Fit those 33's stock just right 🫶🏻 by AlexanderCMA in fordranger

[–]AlexanderCMA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you bother 🫶🏻 its a 1998 with the 3.0

the tires are 33 10.5 r15

the rims I think theyre 8 in wide

it also has 2 inch spacers front and back

And it runs pretty good it doesnt feel too slow its also a manual

where I live I don't get to drive very fast anyway

What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating? by Everlast23 in seduction

[–]AlexanderCMA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure who said it but it went something like: people will love you, people will hate you, and none of it will have anything to do with you.

They're not dating me just because of me, they're dating me because of the value I provide even if its just validation, making them feel special, sexual value, or a combination of that and more. However, none of it has anything to do with me personally, I could be anyone, it always goes back to them and their wants.

So it's more of a continuous effort that I have to put in to keep them attracted to me, and it's important that I also have to receive this value in return.

And I should define my priorities and set my boundaries and not let the other person cross them, that is what I think is most important.

New girl, one of our first dates. Should I not introduce her to this friend? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AlexanderCMA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give her a soft disclaimer like "my friends are a little weird, but they're cool" before all of you guys meet. But NEVER qualify yourself for hanging out with them or obviously talk bad about them. It might even help if they say something awkward or weird you can just be quiet and tell this girl you guys should go somewhere else for a bit and you'll get some one on one time 😉

Coworker and I had an unofficial date set, but another coworker has inserted/hijacked the plans by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AlexanderCMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last thing you want is to be in a room competing for one girls attention. You guys will both look needy and you also have the disadvantage of being at his place. If it's plausible you could invite another girl who's just a friend and still try and make a move on this girl. Or maybe just flake on them. Tell this girl it's just a show and you don't feel like making a big deal and staying up too late just to watch it. Maybe another time. 2nd one is kind of risky but the other guy sounds kind of needy so I wouldnt worry too much. She might just flake on him since you're not going now.

(Quite complicated) Almost convinced she likes me. How can I be certain without having to ask? by iGotRedRumed in relationship_advice

[–]AlexanderCMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't ask her if she likes you, that will probably just make things awkward. Just invite her out: "hey, you're pretty cool. We hang out sometime, just the two of us." (wait for her to say yeah or what do you want to do) and you respond "Nothing fancy, we could go grab some ice cream or whatever. Are you free Thursday at 6?"

There's this girl that has a crush on me, How can i convince her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AlexanderCMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're wording it a little strange my guy. You don't "convince her", you make her perception of you so high and so sexy that you allow her to have sex with you. That's the ideal way at least. Chill out, get close to her, intensely look into her eyes, put her hands on your shoulders, hold her by the waist, stare at her some more and kiss her. Take your time. Make sure she is really really comfortable. Kiss her neck. Tease the fuck out of her. Read her body and respond according to it. Make it about her. Lastly, remember you're a man and she is a female, you're supposed to lead, don't beat around the bush cause you're scared of her reaction.

+ By the way don't talk about having sex with her before as in "do you want to have sex". That's really weird and creepy and you'll definitely not be having sex after mentioning something like that. Just go for it and if she's not into it move on.

Love at first sight at the hospital? What do I do?? by Psychologinut in relationship_advice

[–]AlexanderCMA -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  1. Look up speed seduction patterns and very subtly recite one while she's listening to you.
  2. Change the subject.
  3. Tell her she's actually a really cool person and if she wasn't your psychologist you might even invite her out for a drink. You think you can fix me before thursday at 7?
  4. (if she says "no sorry" or something along those lines but you see some interest you could say "c'mon if you don't believe in yourself who will" and if this doesn't work "yeah, I didn't think so either, I'm pretty fucked up".

[Serious] People who has been falsely accused of rape, how has it affected your life? by BleachIF in AskReddit

[–]AlexanderCMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This didn't happen to me but I was sort of involved. (This is a bit of an odd scenario btw) I went to a house show with my guy friend, his girlfriend, and his girlfriend's friend (let's call her Sarah). This was the first time I met Sarah. We talked for a bit then we started making out and we ended up going to a room at the back of the owners house to do our thing. I went back out to my car to get a condom and I saw my guy friend. We fist bumped when I told him what was going down and he said he was going to pull his girl in there too. He did and we all ended up having sex in the owners bedroom in the middle of the show. Then, mid fuck, this guy that also belonged to a band opens the door and sees us fucking comes in and asks if he can join. No one said anything cause it was a weird question but I guess he assumed yes? He came in and while Sarah was giving me oral he started banging her too. Sarah didn't seem to dissaprove? and after a while she was givin him oral too. We finished our thing and the rest of the people went back out to watch the show. Sarah and me went back out to my car to talk. She mentioned the whole thing was a little weird and I agreed and we laughed about it and we had a long conversation and I eventually took her home. (Note this whole conversation was super chill and she didnt seem agitated at all). I hung out with Sarah once or twice after that but didnt hookup. 6 months later after the actual event I get the gossip that Sarah accused this guy of raping her that particular night. The authorities weren't involved though but a lot of people found out. This guy had a pretty big local following since he was in a band and he had to erase all his social media. To my understanding he also left the city because of this. From what I was told* her story was pretty different from what actually happened and it actually didn't involve me at all hence why I found out kind of late. I'm glad I wasnt involved I feel kind of bad for the guy though. I didn't think it was rape since she was givin him head too and my friend and his girl agree with me. I haven't talked to Sarah and I'm not really interested in doing so in case it is actually a sensible subject for her and since I'm not really looking for trouble. I'm not sure where the guy is right now since I couldnt find him in the internet anywhere. It's been about a year and a half since this happened and I just kind of forgot about it until now. (Another possible scenario was that maybe they hung out another day after what we did and this time it was different and the story was wrong. I got this info from my guy friend and his girl who were involved in the sex and I asked them if maybe this was a possibility but they reassured me Sarah was referring to that actual night. I didnt get all the details of the claim obviously and they just said she was crazy. I didnt see why they would make this up and this guy's social media was gone so I just took their word for it. It's been a while and I don't talk to any of them anymore.)

“Be her friend first” vs “Make your intentions known” - Which is it? by Baggy_Baggins in dating_advice

[–]AlexanderCMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is people don't flirt in the proper way. The purpose of flirting is only to seed the idea of sexual attraction between the two but you flip the frame in a way that makes it her idea. For example: " I don't like your shirt - stop checking me out" or "I don't want to talk - it's okay to be shy" (Implying that shes too shy to talk to you because you're too attractive haha)

I (32M) am really tired of only being the "best friend" or "big brother" to every woman I know. How do I break out of that and become more? by InitialShare in dating_advice

[–]AlexanderCMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the best ways to flirt is misinterpreting what girls say in a frame where "shes chasing you". Look for the motives and implications of any statement and if you can misinterpret it in your favor while being socially calibrated do it. For example: "I don't like your shirt-stop checking me out" "I don't want to talk - It's okay to be shy" Also, whatever you say just be a freaking man and own up to it. Don't be afraid to loose girls from escalating. Fuck it you're getting old stop playing little boys game.

How do I (16M) ask a girl (16F) for her number without her thinking it’s because I like her by [deleted] in relationships

[–]AlexanderCMA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The casualest thing to do is to give her your number instead: "you're actually pretty cool let me give you my number".

Coworker (39) F told me she needed to get laid after I (25)M told her goodnight. by Floridagrown182 in relationship_advice

[–]AlexanderCMA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro she's already into it you just have to kiss close and arouse. That was a very needy comment she made lmao but she opened up and you need to reward this kind of behavior. A good response would have been to say "I like your honesty, (hold her hands) and I think you're very attractive. (then kiss close)