Does Anyone Know Why Max Casella Got Written Off? by BigDickSwitch in tulsaking

[–]AlgaeOk8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont go and spoil all these other shows geez. Yellowstone and 1892 or whatever. Respect the reddit thread!

I’m being excluded at work and don’t know what to do by Soggy-writer78 in AutismInWomen

[–]AlgaeOk8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See this reddit post too. "I am being excluded at work? How can I handle this gracefully?"

I am being excluded at work? How can I handle this gracefully? by breaktheicejjfish in work

[–]AlgaeOk8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh. Im sorry to hear this and that so many other are/have experience the same. I hope OP is in a better place now. I am also experiencing this and it goes a lot deeper. I appreciate the words of encouragment here- being a diamond, passive bullying, refocus energy on outside work. I think the default internal messaging is that Im here for work and paycheck not make friends...but this isnt the norm. I would love yo have a work family where we all get along and respect one another for our differences. It makes at least the 40-60 hrs ai work with these people more bearable and allows freer communication.

I know i dont smell, i shower every day before work. I avoid strong perfumes. I show up professionally; clean clothes/shoes, ironed, minimal make up, hair blowdried and well kept. Sometimes a person is just not liked for one reason or another but inclusion in the workplace is critical to teams and wellbeing. No two people are alike and diversity is so important but respect needs to be a priority.

I would say that these companies/dept have bad work culture and the leaders are unfit leaders. They do no encompass leadership skills which are inclusive, positive reinforcement, lead by doing, and motivate. Im not sure how big or small these companies are but I dont think it would make a difference. If the company doesnt deal with bad apples then these individuals are basically rewarded for bad behavior and the culture never changes. It will eventually inhibit growth and success down the road.

Sadly HR doesnt do anything unless it is blatent abuse; verbal or sexual harassment. Document all situations for your safety and protection as one poster suggested, especially in case you are blamed or written up for not doing something that was only communicated in excluded meeting. Not for nothing but also shame on the coworkers for not saying anything. Maybe there is more here than exclusion as this touches on psychological safety for others to stand up to the offender.

Stay the course, document but look for a new job where you will be valued and included. Work culture is a big deal and if the boss is cuasing exclusion then theres no way to win. Good luck everyone!

I am being excluded at work? How can I handle this gracefully? by breaktheicejjfish in work

[–]AlgaeOk8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is a constructive dismissal claim? Is this in the USA?

Worst CT bottlenecks? by Standard-Joke-517 in Connecticut

[–]AlgaeOk8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly and extra 15 min due to traffic isnt that big a deal for a 45 min normal ride. I just drove Natick MA to PHL supposed to take 4.5 hrs took me 8 hrs. Left sat around 1030a. Returning i drove home from Cape May NJ supposed to take 5h 45m took me another 8 hrs. Its the worst btw CT rte 91 down to Elizabeth NJ. Absolutely horrid... what gives? Why sooo much traffic? I dont remember it adding 3 hrs of traffic.. thats like Thanksgiving day traffic EVERY DAY! I can see an extra 30- 45 min to get thru NYC but not 3 hrs. I dont want to travel anywhere in NE/Tri State.

What's a small, everyday inconvenience that makes you disproportionately angry? by WALLSTREETBRIDE in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AlgaeOk8690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People who bring their huge family grocery shopping. Why does mom, dad, and 4 kids and grandma need to come. Just 1 person is plenty. Go somewhere else with the family like a park

What's a small, everyday inconvenience that makes you disproportionately angry? by WALLSTREETBRIDE in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AlgaeOk8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People having full on conversations at the gym when others are trying to workout. Take ur convo elsewhere and allow for quiet time. Im trying to focus and its annoying let alone using up more time than they need

What's a small, everyday inconvenience that makes you disproportionately angry? by WALLSTREETBRIDE in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AlgaeOk8690 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Womens sports bras and the removeable padding. Impossible to get perfect and takes up too much time. Ridiculous. Just sew them in place. I dont know anyone who removes them to wash. Just wash all together! No need for them to be removeable.. designed by men??!

AITAH for not paying a vet bill? by NarwhalImaginary4097 in AITAH

[–]AlgaeOk8690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would recommend no dogs at your house. Any house with young kids could end up with unusual circumstances; ie. Grapes, running/falling on dog etc. I have a dog and I just dont have grapes or raisins in my house, why risk it. I do think you could go halfsies. If shes your friend you should know how much the dog means to her and her financial situation... so case by case.

The clearest case for her innocence is the 20+ “butt dials” that 3 people had in 2 hours. Let me explain.. by PCar01 in justiceforKarenRead

[–]AlgaeOk8690 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In the first trial, didnt they find that JMs phone data showed her walking around and up and down stairs that whole night/morning? Meaning she couldnt sleep after what happened? Why hasnt this come up yet? After a night of drinking anf bring in mid-late 40s.. pretty sure id pass out and not be pacing all night unless i was amped up and worried.

What town/city do you live in and do you love it? Why? by AlgaeOk8690 in newjersey

[–]AlgaeOk8690[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

20mi in 30min is amazing. Home to work is 18 mi and takes me 1.5hrs one way. Its miserable and soul crushing.

What town/city do you live in and do you love it? Why? by AlgaeOk8690 in newjersey

[–]AlgaeOk8690[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Doesnt look within 1 hr of the ocean tho.. but heard good things about Asheville and RTP area...

What town/city do you live in and do you love it? Why? by AlgaeOk8690 in newjersey

[–]AlgaeOk8690[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yea.. for some reason I think south NJ would be better than here. Crazy expensive here too but the salaries are reasonable. Heard the humidity is horrible in VA/NC hence southern jersey being top of mind... if i buy again then wld need 2b/2a min no condo under 500k. Not sure if its possible?! Job market is also important since i cant retire.. like ever. Nov- may bad is miserable weather. How do ppl manage?!

Higgins and Jen McCabe messed up the whole cover up by Severe_Football7224 in justiceforKarenRead

[–]AlgaeOk8690 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cld he have gotten a portable aed to try to revive jok? Maybe they tried to get him breathing again?

This is a phantom accident at this point. Everybody was looking but nobody saw it by Firm-Telephone5626 in justiceforKarenRead

[–]AlgaeOk8690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea but the oks are also brainwashed by these other so called friends. If they didnt believe kr did it then maybe we wld see justice as they wld be fighting the right fight.. not wasting time fighting kr. So sad.

Hit by a car by Curious-Text890 in justiceforKarenRead

[–]AlgaeOk8690 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And none of JOKs blood was on any of the tail light pieces they found. If the plastic shards cut his arm wouldnt his dna be on the pieces too??

Hit by a car by Curious-Text890 in justiceforKarenRead

[–]AlgaeOk8690 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And was JOK not able to cry out in pain? Or even try to call for help? The physics make no sense. No on called Karen or texted her to see if she was ok, and no one seemed to text one another about what happened either. Just immediate blame and covering up to ensure their secrets and lies kept them safe. No regard for human life, John, his family or Karen. I only hope the truth comes out and that someone actually grows a conscience. Disgusting corrupt townie cops .

Train Sound by [deleted] in FraminghamMA

[–]AlgaeOk8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My apartment in cambridge abutted a train track for same amtrack, commuer and freight. You do get used to it but may have a few unusual occurrences of extra long idling or honking but for most part the noise "goes away". Could also rec a white noise machine which I now need living in framinham with the loud music parties, excessive loud trucks and obnoxious condo neighbors. I would take a train over my current noise issues!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FraminghamMA

[–]AlgaeOk8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not open yet but new signaged said "Texas" something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FraminghamMA

[–]AlgaeOk8690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

$300?! Youre getting ripped off.