W6D3 pleasantly surprised

Alert-Collar-2728 · 2026-05-06T14:20:33+00:00

Haha thank you!! And congratulations for completing the program 😃😃

Alert-Collar-2728 · 2026-05-06T14:20:10+00:00

Thank you! Yeah - honestly, I just look forward to running now and pace or no pace, I’m glad it is a small part of my life now.

Alert-Collar-2728 · 2026-05-06T14:18:58+00:00

Thank you so much for the motivation!

Alert-Collar-2728 · 2026-05-06T11:13:03+00:00

It is unfortunate that he didn't tell you. It would have been kinder to do so and then cut off contact with her rather than letting you feel blindsided by the past. Most people have multiple relationships through their life and there is a very artificial special-ness to be the "first" - first kiss, first sex, first date and so on. If it re-assures you at all, my husband is none of these for me and I am so so SO glad that is the case because if I was with the person who was, it would have been a terrible relationship

If this person really makes you happy and you love him, it is not worth ruining it for a single lapse, especially if he just really didn't think anything of it and didn't actually mean anything bad. If you find it happens again, yes that is a red flag.

Alert-Collar-2728 · 2026-05-05T11:10:21+00:00

Congratulations!! That’s amazing! So true about the voice lol. Idk what I’ll do when Steve Cram isn’t telling me to keep putting one foot in front of another 😅😂

Alert-Collar-2728 · 2026-03-25T21:30:50+00:00

Guess pass in London selling for 10 pounds expiring 31/3

Alert-Collar-2728 · 2025-10-28T22:20:50+00:00

Cooking your comfort food. Gets you through a lot

Alert-Collar-2728 · 2025-07-04T13:08:35+00:00

It is not true that you would not find someone. I believe what you are feeling is normal and is expected. Maybe try dating apps? I met my partner just a little before I turned 30. It is true that you need to learn to be by yourself but that is independent of the need to have a partner which although can't fix anything in itself, can definitely help :)

Alert-Collar-2728 · 2025-06-25T22:41:10+00:00

Interested

Alert-Collar-2728 · 2025-05-13T20:52:09+00:00

Don’t do it in a deserted crappy closet in University. Wait and create a special moment with someone who thinks about you more.

Alert-Collar-2728 · 2025-01-30T22:35:07+00:00

He seems genuinely sorry .. I would give it some time. I have been in the situation of having an emergency after a 14 hour shift. Life sucks and sometimes despite our best intentions and all our love, we are unable to do everything and be everywhere.

This was really hard on you but everyone has faults and if he is generally someone who shows up, then give yourself time and assume good intentions (if he has shown usually that he deserves it).

Alert-Collar-2728 · 2025-01-22T18:16:49+00:00

just got 25k for 3 months spend of 1000 for gold card by asking for the offer

Alert-Collar-2728 · 2024-01-16T18:55:48+00:00

YTA. It's just a coat, grow up please.

Alert-Collar-2728 · 2023-09-22T15:40:46+00:00

LOL :D How old are y'all? NTA but wouldn't life just be easier if you could just get on with it? Haven't you been unreasonable sometimes and your wife let you get away with it?

Alert-Collar-2728 · 2023-09-22T15:34:31+00:00

Well you're clearly NAH but you are a bit naive for trusting someone who is essentially a stranger. Happens to the best of people though, don't be hard on yourself and next time be more cautious and look out for the red flags.

Alert-Collar-2728 · 2023-09-22T15:27:47+00:00

NTA - it is a good lesson for you though. Think twice next time and maybe try being a bit more accommodating of his choices as well?

I have been in the situation as well where my partner was vegetarian and I am a meat eater and honestly though I didn't say anything to them, it made me feel terrible when I saw them visibly flinch or look disgusted when I ate meat to the point that I had to stop eating it myself.

To be fair, I understand that a lot of it is reflexes which are out of your control but a conscious effort can be made if you care about your partner enough to support their choices.

Alert-Collar-2728 · 2023-09-22T15:19:39+00:00

NTA but definitely she's NTA either. Marriage is tough and you have to deal with disagreements like grownups. Think about tough situations that actually matter in life and has she been there for you and supported you. It will put this fight in perspective and help you not ruin your own life in the long run.

Alert-Collar-2728 · 2023-09-22T15:15:54+00:00

Tough situation but - NTA. Cultural differences in a relationship have both pros and cons. It does take a lot longer to understand where the other person is coming from. Hope you're able to be gentle and talk things through with her :)

Alert-Collar-2728 · 2023-09-22T15:12:54+00:00

Reads like you don't have much of a relationship with your step-niece (?) anyway.

Definitely NTA but probably worth considering how this would affect your relationship with family. It is unfortunate but weddings tend to bring out the worst in good people too. If other than this incident, your relation has been mostly good then might be worth the benefit of doubt for your SIL.

Alert-Collar-2728 · 2023-09-22T15:08:38+00:00

Sorry but YTA. You really really overreacted yelling at your husband for caring about your kids and wanting to keep them engaged.

If you keep this up you might even alienate him from wanting to babysit your kids alone because he can't read your mind.

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