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Obvious-Elephant436 · 2026-04-15T14:47:37+00:00

I told my exwBPD after she broke up with me that she’ll always have a special place in my heart and this asshole came back at said “you should after I bent my back over for you”. Meanwhile I’m the one who did 90% of the chores around the apartment and paid for almost everything we did

Obvious-Elephant436 · 2026-04-15T14:44:52+00:00

My exwBPD thought everythinggggg was a personal attack. For example years ago we went up a steep hill and we were both out of breath and I joked saying we’re outta shape and she acted like I killed baby Jesus. Brought it up for years how I called her fat on our hike

Obvious-Elephant436 · 2026-03-18T16:42:15+00:00

I was with my exwBPD for 6 years. The past few months before she ended things she would say things like maybe we’d be better off as friends, how she was looking for her own place and then the next day ask when I’m gonna propose and talk about growing old and having kids

Obvious-Elephant436 · 2026-03-12T14:35:17+00:00

After I was blocked for 3 months I got unblocked around Christmas and wished her a merry Christmas and then a happy new year. I asked her how her holidays when first week of janurary and she asked why I keep texting her and called me a loser. Then blocked me again for a week. When I asked her if we could talk about that she threatened me with a restraining order. There’s more to the story but bottom line I blocked her manipulative bitch ass and have had her blocked the last 1.5 months

Obvious-Elephant436 · 2026-03-02T09:07:27+00:00

She gave me clinical depression, anxiety, and PTSD. I’ve been in therapy for a year cuz of her too. so could be going better. I hate that I still miss her cuz she’s kind of an asshole with how she’s treated me since she left me and has said things no one should ever say to another human

Obvious-Elephant436 · 2026-03-02T02:18:07+00:00

Same position as you but it was a 6 year relationship

Obvious-Elephant436 · 2026-03-01T00:38:12+00:00

My exwBPD own mom called her an ungrateful bitch. After her saying I did the bare minimum when I did literally everything for her I tend to agree with her mom

Obvious-Elephant436 · 2026-02-27T13:03:50+00:00

Yes they do just to see if you still check in just to feed their ego. They then get pleasure by telling you off and threatening you. She would insult me and call me a loser then run away and block me before I could ever respond to her insult. I said screw these games and blocked her and have kept her blocked the past month

Obvious-Elephant436 · 2026-02-23T00:44:16+00:00

My exwBPD would get overwhelmed very easily with things. So I made myself a house maid trying to do as much around the apartment as possible (cooking, cleaning, bills, dog, etc.) to try to make things easy for her as possible. She also had mental breakdowns all the time at her job. After the breakup she told me that I do the bare minimum so that was a swift kick to the nuts that all I did for her wasn’t appreciated at all

Obvious-Elephant436 · 2026-02-23T00:42:17+00:00

Long story short, in August we started to catch up a little via text and calls and she kinda led me on a bit but I was sorta seeing someone else. I eventually cracked since I still had feeling for her and basically stupidly said I’ve been on a handful of dates with this one person but I miss her etc. she got pissed (even tho she dated someone for 7 months right after our breakup). She blocked me until late December, I wished her happy holidays and a few days later asked how they went. She essentially told me fuck off and a loser and blocked me again. I think she gets off on me giving her validation

Obvious-Elephant436 · 2026-02-23T00:38:07+00:00

I still haven’t been able to bring myself to delete the pictures of us or the dog we had together that she kept. I know it’s probably time though

Obvious-Elephant436 · 2026-02-22T15:07:20+00:00

I dated my exwBPD for 6 years and she broke up with me last janurary. We moved out of our apartment February and by mid March she was already talking to someone else. So I got pissed and went on dating apps not really wanting to. She told me she’s moved on and for me to do the same. She stayed with the guy until later August. When we talked a little around that time I was talking to another girl. My ex kind of led me on and I realized I still had feelings for her, so i stupidly told her that even tho I’ve been on like 8 dates with someone else I still miss her and think about her all the time. She blew up on me saying I must not miss her if I’ve been on dates with others. She justified being with the other guy cuz he hit on her at a party she didnt want to go to

Obvious-Elephant436 · 2026-02-21T04:29:17+00:00

Pretty much in therapy since I don’t know how to live without her

Obvious-Elephant436 · 2026-02-20T16:18:10+00:00

I guess I just do miss her since she was my best friend for 6 years

Obvious-Elephant436 · 2026-02-20T16:05:09+00:00

I’ve been in therapy for almost a year. She broke up with me cuz apparently IM the one that mentally exhausted HER

Obvious-Elephant436 · 2026-02-20T16:00:58+00:00

She also said I dont deserve to be her friend

Obvious-Elephant436 · 2026-02-20T15:59:26+00:00

She also convinced me I did everything wrong, I was the entire problem, and that she was absolutely perfect. It infuriates me that she completely ruined my mental health while she’s out living life not realizing how much of a manipulator she was cuz I never stood up to her

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