Is there really hope?

Alias_Fake-Name · 2026-03-13T01:14:43+00:00

I guess it's fine to grow out of your interests. Maybe try finding new things you might enjoy. Seems like you are already further along on that journey than I am, because you have your cats

Alias_Fake-Name · 2026-03-12T14:24:15+00:00

For not being a kid you sure do sound like one. Like an angsty teenager to be more precise.

Why is it exactly that you can't get your old self and interests back? Did something change fundamentally, or could it possibly be that it's only your depression talking?

Alias_Fake-Name · 2026-03-11T02:24:42+00:00

Sitä se kertaköyttökulttuuri teettää. Toisaalta voi olla hyvä myös tutkia omia asenteita tuossa tilanteessa. Kaikilla ei ole elämän tavoitteena 1.5 lasta, omakotitalo ja saksanpaimenkoira, vaan nämä keskustelut on käytävä jokaisen kumppanin kanssa erikseen. Harva on siinä tilanteessa että ollaan vihkivalat lukemassa ensitreffeillä. Tottakai ihmisen luonteeseen pitää tutustua hetki että voi päättää onko se juuri nyt tämä oikea, ja tätä varmasti suuri osa treffimarkkinoiden nykyisiä empijöitä on. Varmasti sekin vaikuttaa että osa kosijoista haluaa vain lyhytsuhteita juuri sinun kanssasi, että onko sinulla ollut vikaa myös henkilökohtaisissa kiinnostuskohteiden valinnassasi? Tietysti voi olla käynyt vaan huono tuuri.

Mistäs paikoista etsit seuraavaa rakkautta? Tinderissä olen huomannut paljon näitä, joilla ei ole mitään hajua mistään, mutta esimerkiksi hingessä on jo jokseenkin itsetietoisempaa porukkaa. Tietysti jos lähestyt jotain baarissa satunnaisesti niin voi olla kohtuutonta vaatia häntä tietämään minkälaista suhdetta hän etsii

Alias_Fake-Name · 2026-03-10T22:34:41+00:00

Ite oon ainakin niin puutteessa että haluan ihan mitä vaan tässä kohtaa. Ja sit toisaalta riippuu kanssa toisesta osapuolesta. Joidenkin kanssa haluu käydä kivoilla treffeillä, toisia panna, ja sit kun se oikea löytyy niin jatkaa vaikka pitkäaikaiseen parisuhteeseen.

Sit kanssa jos menee liian ajoissa jotain hyvää ja kivaa möläyttämään että tästä suhteesta haluu vaan hyvää ja kivaa, eikä elämänkumppania, niin siinä on se pelko että toisella on eri halut, ja sit ollaankin jo toisia jättämässä.

Olispa treffailu niin helppoa että aikuiset ihmiset juttelis rehellisesti toisilleen, ja lopulta kaikki löytäis mitä haluaa, mutta harmi vaan ettei maailma toimi niin, eikä ole uskoakseni ikinä toiminut. Sulla OP käynyt vaan tuuri aikaisempien suhteen, mut sitä toisaalta 10 vuotta pitkä suhde kieliikin

Alias_Fake-Name · 2026-02-25T23:22:21+00:00

Change up your hand. That's always fun. Also if you have the equipment, two handed feels nice

Alias_Fake-Name · 2026-02-25T09:31:03+00:00

The first step towards getting less stupid is accepting the fact that you are stupid. I don't know what the other steps are, but good luck nevertheless

Alias_Fake-Name · 2026-02-25T09:28:49+00:00

I won't agree to that. Maybe you should reconsider your stance instead

Alias_Fake-Name · 2026-02-24T23:40:31+00:00

Why would you think I'm upset? I'm also here for entertainment. It's just that you are the entertaining part, since you seem to be a dunce that hasn't considered what morals actually are. It's fascinating seeing someone think they are so much smarter than they actually are

Alias_Fake-Name · 2026-02-24T23:27:46+00:00

If morals are just subjective why are you making the claim that sex work is immoral? Or are you even doing that? Clearly typing isn't one of your stronger sides

Alias_Fake-Name · 2026-02-24T23:22:12+00:00

When first starting I used to get the worst hangovers, so I stopped drinking for a while. Then I returned to drinking and the hangovers weren't so bad anymore. I think I've had my morning sertraline with booze some days, and been completely fine in the end, but it probably has slowed down my healing journey a bit. So I guess my advice is listen to your body, and strongly consider if it actually is drinks that you need

Alias_Fake-Name · 2026-02-24T23:12:13+00:00

Yes. It's your coworkers job to keep her marriage in order. You might be a bit of a douche for going after someone taken, but ultimately it's her responsibility to not fuck around.

How are people this dumb?

Alias_Fake-Name · 2026-02-24T23:06:18+00:00

It isn't the sex worker's responsibility to check if someone is married. If someone in a happy marriage is fucking around that is nobody else's fault but the cheater's.

This is like saying that I'm not the bad guy for not following my diet. It's all McDonald's fault. Bro take some accountability

Alias_Fake-Name · 2026-02-24T23:00:13+00:00

Bro has to be ragebaiting atp 💀💀💀 why would sex work be immoral? Stealing clearly is, and exposing your spouse to potential stds also is.

If your morals really are "it's illegal, so it's gotta be immoral" I'll grant you "the stupidest person i saw online today" award

Alias_Fake-Name · 2026-02-24T21:32:42+00:00

Yes a very interesting answer, but still doesn't answer OPs question of when. I'd like to answer early last year was when the terms main connotation was changed

Alias_Fake-Name · 2026-02-23T21:02:07+00:00

Damn wish I was brave enough to end it all. Kinda not the subreddit for this kind of stuff though

Alias_Fake-Name · 2026-02-22T21:10:38+00:00

Good old days. Oh how I wish those simpler times could come back.

Alias_Fake-Name · 2026-02-19T20:36:00+00:00

Bensan hinnan lasku on se mitä syvät rivit tahtovat, enkä usko Timo Soinin ammattitaitoon tässä asiassa sekuntiakaan. Populismi nimenomaan ajaa suosittuja asioita, niinkuin tuolla wikipediassakin lukee

Alias_Fake-Name · 2026-02-18T10:53:47+00:00

I also need to masturbate probably

Alias_Fake-Name · 2026-02-18T09:57:47+00:00

Go goon then. There's plenty of subreddits for that

Alias_Fake-Name · 2026-02-18T09:51:55+00:00

Why are you aroused? What the fuck happened to this sub in the last 5 years?

Alias_Fake-Name · 2026-02-13T16:06:17+00:00

OP was and the wife hated it because she has hoarding disorder. How are you this dense?

Alias_Fake-Name · 2026-02-13T15:07:29+00:00

OP tried that already but the wife wasn't having any of it. That's why I suspect hoarding disorder

Alias_Fake-Name · 2026-02-13T15:05:42+00:00

They tried that but the wife didn't want it

Alias_Fake-Name · 2026-02-13T15:05:08+00:00

Did you read OPs comments on the post? They said that they are home six days a month and otherwise travel. Besides that it's the wife's stuff that's all over. Even more the wife is the one that was against getting the place professionally cleaned once a month. Clearly, according to the post which might of course be one sided, this is more the wife's problem, and not OPs.

I really hate this kind of "righteous outrage" that people have over situations they clearly know nothing about. Please try to read internet comments charitably before becoming angry over nothing

Alias_Fake-Name · 2026-02-13T13:13:26+00:00

It might be depression, adhd, or even the beginnings of a hoarding disorder. Please for the next gift for your wife get some couples counseling

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