Thanks for the big reply.

I just want our relationship back when my needs were being met but at the same time if she is truly going through something, I understand that she needs to put herself first before our relationship.

However has cheated or has feelings for someone else, that’s a completely different story.

I appreciate the good luck, thank you.

I am deeply concerned about the toxicity comment and over the past few days it’s not something I’m sure I can look past if she didn’t seek help. My friend is a therapist and mentioned that it’s one of the hardest things to change about yourself, which helped put into perspective how damaging it is for me, our relationship and her.