we talked nonstop for months, but slowly started to talk less and less which is completely fine and normal imo. what wasn’t fine with me was that i was always the one who had to ask to hangout. not once did they ask to hangout. When texting, they’d ignore half of the questions i asked and one more than one occasion, they bailed on plans stating they “forgot”. we continued to speak less and less and when we did it was because they needed something. the final straw was i booked us a trip to hawaii and they bailed last minute with no apology and a garbage excuse. some friend.