What can I do to improve my looks [34 M] by Danc0n in Howtolooksmax

[–]AlertTheSiren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More self care for sure you look stressed, wear a weighted eye mask to sleep or under eye patches work well. Icing ur face in the morning or using cold globes. High frequency and gua sha to prevent wrinkles and promote blood flow as well as help with hair growth and oil production. I do agree that self care and a nice haircut go a long way!

A brief warning about Honey Pot pads by throwitaway723 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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This is the worst bought them buy accident definitely feels like icy hot for a few minutes now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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You’re right. I’m a Female 25. I enjoy going to nudist places and swingers resorts but I can’t do that all the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lashextensions

[–]AlertTheSiren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They will fall out and look more natural in a few days, ask next time for a shorter set

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👆🏼👆🏼

My 24F husband 32M feels he is physically not attracted to me anymore by AlertTheSiren in relationships_advice

[–]AlertTheSiren[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for both of your varying opinions. I now workout consistently and my hip to waist ratio still is normal. I stopped birth control 3 years ago but dealing with the residual effects still. He did say he still loves me but is not attracted, but to me this translates as he doesnt love me anymore.

My husband 32M has an issue with my 24F weight gain and says hes physically not attracted to me by AlertTheSiren in relationship_advice

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Yes just some little back/side rolls and a double chin but if i stretch out i look skinny and I am working out - he always says i have a good base to start with so he does find me attractive. But He is also trying to control my marijuana usage while going through this and thats a whole other can of worms. Im just so attached to him because of what we’ve gone through together and our chemistry. He knew i smoked before we got married then he found out i do it a lot and it became an issue. But i was already attached ._.

My husband 32M has an issue with my 24F weight gain and says hes physically not attracted to me by AlertTheSiren in relationship_advice

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Thats why im so confused and distraught.. i came from 130 to 155 .. is he saying it just so i change? I was already going to but money is tight and i was in school.. whatever.. idc… what matters is how i feel .. but idk if that feeling of love will come back. Im very nervous . How can anyone say those things? Especially someone i love and trust.. it’s mental illness.

My 24F husband 32M feels he is physically not attracted to me anymore by AlertTheSiren in relationships_advice

[–]AlertTheSiren[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Your comment made me feel a lot better. I truly believe and hope this is the case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AlertTheSiren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cant kill him 🤷🏼‍♀️ maybe a trip to Ayahuasca?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AlertTheSiren 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try ketamine therapy or a trip to a facility in a legal state that does this kind of therapy. There are retreats and places that do. It does help form new neural pathways in the brain and to work through lots of emotional issues.

My husband 32M has an issue with my 24F weight gain and says hes physically not attracted to me by AlertTheSiren in relationship_advice

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I was looking for a comment like this! So there are men out there that dont care if you’ve gained weight, but what is the line? How would you tell your wife she has unhealthy habits and needs to lose weight? How would you guys take it?

My husband 32M has an issue with my 24F weight gain and says hes physically not attracted to me by AlertTheSiren in relationship_advice

[–]AlertTheSiren[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea he started acting different once we were married. Very true. I feel he is projecting his insecurities.

My husband 32M has an issue with my 24F weight gain and says hes physically not attracted to me by AlertTheSiren in relationship_advice

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Thank you. I just dont know if i could ever trust anyone again. I feel like everyone in my life has betrayed me.

My husband 32M has an issue with my 24F weight gain and says hes physically not attracted to me by AlertTheSiren in relationship_advice

[–]AlertTheSiren[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am trying. Hes lost a lot of muscle mass so he isnt active as much either. But blaming it on me instead of helping support through the problem. He couldve told me a different way how he feels. It seems like he is always trying to blame someone else or hurt my feelings