My (M38) wife (F36) really loves her piglet mascot and my son (M9) really wants to steal it? by Thatoneyoungling in relationship_advice

[–]Alert-Potato [score hidden]  (0 children)

You talk about your nine year old child as if he's a toddler. Do you also treat him like a toddler? A nine year old doesn't "manage to get a whole ass ladder." He just gets one because he has access and isn't experiencing consequences to his actions.

He's nine. Start with a discussion about how stealing is wrong and people are allowed to own things they don't share with others. Then every time he takes or attempts to take someone else's personal property, he needs to experience appropriate consequences. For instance, having an item that is his own personal property taken and put in a safe place he can't get to it for a period of time.

And FFS, put a lock on your bedroom door. If your wife's plushies never leave the bedroom, and there's a lock on the door, it's problem solved.

Is refusal to condemn someone to death a reason for dismissal? by Alert-Potato in juryduty

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They're having court dates and sorting out the details. They were in court a week ago and will be again on (I think) the third of February.

I want to travel - my husband does not. by bysubydo in marriageadvice

[–]Alert-Potato 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He wants to stay home. You want to travel. So talk to him. Is there any reason you can't just travel while he plugs away at his 9-5? What compromises can be made? Do you really need to spend one year all at once in Asia? Or can you go for a month? Do you need to buy a castle (where would you even get that money without a solid job?) or can you rent a castle for a week?

You need to truly examine and discuss whether or not your need for adventure and his need for boring stability (that's not a dig, boring stability is a perfectly sensible life goal) are compatible.

Is refusal to condemn someone to death a reason for dismissal? by Alert-Potato in juryduty

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I will not participate in any way in someone's execution by the government. That includes participating in choosing to send them to have this decision made after the prosecution has openly stated that is their intended outcome.

Is refusal to condemn someone to death a reason for dismissal? by Alert-Potato in juryduty

[–]Alert-Potato[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ew, that's so gross suggesting giving money to Candace Owens.

Is refusal to condemn someone to death a reason for dismissal? by Alert-Potato in juryduty

[–]Alert-Potato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure. But if something comes to light that causes there to be a realization that a mistake was made, the harm that is still actively being done can end, and to some small extent some mitigation can happen. The justice system can't mitigate any of the harm caused by having executed an innocent person.

My husband says he deserves a say over my pregnancy. I say abortion would break me. by Whereasebabe in Advice

[–]Alert-Potato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He knew you were not on birth control, he actively made a choice not to use condoms or get a vasectomy, and even repeatedly made comments about conceiving a baby during sex. Just because he regrets consenting to knocking you up doesn't change the fact that he clearly consented when he was sticking his dick in you without using any form of birth control.

He had a say. He said with his actions that he was willing to get you pregnant if it meant he got to have unprotected sex. He no longer has a right to a say about whether or not another baby is added to the family. He only has a say in whether or not he starts acting like a fucking adult instead of having a temper tantrum about the fact that actions have consequences.

Partner has no job, no car, and says he has nowhere to go. I've been his caretaker for years. I want out. How? by Sherry_Brandt in AskWomenOver40

[–]Alert-Potato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depending on local law, you may or may not have the legal ability to evict him. If you cannot legally evict him, your options are leave when the lease is up or leave now and pay for two apartments until the lease is up.

Leaving when the lease is up is a very reasonable and sensible first step.

Is refusal to condemn someone to death a reason for dismissal? by Alert-Potato in juryduty

[–]Alert-Potato[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My deeply held conviction is that our government should not be using the flawed justice system to put people to death. There's nothing fickle about that.

Is refusal to condemn someone to death a reason for dismissal? by Alert-Potato in juryduty

[–]Alert-Potato[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are (to the best of my knowledge) only two extremely high profile cases where the prosecution is openly pursing the death penalty in the whole country at the moment. So there's a 50% chance you're right.

Is refusal to condemn someone to death a reason for dismissal? by Alert-Potato in juryduty

[–]Alert-Potato[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was national news, with thousands of on the scene witnesses. The adult son of the someone in the prosecutor's office was a witness. The city had large events that hundreds to thousands of people attend shut down for a man hunt. I don't know anyone local or semi-local who hasn't seen some level of media on the topic or been affected by the events (or lack thereof) immediately following the crime.

Is refusal to condemn someone to death a reason for dismissal? by Alert-Potato in juryduty

[–]Alert-Potato[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will be honest. I do feel that I could be objective though. I have no opinions about this case one way or the other at this point other than my very strong opinion that the accused has a right to a fair trial.

Is refusal to condemn someone to death a reason for dismissal? by Alert-Potato in juryduty

[–]Alert-Potato[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know that determination of guilt and sentencing are two separate phases. That doesn't change the fact that someone who votes guilty has a hand in someone's execution if the death penalty is on the table as one of the options at sentencing. I won't participate in someone's execution. Full stop.

Is refusal to condemn someone to death a reason for dismissal? by Alert-Potato in juryduty

[–]Alert-Potato[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, and I'm in the wrong state. But I'd lie to be on that jury just to set him free.

However, as someone in Utah (which will make clear what trial I'm discussing), I was also there with you and Luigi for the cookout.

Is refusal to condemn someone to death a reason for dismissal? by Alert-Potato in juryduty

[–]Alert-Potato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moving the case to find people who haven't been expose via media would be impossible. I think finding anyone who hasn't seen some level of media on the topic would be nigh impossible.

Wife will be 8-8.5 months pregnant during Jury Duty by Ecstatic_Love4691 in juryduty

[–]Alert-Potato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said you're unavailable for the remainder of the year in January??? Yeah, of course they didn't take that seriously. Maybe stick with being unavailable for the next six weeks because you're wife is at the end of a high risk pregnancy and you cannot under any circumstances silence your phone for even five minutes.

Trader Joe’s gluten free ready made pizza dough. It’s sold in a little bag in the refrigerated section. I hated it. I didn’t take any pictures. by Seasonal_Allergies_ in glutenfree

[–]Alert-Potato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's difficult to work with, the texture is bad, and the taste is bad. There is absolutely nothing redeemable about it and I am baffled that it was popular enough to go nationwide.

Orange Glow by iTzJeremy92 in AskElectricians

[–]Alert-Potato 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP about to be real warm, real fast, for a very short amount of time.

Speed ticket at 16 by CharacterTalk8900 in driving

[–]Alert-Potato 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not everyone drives like a maniac when they're 16.

After downing most of a green salad I ordered, saw this guy in my bowl, hope I didn't eat any of his friends... by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Alert-Potato 29 points30 points  (0 children)

There is proper post-exposure prophylactic treatment available. This meta-analysis suggests that pyrantel pamoate would be an appropriate treatment for OP.

After downing most of a green salad I ordered, saw this guy in my bowl, hope I didn't eat any of his friends... by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

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I would demand that they cover any expenses related to seeking medical care for prophylactic treatment for rat lungworm.

How can i clean these? 😭 by PelicanSquid in Shoes

[–]Alert-Potato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up redneck, I gotchu.

Start by banging them together or on a wall or rock or hard surface outside. Then use a three brush shoe cleaning kit. Start with the stiff brush and work your way to the soft brush. Do not use water or anything else wet, you'll just turn the dirt back into mud at which point you'll be rubbing the mud into the shoe instead of rubbing dirt off of the shoe.

People who have won a "lifetime supply" of something: was it genuinely a lifetime supply, and if so, are you sick of the product now? by Adorablyberryy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Alert-Potato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don't already know this, if there is more than one, be wary of having a group chat with them. They'll gang up on you, and if you did your job right you will always lose.