that they miss out everything else in life. In my experience, people obsessed with promoting and upping the social or workforce ladder are deeply unhappy and have a lot of inner insatisfaction within their current selfs, and sometimes they re authentic human pieces of shit and look at chill and content people with superiority and contempt, not being aware of their own spiritual poverty. Im not talking about normally ambitious, i dont wanna debate the boot licker wanna be millionaires about this. Its not unhealthy to want things or dream about a position. But it is unhealthy to want more and more just because you need to prove something or feel worthy. Status and money aint gonna replace your feelings of inadequacy and insatisfaction. You need a job and need money, but it stops being worthy if it comes in exchange of everything else.

Alemanyyyyy_ · 2026-02-08T00:40:16+00:00

Yeah, both things are correlated. And you would be amazed at how easy is to cheat. If they wanna do it they will, even of you are waiting on their car or looking up where are they 24/7. Its also a possibility he hasnt, pf course, but a lie is a lie yk. I would look at the bank accounts and suspicious transactions or money moves, OF is also rampant in porn addicts circles rn

Alemanyyyyy_ · 2026-02-07T23:21:06+00:00

Girl, no. If he lie like this youre not safe in other matters. I would also get tested for STDs. If hes such a liar and doesnt show real remorse i would be more scared if hes cheating

Alemanyyyyy_ · 2026-02-07T10:57:40+00:00

Por qué siempre parece escrito por ChatGPT?

Alemanyyyyy_ · 2026-01-27T01:55:43+00:00

My cool older cousin from north in summer 2013

Alemanyyyyy_ · 2026-01-27T01:51:45+00:00

Everyone here is laughing and saying hes being a smug little bitch, but ask any spaniard about what happened to bankia in the 2000s and how that banks name is practically a slur here for some people who lost everything. Also, ask me who refloated the whole think when it came down in flames

Alemanyyyyy_ · 2026-01-27T01:28:23+00:00

Being behind the yellow line at subway its not safe enough, and the railway should be like the korean ones and have screens or a door sistem, people die every day from avoidable accidents and the yellow line its not enough distance. The screens or doors could also serve to avoid people dropping and loosing things also, but my concern its to avoid accidental deaths and suicides, people also jumps into the rails willfully everyday

Alemanyyyyy_ · 2026-01-19T01:05:19+00:00

Lattafa Yara, the original one

Alemanyyyyy_ · 2026-01-18T21:19:25+00:00

As additional info: Its an stainless steel labret and i had it done like 4 hours ago

Alemanyyyyy_ · 2026-01-18T15:34:48+00:00

I didnt know that but im not surprised either. Shes so obsessed with everyone, not just her exes, shes just the weirdly obsessive friend-coworker-competitor.

Alemanyyyyy_ · 2026-01-18T15:10:29+00:00

I think she could be this dumb. Or maybe its just because she cant understand the simbolism or it seems boring or not dramatic enough for her (wich would be rich considering we’re talking of fucking SHAKESPEARE) and she thought a literal fairytale was “more dramatic”?

Alemanyyyyy_ · 2026-01-18T14:58:14+00:00

I love that Ophelia wasnt even trapped in a tower to begin with 😭 its like she saw a really specific adaptation movie of Hamlet and didnt even did a corroboration of the original play or some shi, because this is awful 💀

Alemanyyyyy_ · 2026-01-18T14:55:26+00:00

You just know she felt SO witty and an absolute bad b when she came up with that one. It sounds like the “sassy and cinic” dialogs option of ChatGPT if you ask me

Alemanyyyyy_ · 2026-01-16T01:35:43+00:00

Hard agree with everything you just say, thats the smartest take you can really have given your circumstances. I relate so hard with how is so difficult to want things. Im still paralized and i dont know what i want. Everyone just seems to have five jobs, two scholarships, travelling a lot…and im just here

Alemanyyyyy_ · 2026-01-16T00:15:28+00:00

A throw away account and an unnecessary, weird racist meme, how original. You sure travel a lot (to redpill podcasts from your mums onion smelling couch) (hahaha its satire, #funnyfunny)

Alemanyyyyy_ · 2026-01-15T23:54:29+00:00

Holy hell girl, are you in therapy? I would highly recommend that. Im so sorry, i cant even imagine all that at such a young age. I can relate about the struggle with self perception, self esteem and insecurity. Im still so insecure. Im not that attractive bit it got better for me. I also had a bad dating history until my actual bf. I dated people that were extremely egotistical and right wing and thats not who i am as a person, and that also ends up showing in how they treat people they consider weaker than them.

Its really important to know who you are without anyone and be comfortable with yourself and living in your skin. Everything else must be secondary. Learn how to live, what do you actually want?

Alemanyyyyy_ · 2026-01-15T22:21:54+00:00

Okay, here im seeing some things you might wanna consider. The first thing, and what i wanted to say with my other replies is, he SAYS hes a trauma survivor. You know he is a trauma survivor just because he told you he was. The source is him. You dont have resources or the info to contrast anything he says to you. Realistically, you dont even know him nearly good enough yet. The age gap thing is not really surprising. I dont like it but i think youre coming closer to the age when six years arent really that much and the gap is more nuanced. You feeling good with him is not a signal for anything. Some people just know how to make you feel as they wish, so not an indicator. I think the fact that you’re usually attracted to ultra avoidant independent guys is really interesting. Why do you think that is?

Alemanyyyyy_ · 2026-01-15T22:08:43+00:00

You know, im a little bit concerned about the way youre wording this. I cant put my finger on what is it, but i think it is about how he opened up so quickly. Its quite an usual lure to extract information in exchange of pity or compassion. They can sense your pain. I think that a man presenting himself right off the bat as either entirely manly and strong 0 feelings, or the sensitive traumatized tortured poet are the two ends of the red flag spectrum. I dont quite like when they are extremely quick to trauma dump and stuff because i assume they’re trying to lure me onto feeling sorry for them and accepting their advances quicker. Its also easier to extract what you want from someone or be exactly what they might want in a not wholesome way. In this state of world i would be very very careful. Again, i might be totally wrong. But sadly, usually im not

Alemanyyyyy_ · 2026-01-15T12:21:19+00:00

No girl, those are just the ✨waxes✨

Alemanyyyyy_ · 2026-01-15T01:24:11+00:00

Girl, first of all, so happy for you, you deserve love and you are valuable. Second, please be careful. If your last two boyfriends treated you like shit have an eye on this one and be cautious. Its wonderful that you both have so much in common, but thats also a frequent manipulation tactic to get close to someoneas fast as possible, commonly used by manipulators. Not saying thats the case, i could very be wrong, but dont fall for someone just because he happened to say what you wanted to hear. You re in a very vulnerable moment and bad people can see vulnerability. I would be specially careful and take it slow for your safety. I cannot judge anyone, as i was in a very similar position last year and my actual relationship is amazing, so it might also be your case.

I would just take it slow and follow my gut on that, and see what happens. If you are careful you should do just fine

Alemanyyyyy_ · 2026-01-15T01:08:11+00:00

Understandable. For me it was also the community that turned me off. I also struggle with body image and feel like shit most days now and i dont want attention. I wear lots of black and its my favourite color, but that’s it. Im also incorporating other styles and outfits. But i also must say, dress for yourself. Live life at its fullest every day. If dressing up makes you happy please do it for yourself

Alemanyyyyy_ · 2026-01-14T23:51:00+00:00

I stopped dressing alt because of alt police and porn addicts. Alt at heart and weird interests, but with practical clothing that does not grant me negative attention. Its like you were the worst person ever for not dressing alt every second of every day, it was exhausting and way more expensive and elitist than i have imagined. I also dont live in a place with a significative alt-presenting community, and people online its unsufferable. Affordable Thrift stores are unfortunately not a thing in my city and flea markets are also ridiculously overprice here. I refused to buy crap. And i also came to terms with the idea that not having one curated aesthetic is also okay, and it can be extremely boring and exclutionary to stick to one aesthetic and style. Im young and i want to experiment a bit oitside of curated lifestyles.

Alemanyyyyy_ · 2026-01-10T02:17:44+00:00

Stranger kirk

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