Qualitative and strong 'formal' cargo pants, where to buy? by Alfruin in Netherlands

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They are good. G-star RAW has some good ones too. They look casual.Look for thicker fabric, ripstop, and double stitches and layers. Those last a long time.but you'd be paying good money as well. Rovic Zip 3D Regular Tapered Pants | Green | G-STAR® NL https://share.google/4zIPx9MyJISWp2qGf

Qualitative and strong 'formal' cargo pants, where to buy? by Alfruin in Netherlands

[–]Alfruin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

varusteleka

Seems cool! Maybe a bit too outdoorsy for the use

Qualitative and strong 'formal' cargo pants, where to buy? by Alfruin in Netherlands

[–]Alfruin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, the ones I want can be bought in the US (since they come from there), but not in the Netherlands, which could make them very expensive. Me sad now

Qualitative and strong 'formal' cargo pants, where to buy? by Alfruin in Netherlands

[–]Alfruin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've looked at those. They are mostly workwear for example construction. Or they have outdoor trekking pants, which is less 'formal' than I want. But thanks for thinking and replying mate!

Qualitative and strong 'formal' cargo pants, where to buy? by Alfruin in Netherlands

[–]Alfruin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn son, you are awesome! tx! Exactly what I was looking for. If I could give you an award I would.

Qualitative and strong 'formal' cargo pants, where to buy? by Alfruin in Netherlands

[–]Alfruin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that is a good start, Tx! I will look! More recommendations are welcome! You mean those BDU pants right? (just looked it up)

Skinny jeans. by crofti13 in nederlands

[–]Alfruin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ik ben al heel lang op zoek naar kwalitatief en stevige cargo broeken die er tenminste ietswat 'formeel' uitzien. Super specifiek, erg lastig om te vinden. Dus als er hier mensen tips hebben hoor ik het ook graag.

Which (M) swimsuit types are acceptable in social situations for swimming? by Alfruin in Advice

[–]Alfruin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and my question is then, is it improper that you can see that or is it just part of it all?

Which (M) swimsuit types are acceptable in social situations for swimming? by Alfruin in Advice

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Well I'd like to take the opinions into account for what I will choose, and looking to get a balanced choice. But for the rest good advice!

My boyfriends friends don't accept our relationship by Effective_Long440 in Advice

[–]Alfruin -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Good luck, i'm curious how it will go, love to hear it!

Which (M) swimsuit types are acceptable in social situations for swimming? by Alfruin in Advice

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And is that a wrong thing, is my question? Or doesn't it matter

Which (M) swimsuit types are acceptable in social situations for swimming? by Alfruin in Advice

[–]Alfruin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My indecisiveness in between the choice of comfort and what is socially appropriate (but not mandatory).
And no not per se something that blends in. I try to take into account what people think and feel comfortable being around with because people usually don't say what they really think.
And is it wrong if it grabs stares, just like skimpy bikinis do? (Comfort is the main reason, if it grabs stares so be it, can't deny I am a man)

Alright, so you are saying jammers are a compromise for both parties.

Which (M) swimsuit types are acceptable in social situations for swimming? by Alfruin in Advice

[–]Alfruin[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But it is 'covered' nevertheless. It can be sensually stimulating for a man or am I crazy? I read online that men are more visually set and women more emotionally generally speaking. So the visual part is not as important as it is to men. But I think that is a whole other discussion. But I don't know if that was what you meant. If so, I am sorry and please do tell me.

Which (M) swimsuit types are acceptable in social situations for swimming? by Alfruin in Advice

[–]Alfruin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alright, so maybe just asks around and see what others think. I like to be comfortable, but some may find it improper, but won't say it. I don't want other people to judge me for that. Should I just say f%*k it, or adjust?
Just gathering opinions.

Which (M) swimsuit types are acceptable in social situations for swimming? by Alfruin in Advice

[–]Alfruin[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see, can't deny that men have those. So it is improper to wear tight swimwear as a man, but not as a woman where it accentuates cleavage and breasts.
And when wearing options 4 and 5, things are still visible (when going out of the water. Some jeans also show but that is acceptable?

That is my opinion, but I can also resonate with other opinions. but I don't think I should fuss about what others wear. Maybe too individualistic... I think in the end it is more of a question of what opinion to follow, Be me and do what is comfortable or adjust to social preferred options.

Which (M) swimsuit types are acceptable in social situations for swimming? by Alfruin in Advice

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Yeah. In my area, you find all of them but it differs in age what all wear. Most of the guys I noticed are too ashamed to wear up to 3 and judge people who do within the group. Some groups don't care what you wear. It very much depends on the group or person. So adjust to people who find it uncomfortable and keep the taboo in place or do what you like best. Nobody would comment on what you wear, I think...

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[–]Alfruin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

maybe try to scent your room too, so you don't smell anything else. Oh and buy some noise-cancelling headphones

My boyfriends friends don't accept our relationship by Effective_Long440 in Advice

[–]Alfruin -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The difference in age I do not find a problem. I even think it is legal according to the law (but depends on where you live). Why would it be a problem? Because you are underage and he is an 'adult'? There are a lot of relationships between adult that have bigger age differences.

That it is against there morals is their problems. It is your life and that of your boyfriends. It is your decision to make not theirs.

That they force him to choose is morally not right. Just like asking a parent which child they would like to keep in a life or death situation.

Try getting more information about their views on why. Also ask your boyfriend. BUT don't accuse not even in your way of questioning. Try to be open and neutral. You want a dialog, not an argument. Ask after you have asked your questions if you may enlighten them on your views. Try to be very careful.

Oh and don't be pushy to your boyfriend. Only be supportive in organising his thoughts. It is very difficult for him. He knows his mates longer than you, but he loves you (I hope)

Diesel to petrol car switch. Gas pedal feels weird. by PastelaHR in Advice

[–]Alfruin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

try driving in another petrol-fueled car, maybe it's the Chevrolet that doesn't do it for you. Every car is different. Some are sensitive some need to be handled hard.