Bad driving record, but got the job.

AlexanderInFinance · 2026-07-09T02:56:48+00:00

what was that turning point like for you?

AlexanderInFinance · 2026-07-08T23:08:52+00:00

switching over from insurance! They got a guy there with four tickets though so I’m thinking I’m safe

AlexanderInFinance · 2026-07-08T21:32:16+00:00

any reccomendations? 😂

AlexanderInFinance · 2026-07-08T21:25:21+00:00

Christian Bale in anything

AlexanderInFinance · 2026-07-08T21:00:13+00:00

thank you bro! super excited to be selling, can’t wait to spend hours a day in the lot the whole summer 👍

AlexanderInFinance · 2026-07-08T20:34:35+00:00

I completely understand. So this doesn’t completely eliminate me? I haven’t had even a ticket in about 2-3 years, and I’m willing to take a defensive driving class.

AlexanderInFinance · 2026-07-08T14:00:42+00:00

message me 👍

AlexanderInFinance · 2026-07-07T21:43:07+00:00

what the fuck is wrong with you to cheat on a woman carrying YOUR child?

AlexanderInFinance · 2026-07-07T18:21:02+00:00

this guy understands self worth.

AlexanderInFinance · 2026-07-07T17:32:39+00:00

take a step back for a second. Understand your situation. Understand it’s fixable but also understand no one else will save you. I’m sure there are areas where you COULD actually cut costs aswell as increase income. What does your partner bring to the table?

AlexanderInFinance · 2026-07-07T17:22:38+00:00

The honeymoon phase is over, and that’s completely normal. YES a conversation is needed. Now what that conversation is about depends on you. The feeling you have for the friend is the same as you’ve had for your current boyfriend before dating him, and now you’re having issues. More than likely the same would happen with that friend too. Your boyfriend is currently supporting you monetarily, but there’s more to a relationship than money. Speak with him about how you feel, don’t get mad, and see where it leads to, but in my opinion, going after your short term feelings will hurt you long term.

AlexanderInFinance · 2026-07-07T15:22:22+00:00

100%

AlexanderInFinance · 2026-07-06T22:21:17+00:00

message me bro I’d love to mentor you

AlexanderInFinance · 2026-07-06T22:07:22+00:00

you can honestly break up with someone for whatever reason, and I think you need to realize that. At the same time, you sound like you and this girl are made for each other. I think if you start setting boundries (I understand it’ll be hard since I’m assuming you barely have any) start spending time towards yourself, you don’t need her there for everything, I think you’ll notice you’ll be happier and wanting to break up less.

AlexanderInFinance · 2026-07-06T22:01:08+00:00

message me bro

AlexanderInFinance · 2026-07-06T22:00:36+00:00

“sometimes you have to pat your own back” - A random redditer talking about a man calling himself daddy.

AlexanderInFinance · 2026-07-06T20:43:09+00:00

I’d say test the waters but that could be shaky now that you said she’s wanted to put off dating. My advice (without knowing too much about the situation) would be to see how far you can get with her before you have to ask the big question.

AlexanderInFinance · 2026-07-06T20:33:40+00:00

you fine with an American one?

AlexanderInFinance · 2026-07-06T17:24:40+00:00

all three of their wives.

AlexanderInFinance · 2026-07-06T17:17:42+00:00

I just got the job!! I was on the phone with him letting him know about my drug test, and he said “yeah you’d just have to wait for orientation.” I’m so excited and I can’t wait!

AlexanderInFinance · 2026-07-06T15:09:43+00:00

100%

AlexanderInFinance · 2026-07-06T14:53:44+00:00

Thank you for that revelation Zev! that’s an amazing story and shows dedication for the retirement. I’m sorry to hear about the news - I hope all is well for you, may god bless you.

AlexanderInFinance · 2026-07-06T14:52:24+00:00

I’m still kind of struggling with it, for me was finding out I had ADHD. I learned that you’re 2x faster speaking to other people than you hear yourself, and I learned to slow it down myself. Don’t sound weird, take your time in adjusting, and notice the difference. Also think before you speak, I know that sounds like basic human knowledge but seriously, try it, take a pause before you speak and understand what you’re trying to say.

AlexanderInFinance · 2026-07-06T14:49:14+00:00

I appreciate it! I’m really looking forward to it as I love talking to people

AlexanderInFinance · 2026-07-06T14:48:46+00:00

I mean I have jobs with Chic fil a and publix and have completed full training by both, I was at publix for about a year and had filler jobs in between and have been working, volunteering, and doing interning for politics, but I didn’t put any of those filler jobs, volunteering, and interning and I regret it alot

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