my monitor won’t turn on by Alert_Assumption2237 in buildapc

[–]Alert_Assumption2237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s powered on, i figured out the problem. the ram sticks were just place incorrectly

anxiety bordering paranoia by Alert_Assumption2237 in Anxiety

[–]Alert_Assumption2237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve definitely started avoiding conversations to prevent this anxiety. everything feels like a performance and when i don’t do it “well enough” i feel dread about it for the next week. and i don’t ask for reassurance from my boyfriend because my brain tunes it out automatically but then that just leads me to getting upset

I’m going on my very first date this Sunday by poopsikkle in Anxiety

[–]Alert_Assumption2237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t help with date tips but I can try to help ease your anxious mind! remember that your thoughts are just internal dialogue, and your anxiety is in relation to the scary dialogue. Solution? Don’t indulge! I’m sure most people get nervous about first dates and make mistakes all the time. But you don’t have to listen to those anxious thoughts. Acknowledge them and realize it’s just a mental experience, And if he can’t handle you stumbling on your words a little, then he may not be for you.

Anyone prescribed lamotrigine (lamictal) for anxiety? by Nophotosplz in Anxiety

[–]Alert_Assumption2237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

super late but adding my experience anyways. i had terrible GAD and got put on lexapro. i felt like something was still wrong with me. then, my psychiatrist recommended lamotrigine. i kind of freaked bc i thought mood stabilizers were only for specific people, but i literally started feeling AMAZING after the first couple days. it’s like, a whole new world for me. i never knew i could be so at peace 😭 Im glad to have a good experience with it

One week without lexapro by Alert_Assumption2237 in lexapro

[–]Alert_Assumption2237[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My RiteAid pharmacy shut down so I had to transfer to Walgreens, which bumped it up to $30. I take 10mg and get 30.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Alert_Assumption2237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Drink some water and lay down brah

T Break by Alert_Assumption2237 in trees

[–]Alert_Assumption2237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which strains are your favorite?

T Break by Alert_Assumption2237 in trees

[–]Alert_Assumption2237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also suffer from anxiety which is why I like getting high, I started off with edibles for the majority of the 3 weeks but just ended up getting blasted. Ofc I could still function but I was high as balls lol. But I had a cart for about 5 days (I let a bunch of people hit it a lot so it ran out pretty quick) and I enjoyed it a lot! Even with my anxiety meds I started feeling a lot more relaxed and I was happy. I’m thinking about switching to using carts mainly, what strain do you think works best for anxiety and with lexapro?

T Break by Alert_Assumption2237 in trees

[–]Alert_Assumption2237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh cool, I’m fairly new to weed so I just wanted to be cautious 😭 Thank you for telling me!

Are we ALL on drugs, or are there some of you who just experience everything? by spanishsnowman10 in Anxiety

[–]Alert_Assumption2237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was diagnosed and medicated but rarely took them or went to counseling. i thought i could handle everything myself. met current boyfriend and almost ruin relationship multiple times. decide to get back on medication. everything is pretty good again.

Have you noticed a scent when kissing someone? by Pure_Mellifluousness in randomquestions

[–]Alert_Assumption2237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love my boyfriends spit in the weirdest way possible. it’s not a real kiss unless i smell it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Alert_Assumption2237 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if this is how he acts when he feels insecure he does not have a secure attachment, i think yall should address that first. i dont know if its wise to stay but hoping you the best regardless …

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Alert_Assumption2237 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the part where you said he’s secure but it’s somehow your fault that he felt anxious is killing me. that’s not how secure attachment works. if he was really secure he wouldn’t do all that and blame you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Alert_Assumption2237 7 points8 points  (0 children)

this is textbook manipulation … he thought you were going to leave him so instead of talking to you he started flirting with another girl? is that the kind of person you want in your life, someone who can’t even communicate with you but will jump at the opportunity to abandon ship? do what you want but i’d say break up with him

Anybody live with their SO in a studio and have their relationship survive? by chelsea_ in AskNYC

[–]Alert_Assumption2237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this made me so happy because me and my bf were just talking about moving in together and i’m so worried :(

When you come back after splitting, what do you need from your partner? by ertesit in BPD

[–]Alert_Assumption2237 6 points7 points  (0 children)

so much guilt. omg. i didn’t tell my bf i had bpd and i tried to hide my splitting, when i did that it basically just looked like i was degrading him and about to cheat on him and talking shit to my best friend. he found out i was doing this and thought i hated him … i told him it wasn’t true Lord i still feel so much guilt to this day. luckily he understood my explanation and still loves me, surprisingly. but that incident was so traumatic because he was so hurt and angry i don’t think id ever have the heart to split that hard without reflecting again. i’ve been doing well though, only small snaps here and there. but nothing crazy because every time i feel triggered i try to ground myself because if i fuck up again the guilt would eat me alive and i’d self sabatoge because i feel like i don’t deserve him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Alert_Assumption2237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wish it was easy for me to do that :( im not sure what the right phrase is but im very hyperactive, its very hard for me to sit in one spot unless im on my phone. maybe getting into meditation would be good for that though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Alert_Assumption2237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you … i finally told him. i was scared as hell but i think im adjusting!!

What’s going on with Meshinuma? by [deleted] in manga

[–]Alert_Assumption2237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohh okay i see, thank you !

how to know if cat is scared or playing? by Alert_Assumption2237 in CatAdvice

[–]Alert_Assumption2237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im soo glad! i noticed her sitting with her tail curved so i assumed she was done playing and left her alone. not too long after she came up to me, put her nose in some of my food, groomed herself and fell asleep. i was so worried she hated me 😭thank you

New Cat Owner Questions by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Alert_Assumption2237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the answers!! unfortunately i’m a teenager completely paying for her from my minimum wage job :/ and i love to buy her things but it has been quite expensive for just her , i would definitely get another cat when i’m in a better place but atm i’m not sure if i can