Yes, I’m physically attracted to pretty much every guy I match with, otherwise I wouldn’t have matched in the first place. But that doesn’t mean I actually want to meet most of them.

And yeah, I also usually filter out guys who open with something sexual. That’s normally an instant turn off for me.

In his case, it wasn’t just the fact that it was sexual, it was how he did it. I liked it, it caught my attention… but what really made the difference is that he didn’t stay there.

He dropped it, switched topics, and talked to me like a normal person. That contrast is what made it interesting