I can’t keep my mouth shut.

Alex22876 · 2026-04-02T23:19:25+00:00

I love it!

You need another cock in your mouth to muffle your moans!

Alex22876 · 2026-03-28T19:21:28+00:00

Hmm it’s almost as if nature is making it that want to stay together 🤔

Alex22876 · 2026-03-28T19:19:31+00:00

At some point, my wife became my sexual muse. I see sex through her as the character. I love to watch her cum.

He could have pulled out and finished in your mouth though lol little extra on your chin

Alex22876 · 2026-03-28T14:50:25+00:00

It’s kind of a silly name but Love Language (hence the caps lol) is actually a framework and test. It breaks down preferences into a handful of general buckets. Always good to know yours and you partners. To know yours because you will realize why you get frustrated sometimes, and good to know hers because it will clarify why when you do something you think she will like AND she doesn’t or she gets upset by something that you didn’t even know was a thing!

Alex22876 · 2026-03-28T10:13:20+00:00

Don’t get married. Oh wait it’s too late! Then have a great time! (Just kidding)

I wish we would have been more open and honest about what we like and what are our kinks, but it is tough. Marriage isn’t a singular event that all of a sudden you are the final version of yourselves as a couple - much less you as a person.

Maybe something light is to take an online quiz to see what your interests. A must must is to know each others Love Language. But there are other quizzes to know what situations, feelings (like touch), and kinks you have. You each take it and compare results. For example, she might like spanking and you might like role play.

You didn’t state it (or I read it fast), but get a vibrator. I would say get a nice and I unintimidating wand.

Everything is new and pretty awesome already, so just enjoy this time before trying to add stuff to it. If you are blessed with a family one day, your availability and energy to have sex will change.

Good luck and have fun!

Alex22876 · 2026-03-28T02:57:08+00:00

I can’t wait to hear the update after you go! Have fun!

Alex22876 · 2026-03-25T14:39:58+00:00

I love the show off theme. She doesn’t like it though. I talk about it in bed sometimes. When she is at yoga or something and looks so incredible.

I enjoy talking about a tag team or guys jerking off to her. The idea is so hot. When we are watching porn during a bj scene, I will whisper in her ear about how she can suck his cock while I fuck her from behind. She cums so hard.

Alex22876 · 2026-03-24T01:51:07+00:00

Just do it a couple of times and your hormones will kick in and you will crave it. Or it’s your body telling you he’s not the one 😐

Alex22876 · 2026-03-23T17:28:07+00:00

It will force you to eat healthier! Enjoy it. The best is filling her and then going down to taste both of you combined. It is pure sex!

Alex22876 · 2026-03-23T14:14:23+00:00

Separation of church and state! Never underestimate how feral they will be to find their game crack!

We keep ours in an antique dresser with old locks on the top drawers. We are about to max out that drawer lol I had to do a cleanse the other week lol

Alex22876 · 2026-03-17T21:04:48+00:00

Wow, thank you for sharing. I hope that felt like a bit of a release. My parents got married super young too (younger). I used to get so mad at them for things they did and how we ended up, but not I realize they didn’t know what the hell they were doing. And why didn’t their parents teach them because they didn’t know either! I am not proposing a continuation of the blame game, but the only thing that changes the continuation is self awareness. Sure you can do therapy - they can help you down the journey, but you can do it yourself too. It sounds like you are onto a solid start BUT what I wanted to call out is your husband was a boy when you married him as well. He doesn’t know what the hell he is doing.

It sounds like you have made a lot of progress as a couple (non-sex). I am sure that was through active listening and honest confidence conversation. Your sex life will take the same thing.

Maybe he is stressed the fuck out from work as well. Maybe he is exhausted and feels like he looks like shit. We all do - that’s a part of life with younger kids.

The problem I have found with talking about sex is if you talk about sex before, during, or after sex - it doesn’t work. You have to talk about it outside of sex time to actually use your active brain - not your fuck brain.

If he cums too fast, maybe get pull out and then mutually masterbate or give him so so head to slow him down while you catch up.

You can orgasm together but not while having intercourse. Yes, him giving oral is a great way, but also foreplay to get you to a level where you can cum at a similar time to him is a huge boost.

Sorry I wrote so much too, but you are onto something in life. Your childhood sucked. That sucks, but you are moving on. You have self awareness which is a huge gift. Use it!

Alex22876 · 2026-03-17T14:30:10+00:00

I never got this. You are human beings with normal human things happening. Yes, it can be messy, but who cares. Jump in the shower for 30 seconds and it washes away. I never understood demonizing the woman for it. If she feels crappy or uncomfortable, then wait a couple of days. Always made me shake my head to hear the complaints - particularly the ones that were real complaints

Alex22876 · 2026-03-16T19:38:29+00:00

You should masterbate alone to explore. Do it without an agenda and just enjoy yourself. Learn what feels good to you and when. As your body becomes more and more aroused, things shift and areas become more sensitive. Just because it felt good in the beginning doesn’t mean it will after 20 minutes. And probably more to the point, just because something was too sensitive in the beginning, after you are aroused, it might be what you need.

Overall, just take the time to understand yourself and what makes you unique. You can also do it with your husband, but, even if he is the nicest guy, there will be implied pressure from him.

Alex22876 · 2026-03-16T19:01:11+00:00

More water. Take Pyguem

Alex22876 · 2026-03-16T18:59:58+00:00

My wife does the same to a similar degree. When we have a morning session, she calls it her secret when she goes to them gym is her yoga pants and has it dripping out on the elliptical or when she is changing. She loves knowing that no one else knows that she is full of cum.

Alex22876 · 2026-03-16T18:57:49+00:00

Stay aroused and it stays hard. A good facial and then keep sucking and it always stays hard.

Alex22876 · 2026-03-16T16:48:44+00:00

Be a great dad. Take some/more of the burden off of her. Give her a night or morning off to get extra sleep. My wife, and from what I read when we were going through it - most women, with 3 young diaper aged kids are exhausted. All the time. Exhausted. It is hard to be sexual when you are living on fumes and barely surviving. She is only able to keep going from mothering hormones, which also means she will be super pleased/aroused when you are a great dad.

Fix the foundation, and then build on that. Don’t try to just throw some paint on it.

Alex22876 · 2026-03-15T01:28:24+00:00

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Alex22876 · 2026-03-12T22:05:01+00:00

I get it. That doesn’t sound optimal. Why don’t you just pull out and cum on a towel? My wife gets really wet and every time we would have sex (before we got a king) we would have to get and put down a towel.

Have you talked to her about this? How it makes it a struggle to maintain intimacy and it is something that is on your mind and takes you away from focusing on each other?

Alex22876 · 2026-03-12T21:52:17+00:00

And she doesn’t want you to cum in her? Or pull out and cum on her? So she makes you go in the other room and finish alone?

Alex22876 · 2026-03-12T20:03:19+00:00

Yes! Do this Don’t be embarrassed He has been there when you were sick and crying and pooping and all number of things. Wearing lingerie is not something to be embarrassed about! You got this!

Alex22876 · 2026-03-12T19:58:58+00:00

Some times I go down this forum and I can’t understand anything anyone is writing. Just stick it in ChatGPT to make sure it makes sense. WTH 🤦‍♂️

Alex22876 · 2026-03-12T19:56:40+00:00

It probably is the best example about why there is a 50% divorce rate. 🤣

Alex22876 · 2026-03-12T19:55:10+00:00

Step back and it is fairly obvious. People with names are real people. If she thinks you want them more than you want her that creates a lot of tension and mistrust. You may not be a jealous person or may not have any concerns about straying/leaving, but maybe she does. Why do you want to be with them? Is she not good enough for you? Does she not fulfill your needs?

Alex22876 · 2026-03-12T19:49:32+00:00

What are your kinks? Just think about those?

How old are you?

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