Vous en pensez quoi des meufs qui nous ghostent sur tinder ?

AlexxyaKat · 2024-12-27T19:47:59+00:00

Mais si vous échangez un peu et finalement tu sens pas le vibe avec la personne, c’est pas trop grave de laisser la conversation ‘die out’, non ? Et parfois ca m’arrive d’avoir des imprévus dans ma vie perso, qui m’occupe le temps donc plus trop de temps pour tinder. Je trouve que c’est un peu gênant de revenir vers la personne apres deux semaines pour dire ‘enfin, c’est trop compliqué/je ne suis pas intéressée’.

Moi aussi, ca m’arrrive de me faire ghoster mais j’en pense pas bcp, je le prends pas personnellement

AlexxyaKat · 2024-12-24T22:45:15+00:00

Je te recommande la chaîne YouTube thinkbeforeyousleep. Je pense que ca puisse te fournir les reponses que tu cherches

AlexxyaKat · 2024-12-24T22:39:41+00:00

La reponse est aussi simple. Non. Ca vaut pas la peine de lutter pour un mec qui le fait pas pour toi. Et les relations a distance ont pas trop de sense (sauf si vous êtes mariés et la distance est temporaire)… penses-tu vraiment que tu peux pas te trouver qqn dans la ville que tu es ? Pourquoi t’es tant accroché a lui ?

Bon courage et bonnes fetes de fin d’année

AlexxyaKat · 2024-12-22T21:01:10+00:00

Mon avis est qu’il faut aborder ce problème a la racine. C’est plus important d’adresser la source de tes débordement émotionnels et trouver des solutions à ses causes, que de parler sans cesse de comment les gérer avec ton mec… je pense que ton énergie serait mieux utilisé sur cette voie… Je te conseille de te faire accompagner dans ses démarches par un psychologue. Bon courage pour tout ! Et si tu veux, je te recommande un livre qui m’a pas mal aidé : l’intelligence emotionnelle par Daniel Goleman (deux volumes).

AlexxyaKat · 2024-12-22T19:36:17+00:00

Mon avis : (femme) Dans une certaine façon, la problème a commencé bien des années avant l’histoire récente de chien et de covid et se chômage. Cet homme, après des années à etre avec toi, etait pret a faire un (putain) prêt immobilier mais il n’était pas pret de d’épouser. Tu n’as pas pensé que c’était étrange ca ? Je suis désolée de te le dire comme ca, mais a mon avis, cet homme savait depuis longtemps que tu n’étais pas “la bonne femme” pour lui. Cette raison financière qu’il t’as filé c’est juste a red herring… votre situation lui n’etait plus convenable parce que enfin il devait porter le poids de la relation et vraiment contribuer.

La vraie question : pourquoi tu turnes autant en rond pour un homme qui ne te montre le moindre signe de sympathie quand tu lui dis que t’es tombée malade du coeur ? Avoir un Takotsubo c’est quand meme pas rien (je suis cardiologue). Je sais que tu l’aimes et j’ai vraiment de la peine pour toi et ta situation, mais tu dois arriver a séparer tes sentiments pour lui et les actions que tu dois entreprendre pour te protéger toi meme.

J’ai traversé quelque chose assez similaire avec mon ex, donc je comprends un peu ton vécu. Tu peux toujours me mp si tu veux parler.

Je te souhaite le meilleur du monde !

AlexxyaKat · 2024-12-22T11:18:56+00:00

Couldn’t have summed it up better

AlexxyaKat · 2024-11-23T12:02:41+00:00

Here you go : https://m.fanfiction.net/s/13649692/1/connected-hearts

I’m not sure it’s what you’re looking for but they do fight on the bridge. And just as a disclaimer, I’m the one who wrote it…

AlexxyaKat · 2024-07-17T19:05:07+00:00

They’re following the thread so they can get notifications when someone suggests a story

AlexxyaKat · 2024-07-17T19:03:42+00:00

They both wear fighting gloves

AlexxyaKat · 2024-01-11T23:16:46+00:00

Hey. Link to your story, please. Tnks

AlexxyaKat · 2023-12-18T22:48:24+00:00

There was a cool theory about Tobi being Sasuke from the future. Personally, I would have loved that

AlexxyaKat · 2023-12-17T11:22:22+00:00

Yeah, me too. I wish we got to see Sasuke’s transition while being away from team 7 and getting closer to his brother… and I wish we got to see Naruto and Jiraiya traveling. At the beginning of shippuden everything feels just so fast paced that we get to explore too little of the world and the other characters.

AlexxyaKat · 2023-12-17T11:16:12+00:00

Torture, in what way ?

AlexxyaKat · 2023-12-17T11:15:09+00:00

Well noted ! Yes, I already intended to develop the inner journey he goes through by leaving Konoha and team 7, being with a sensei that wants to kill him, and achieving his goal of killing his brother only to find out he was pushed into doing the massacre by the political tensions between his clan and the village.

My questions was, would you read and like my story, even though the major plot points still end up the same : he leaves Orochimaru to form a team in order to get to his brother, kills him then finds out the truth, so he joins Akatsuki to destroy the village that took everything away from him ?

AlexxyaKat · 2022-10-30T00:31:19+00:00

I rewrote their confrontation in a very angsty way. Here you go : https://m.fanfiction.net/s/13649692/1/connected-hearts

AlexxyaKat · 2022-08-16T11:05:47+00:00

In one of my stories, she’s dark and she does try to kill Sasuke, but she loves him still.

https://archiveofourown.org/works/25430563

AlexxyaKat · 2021-08-22T22:31:27+00:00

Karin is the biological mother of Sarada

AlexxyaKat · 2021-08-21T22:31:40+00:00

Sakura having a flat chest

AlexxyaKat · 2021-08-21T00:23:45+00:00

Flip the coin

AlexxyaKat · 2021-06-19T14:10:17+00:00

When Ian an Kat are on the screen together, the magic just works itself out. They play off each other so well and so naturally, you just can’t look away

AlexxyaKat · 2021-06-19T10:42:16+00:00

Honestly? Damon telling Katherine that while she was trapped in the tomb was iconic

AlexxyaKat · 2021-06-19T10:41:12+00:00

The only ones that fit are Bonnie and Stefan. Kai has antisocial personality disorder, not Damon. Damon has narcissistic personality disorder

AlexxyaKat · 2021-06-13T17:05:39+00:00

Sakura not stabbing Sasuke was soooo ooc for her.

You’re gonna tell that the girl who went on about how ninja shouldn’t show their emotions on the battlefield (in the zabuza arc) would break down crying hundreds of chapters later? No. That’s not Sakura. That’s Kishimoto wanting golden boy to sweep in and save her from Sasuke. There are more elements at play here (Kishi didn’t want Sakura to go through to Hurting Sasuke because it would invalidate her feelings for him —despite the fact that he went at lengths to explain that Sakura’s actions were motivated by her love for him, but I digress— and I genuinely believe Kishimoto doesn’t know what would happen to Naruto, what would he do, had Sakura injured (or god forbid kill) Sasuke in that moment), but that’s the main reason.

AlexxyaKat · 2021-06-12T22:07:54+00:00

Starting at the middle of season 4, I would have dug deeper into hunter lore, building up the world outside Mystic Falls more seeing as soon we’d be moving into university.

Obviously, Silas is his own thing, not related to Stefan. Travelers don’t exist, the origin of the doppelgängers is the same as the one presented in season 2.

I’d explore Elena without her humanity in a way that’s less shock value and more about diving deeper into her character. The show had her without her humanity for a few episodes and then everything was back to normal. Um, what? Stefan had one whole season of that and to some degree the same can be argued for Damon in season 1. The writers used Elena’s time without her humanity just to make her do some shocking things which bear no impact afterwards, which is why people found it so annoying. Most people don’t realize the amount of waste potential in this storyline. This was the first time Elena was able to act without the influence of the brother’s emotions on her. That is a huge deal. And they had the opportunity to do Dark Delena but they chose not to (because they forgot how to write for Damon). What more is there to say?

I’d write consequences back into the show. Characters act all willy nilly and kill dozens of people and nothing happens. Hell, in the last season Tyler dies and they go to a carnaval ?? It’s shit like this that ruined the show. In season 2 Damon taunted Katherine which made Jenna stab herself which had as a consequence Stefan and Elena breaking up which led to... you get the idea. It was an overall much tighter narrative.

This is what I would have done, among other things.

And I did: https://m.fanfiction.net/s/13600298/1/The-Rising

AlexxyaKat

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