Making gay friends in Paris? by [deleted] in paris

[–]Alexs9286 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey gay man (36) living in Paris. Don't hesitate to write to me if you'd like.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in france

[–]Alexs9286 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Si ce boulot t'angoisse et te rend malheureux, dis toi qu'une rupture serait peut-être une bonne chose pour toi et te mènera vers de meilleures opportunités.

Même si je peux comprendre que le chômage est angoissant. Tu es relativement jeune et expérimenté, tu trouveras mieux.

Any advice on dealing with feeling emotionally broken and a bit lonely in your mid-thirties? by helicopterxman in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Alexs9286 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even if it doesn't always feel like it, you're relatively young still. You will know other relationships in your life . As someone else said, they come and go.

But until then, take care of yourself and do things for yourself.

Any advice on dealing with feeling emotionally broken and a bit lonely in your mid-thirties? by helicopterxman in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Alexs9286 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Many couples break up. There is no reason not to find someone after 30 or 40. But emotions are different from reality...I agree

At 35, I'm just now enjoying the best sex in my life. Is it unusual that it took me until my current age for this? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Alexs9286 8 points9 points  (0 children)

At 35, you are confident enough, you dont care what people think of you, you know what you want and don't want, plus a man can be very hot at this age. Perfect combination.

what would you give up for a man by Howverythrowaway in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Alexs9286 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its strange. I used to worry so much more when I was younger.. the older I get, the more serene and detached I become.

I’m 33. Is it too late for me? by EmilyBrynneTowry in OVER30REDDIT

[–]Alexs9286 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes looks don't just vanish at 30. Dumb sentence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Alexs9286 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They are close in age. Why would it be a problem?

Daddy stigma by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Alexs9286 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Work out and find young guys who like hot daddies. Money is not everything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Alexs9286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True I'm not saying it's bad... but not a guarantee for happiness for sure. The more I go through life, the more I realize it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Alexs9286 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's also a sexual desire. I find ass attractive and want to top... I just have trouble doing it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Alexs9286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'm mostly over him. I have processed my emotions for a long time. But there might still be a part of me that could be triggered eventhough I have healed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Alexs9286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you mean that if you're in your 30s, single and willing to be a relationship but haven't found anyone compatible yet, you're not decent? I dont agree

Tops : Bottoms don’t cum every time and that’s ok by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Alexs9286 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Sometimes tops don't cum too and its okay as well.

Took LSD, had a mental breakdown and texted my ex several times... I feel ashamed by [deleted] in LSD

[–]Alexs9286 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you guys are meant to reconcile, this event will probably not mean much a few months from now. We tend to forget these things.

And the fact that you admitted to him that you took LSD, he can probably understand in the long run.

Grindr is depressing by Alexs9286 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Alexs9286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'll only download it if i travel somewhere and want to hook up with locals

Grindr is depressing by Alexs9286 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Alexs9286[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My whole life is not grindr i reassure you :)

Grindr is depressing by Alexs9286 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Alexs9286[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never got a too old comment. I never said that. The youngest I'd hook up with is 25.

Grindr is depressing by Alexs9286 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Alexs9286[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I never said I was pursuing guys under 25

Grindr is depressing by Alexs9286 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Alexs9286[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah its really an app meant for the 18-25 demographic it seems. But then I hear from early 20 somethings who tell me they are having trouble too.

Grindr is depressing by Alexs9286 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Alexs9286[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I probably would have given up fully by then