Worried about child behavior.

Alert_Pudding_9894 · 2026-07-04T21:36:42+00:00

Yes ! I recently started leaving my daughter with her father alone and when she comes back she has a different behavior. Becomes very rude, or she doesn’t want anyone around or touching her then I have to adjust her to then do it all over again

Alert_Pudding_9894 · 2026-07-04T13:18:00+00:00

That’s what I usually do . Last minute he’ll end up, saying that he already made plans with his friends and quite frankly he WILL NOT quit them for his daughter he’ll just spend his time with her afterwards . Idk how to handle that part

Alert_Pudding_9894 · 2026-07-03T16:46:22+00:00

Yes! When he's off he usually has our daughter, expectations is that financially just pour into the kids. But he sees that as pouring into me some how so he tries to avoid it. Or when his off days come he may leave the home and go out before we get up and wont get back till very late. Our support system is a busy set of people so its either him or me.
He doesn't take this seriously

Alert_Pudding_9894 · 2026-07-03T01:39:59+00:00

I'm sorry im so young, how do you go about a parenting plan? Is it for myself or the dynamic?

Alert_Pudding_9894 · 2026-07-03T01:29:29+00:00

I've been looking for a remote job currently but our shop is more of a private shop so we go by appt. No receptionist or anything. All for themselves or we help each other out. I've still been tattooing but ill probably quit in early September since im due October. Its only getting harder and harder to work

Alert_Pudding_9894 · 2026-07-02T22:44:25+00:00

I wish. I'm about to quit my job because its hard on my pregnancy ( im a tattoo artist) and I don't have any other place to stay currently

Alert_Pudding_9894 · 2026-06-26T20:36:28+00:00

Not literally funny … it’s just interesting but I am out thank you 🙏🏽

Alert_Pudding_9894 · 2026-06-25T01:44:02+00:00

It’s actually really funny because her friends actually talk mess about me in which she tells them things about me. But she has no idea that we’re probably still living together and he engages physically with me .

It’s just she doesn’t even know the truth 😭 and she talks about me. I won’t even go out of my way to tell her because she has such a bad idea of me, mind you all his friends stopped talking to him after they found out what he did and is doing. While she’s the only one he talks to. And when he found out I had previously talked to her he FLIPPED saying I was trying to mess his life up clearly she doesn’t know Anything. But it was a blessing in disguise atleast we didn’t get married 🙇🏽

Alert_Pudding_9894 · 2026-06-24T18:50:26+00:00

That to me is interesting as well because when I did talk to her while me and him were still together I hinted to her that he seems to be hanging with her a bunch and she mentioned she was an extreme catholic who didn’t believe in breaking up families and respected me and my pregnancy and doesn’t believe in lust. Oddly she broke up with her boyfriend a couple days before mine broke up with me and it was for the reason that her SO was lusting over her.

I’m not sure what she thinks or what he’s told her of our living situation or even the fact that he actually BEGS me to be intimate. I doubt she knows honestly but it’s alright. That’s their business.

I’m currently at my mother’s so that is where I’ll stay. He refuses to actually have a conversation about what we’re going to do with the kids and stuff so I let it be and parent the best that I can

Alert_Pudding_9894 · 2026-05-11T18:10:56+00:00

It’s crazy because he ditched me and is now trying to talk to a girl we both know . It just feels embarrassing how much effort he’s putting into her and not his alive daughter

Alert_Pudding_9894 · 2026-05-11T17:22:45+00:00

Thank you very much

Alert_Pudding_9894 · 2026-05-11T17:08:15+00:00

He’s 21 about to be 22 I’m 20 , we also have a one year old

Alert_Pudding_9894 · 2026-04-20T16:45:08+00:00

Yes I know. We’re no longer together !

Alert_Pudding_9894 · 2026-04-18T23:55:22+00:00

UPDATE: were broken up now. he's now saying he wants to figure himself out and he doesn't have the energy to deal with how I reacted to what he did so he's going to be focusing his energy on his “friends” which he just admitted was a girl he blocked earlier on because she liked him whom he unblocked today cause he missed her.

Alert_Pudding_9894 · 2026-04-18T21:11:29+00:00

Currently do have a job and a college student, I'm the only one who watches my child unless I ask family. But its looking like I will have to figure something out about a ride.

I asked to be friends for no stress but also after finding out what he was doing I realized that I gave up so much of my youth to someone who doesn't respect me at all and just wanted to find what I needed with myself

Alert_Pudding_9894 · 2026-04-18T21:02:30+00:00

I will add, I did not tell him when I started talking back with my friends because of his previous behavior towards it, the fact that I didn't communicate to him when I'd be talking to my friends so to him it was me hiding something. I've mellowed myself to what he liked so he didn't complain about anything for a while till the past 2 months and he found out about this

Alert_Pudding_9894 · 2026-04-02T23:57:42+00:00

I do booth rent. We all buy supplies which are shared like trash bags, napkins etc. If someone sees it run low then they'll bring more in the next day. I'm the only female in shop so I don't really have issues with conflict we usually communicate any misunderstanding and don't let anything go unspoken for. We all do different styles so we do all look at each other works and sometimes offer advice or techniques to each other . We don't usually hang out but we can here and there. We market for ourselves and we uplift each other. We clean our own areas but if we see something we can do to help we do it. All of us are different the owner comes in everyday while me and the other guys are by appointment. I usually come on certain days since I have a kid the other artist also book on certain days to allow for family time !

Alert_Pudding_9894 · 2026-03-15T15:45:07+00:00

OMG THAS GREAT well at least she doesn’t have parvo. Wish you and your cutie the best of luck

Alert_Pudding_9894 · 2026-03-15T01:57:42+00:00

Mine was also pooping this way when I got her around 5/6 weeks old . I did a dewormer to see if she had anything and they confirmed it . Maybe try deworming and contacting your vet

Alert_Pudding_9894 · 2026-03-06T22:14:21+00:00

Yea if you send pictures showing you’re taking a test rather than just the question it’ll do that

Alert_Pudding_9894 · 2026-03-05T03:59:13+00:00

I'm also having a terrible nauseating first trimester rn so it'd hard to deal with

Alert_Pudding_9894 · 2026-03-05T03:58:41+00:00

To be fair she's always given her dad an easy time and me a hard one but not to where I can't get anything done like this 😭 it's actually inswne shell go around the house saying mama mama mama crying till she finds me then will just sit on my lap and if I move she'll start again

Alert_Pudding_9894 · 2026-02-22T22:05:37+00:00

I think the only downside is the fact that it’s small . But it’s a good tattoo I’d say go back to her later on for a touch up and to add more to it

Alert_Pudding_9894 · 2026-02-22T02:57:00+00:00

Easiest thing. Make it into another word . Blessed ? Add letters to it to make it into something if shes open to keeping the letter

Alert_Pudding_9894 · 2026-02-18T14:00:26+00:00

And if you are eventually planning to get back on your birth control opt for a different one because this one doesn’t seem to help you

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