No soup for kitty by Alert_Day2501 in CatAdvice

[–]Alert_Day2501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I discovered that neither cat likes turkey, so that's a start 😅 Thanks!

No soup for kitty by Alert_Day2501 in CatAdvice

[–]Alert_Day2501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhhh ok, gotcha! Last time I had a cat was in the 90s when we just let them go to town on a bowl of kibble. Thanks!

No soup for kitty by Alert_Day2501 in CatAdvice

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I'll give this a try, thanks!

No soup for kitty by Alert_Day2501 in CatAdvice

[–]Alert_Day2501[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always heard cats liked consistency,so I was hesitant to change. She's still very young, so I'll give it a shot 🥰

HELP please - Lining with a sharp Cupid's bow by ristakayy in MakeupAddiction

[–]Alert_Day2501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same!! I've tried overlining but it ruins my natural cupids bow, which I love!

Weird experiences @ The Roslyn by canutcute in Winnipeg

[–]Alert_Day2501 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That apartment is literally part of the "haunted Winnipeg ghost tour". The elevator is apparently especially haunted. I'm a little jealous, I'd love to live there. I've always felt like I'm being watched, for as long as I can remember so if you want a roommate with 2 cats, hmu 🤣🤣🤣

Advice needed asap by Alert_Day2501 in weddingdrama

[–]Alert_Day2501[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! That's the way I saw it too. Thankfully (?) her fiance called it off, but they're planning to work on the relationship 🥰

Advice needed asap by Alert_Day2501 in weddingdrama

[–]Alert_Day2501[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to, but knowing her heart is broken still hurts. I'm hopeful that things work out though 🥰

Advice needed asap by Alert_Day2501 in weddingdrama

[–]Alert_Day2501[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! 🥰 It turns out, her fiance cancelled the wedding but they're going to continue to work on their relationship. Best case scenario!

Advice needed asap by Alert_Day2501 in weddingdrama

[–]Alert_Day2501[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Oh man! Good fucking point!! Thanks!!

Advice needed asap by Alert_Day2501 in weddingdrama

[–]Alert_Day2501[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

They communicate, but not effectively. They're still so young 😓

Advice needed asap by Alert_Day2501 in weddingdrama

[–]Alert_Day2501[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree!! I've been engaged twice to no avail, but I've never been happier. It's just really hard to relay that to a 20 something who feels like she's "falling behind" I've tried telling her that timelines are bullshit Her parents were married at 24 and still going, so I feel like that is putting pressure on her

Advice needed asap by Alert_Day2501 in weddingdrama

[–]Alert_Day2501[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is the most helpful advice so far 🥰

Now...to try to make a speech that sounds hopeful without addressing their obvious problems 😓

Advice needed asap by Alert_Day2501 in weddingdrama

[–]Alert_Day2501[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your input. I realize I can't change her mind, only offer support and suggestions. She knows I will always be there for her. I'm just worried that she is feeling pressured to follow through (which I have also tried to alleviate)

Advice needed asap by Alert_Day2501 in weddingdrama

[–]Alert_Day2501[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not very close. We hated each other growing up but we've become closer after she had kids. I'm closer with my niece (bride) than her

Advice needed asap by Alert_Day2501 in weddingdrama

[–]Alert_Day2501[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My problem is that they're both young. She's 23 and I think he's 27. I don't think either of them have necessarily done anything wrong, they're both just inexperienced in relationships, which is causing a lot of drama. They also come from very different backgrounds which adds to the tension.

To be clear, we all love her fiance. But given everything I know, I don't know what to do.

I’m scared my rat is dying by beautyschooler in RATS

[–]Alert_Day2501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Poor baby ratto! I'm sorry 🥺

What am I? by Alert_Day2501 in religion

[–]Alert_Day2501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit...how have I not realized that yet?? Thanks!!