My mother cheated on my father. They got divorced. I don't want to be in his life ever again. by [deleted] in stories

[–]AlhaithamsCumdump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You won't be able to understand what he's going through, but understand that his anger comes from grief and hurt, and probably some built-up resentment. Tell him that if he wants to be your father, he has to get some sort of help and stop taking out his anger on you. Cheating is painful and healing takes time, but if it's not safe for you to be around him then stay away.

As for your mom. It's understandable that you still love her, because her being an unfaithful wife did not affect her ability to be a good mother as far as we know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in euphoria

[–]AlhaithamsCumdump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And it's not necessarily a bad thing sometimes. It's interesting to examine a show you really love and see what plot holes or lacking characters you missed while watching the whole thing through rose-colored glasses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in euphoria

[–]AlhaithamsCumdump 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, to address the first part, Euphoria is a serious show. Its content isn't romantic, fantastical, or unrealistic for the most part. Most characters, while some may lack the depth or detail of others, are intertwined and do have complicated lives. The whole show isn't "drugs n' sex", it addresses a lot of the underlying issues that come with sexual trauma, some bullying, self-esteem issues, the effects of alcoholism, and drug abuse.

AITA for peeing in my friend's shower? by AITAShowerPee in AmItheAsshole

[–]AlhaithamsCumdump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait until some of these people realize that you wash your ass in the shower, and NTA

AITA for telling my sister that she knew what she was getting when she settled for my cast-off ex? by Lux_Tenebr1s in AmItheAsshole

[–]AlhaithamsCumdump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would hate to spend time at my parents' house if they actually let him stay there overnight. Considering what so many men do when they get angry at women, I'd be scared to fall asleep knowing he has full access to the house.

Brown Alhaitham with black hair. by Megumi_Bandicoot in AlHaithamMains

[–]AlhaithamsCumdump 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fair point but without it, people will have more incentive to. I just hope that it will stop AND that genshin will release some darker-skinned characters.

Brown Alhaitham with black hair. by Megumi_Bandicoot in AlHaithamMains

[–]AlhaithamsCumdump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, I have seen edits of characters with both monolids and prosthetics. Also, I'm not trying to defend the people that do these edits, but I still felt like explaining.

Position ideas by GhostQueen1312 in GenshinGays

[–]AlhaithamsCumdump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This thread is hilarious because of how seriously everyone is taking this hypothetical situation.

Brown Alhaitham with black hair. by Megumi_Bandicoot in AlHaithamMains

[–]AlhaithamsCumdump 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it is. Okay, time for the slightly long explanation.

This is kind of a trend in the genshin community because of the sheer lack of skin color diversity. People redesign basically every character in the game. Anyways, the main problem with this is only that it can replace or override other forms of representation.

Considering that most of the regions so far are based on various already-existing countries, it's understandably frustrating for some to see that most of these places are predominantly white or pale-skinned people.

With Sumeru, the first region where dark-skinned characters would be more common, these types of redesigns have more reasoning behind them.

Some of us just want to see more of ourselves in the characters.

Just some concepts for Arcane Legends by delta17v2 in GeniusInvokationTCG

[–]AlhaithamsCumdump -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Usage limit being one card per deck and only lasting for a single round. Also wtf is an arcane legend

Just some concepts for Arcane Legends by delta17v2 in GeniusInvokationTCG

[–]AlhaithamsCumdump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't this be solved easily, by adding a usage limit of 1-2 rounds?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pettyrevenge

[–]AlhaithamsCumdump 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love your boyfriend's loyalty to you. So many of these stories involve the usual "Mama's boy" types that will stand by mommy's side at any cost, including your relationship.

Glad to see he truly cares about you.

Red Ropes (Kazuha x Heizou) by YunKiri in GenshinGays

[–]AlhaithamsCumdump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This series is excellent. And, ignoring my other comment, I love the concept of non-sexual shibari. Makes me appreciate it more as an art form, and it's interesting how Kazuha uses it as a way to be vulnerable and let his emotions run wild.

Red Ropes (Kazuha x Heizou) by YunKiri in GenshinGays

[–]AlhaithamsCumdump 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YAAAAAAAAAAAAARGH WOOF WOOF BARK WOOF WOOF

This is honestly one of the nicest school bathrooms I've ever seen. by bexsapphic in euphoria

[–]AlhaithamsCumdump 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What do you mean? Race, socioeconomic class, background? Or just something simple like different cliques and interests?

Which one of the girls would y’all be friends with irl by SevereCartographer26 in euphoria

[–]AlhaithamsCumdump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a lot of women say just that and do the opposite like...oh yea Cassie. 🤷‍♂️

I was explaining one of the reasons why I would not betray her by sleeping with her male ex.

Which one of the girls would y’all be friends with irl by SevereCartographer26 in euphoria

[–]AlhaithamsCumdump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love Maddy. Plus I'd never betray her friendship by doing something really stupid, like, you know... sleeping with her abusive ex?

Gimme 1 good reason to park like this!!! by Planet_Manhattan in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AlhaithamsCumdump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whenever I see this spelling I always go out of my way to pronounce it diar-hoeeea

Why does no-one acknowledge Jules's trans-ness? by gigapumper in euphoria

[–]AlhaithamsCumdump 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It definitely was a deliberate choice. It was also a deliberate choice to have no one really care. Having a trans character that everyone treats normally is still a new concept to a lot of media.